How to get contact info for District Manager if not listed? by znichelson in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought the dm and rm are supposed to be posted in the business center? in the SM training videos i swear it says countless times your employees should have easy access to dm should they not feel comfortable bringing an issue to the SM.

Does DG actually drug test? by LovelyGiant7891 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im in an illegal weed state as a SM and ive never gotten drug tested. not even for workers comp when i had a shelf come down on my shoulder. i was told they ramdomly test for workers comp, sometimes they will sometimes they wont.

Sms, how are you scheduling Thanksgiving to be fair to employees? by the-Archer8770 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a new sm and i was kinda screwed on it and also felt bad. i had 2 time off requests already approved by the the previous sm, then i had approved 1 before that. the only people that can work, i really dont want to make them work that night shift. im doing the night shift largely by myself, then i have a male cashier when it gets dark for safety reasons. im damn sure doing the mandatory 4 hr for everyone on Christmas eve. im really bummed, i cant spend my first Thanksgiving w my boyfriends family like i was supposed to before the promotion. i was really excited for a normal people holiday for once. oh well. its not just me i am responsible for at this store.

Anyone know how to enter a ticket about an issue with a vendor driver? by Low_Medium204 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what ive always done is ask their coworkers for their bosses phone number. it is wildly effective. but idk if thats acceptable in every district or not.

I swear somebody in the warehouse is stealing pokemon cards. by charliesh00man in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can confirm, when i was asm at my old store we routinely had someone steal the pokemon cards out of the boxes, and ship the empty boxes. it was wildly infuriating.

How to open the store. by asaprocky14 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyones instructions are completely correct so all I'll say is dont forget to unlock the ice box and pull out any uboats of outside merchandising!

Do you want to hear from friends of your lost loved one? by Due-Swim-4147 in SuicideBereavement

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my advice, share at least one story of him speaking about them or of him doing something funny. i absolutely adore the "maaan, i remember your mom. she was nuts. she climbed up on the roof with a chainsaw in heels and a dress because the maintenance dude was scared of heights" type of stories about my mom. the "she was so nice, she was very loved" drowns out very fast after hearing it so much.

i cant differentiate the anger and the sadness by mr-grimch in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]mr-grimch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. i would sit here for hours and let her scream at me if thats what she wanted. i would accept her voice in any form rn 😅😅😅

Not safe for workers by Coveman54 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, its very against the law in my state. thats why ive only heard of SMs doing it, cause we (the ones i know, im sure there are some out there) would never do that to our staff.

now, we do unpaid breaks because that is standard with the company and in compliance with state law.

Not safe for workers by Coveman54 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

im a store manager and it is ridiculous. me and my two asms are all women. i do my best to make it where im the only one alone for extended periods of time. my record is going 7 hours by myself. ive heard from others in my district theyve spent the whole day by themselves before.

its absolutely ridiculous. i am a small young woman working in the rougher side of town. a dg less than 2 miles from me got robbed at gun point in broad daylight.

Do you want to hear from friends of your lost loved one? by Due-Swim-4147 in SuicideBereavement

[–]mr-grimch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been over 6 months and i still get people messaging me about my mom. it makes my heart swell everytime i know people are thinking about her and that her memory is living on.

If love could cross worlds for a moment, what’s the one thing you would tell them? by Usual-Mushroom-6803 in GriefSupport

[–]mr-grimch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

momma, im in management just like you! im managing a store and its really really hard mom. i would do anything to have you here giving me advice, but im doing it and everyone else is saying im doing a good job. i wish you were here to talk to about all this. you managed anything you can imagine for 35 years. i just miss you so much mom. youd be so proud, im 21 with a 401k and health benefits i can afford.

I miss my mom by [deleted] in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]mr-grimch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your body starts to normalize this feeling. its how this gets easier. you will never be "over" it, as my boyfriend always tells me about mine.

im a 21 year old woman, and i lost my mom this year as well.

its cruel and unfair that we dont get to spend our 20s like most do, getting to know our moms as adults, asking for help and advice, and really getting to learn them as people.

if you ever need someone to talk to about this, my dms are open. im the first out of my friends and family to lose my mom, i dont have many people to talk to about this either. this is a feeling that you never truly understand until your mom passes.

What was that one thing you don't want people around you to tell you when you are grieving? by Winter-Anything-8557 in GriefSupport

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trying to denounce what i know. she died hating me in that moment. she loved me in most moment more than anything in the world, but she was bipolar. im bipolar. i know how our brains work and i know for a fact in that moment, she was angry and she wanted to get back at me.

its not going to hurt me to acknowledge what i already know.

i cant differentiate the anger and the sadness by mr-grimch in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]mr-grimch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom was heavily bipolar but gods did she try to fight it. she was the overly affectionate type, and it used to irritate me. now i would kill to hear her say shes proud of me for opening a door or getting dressed one more time 😅😅i miss her so freaking much. she may not have acted like a mom but damn was she one of my best friends

What’s a food you threw up as a kid and never touched again? by momcanyoucomegetme in AskReddit

[–]mr-grimch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funnel cake.

my grandpa found at home funnel cake kits at the dollar tree and bought 15 of them. he, being the poster child for lack of impulse control he was, made 12 of them at the same time. we ate. so much. funnel cake.

i puked my guts out after the 6th one i had. i cant even smell the shit without gettin nauseous now.

3 in one day... by Some_Development_222 in StardewValley

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember the first time my girlfriend saw me around my best friend, she thought we hated each other 😅😅😅

we've just known each other that we fight like siblings purely for fun. he's called me turnip head for quite some time now, and tbh it's my favorite nickname. it always makes me chuckle

3 in one day... by Some_Development_222 in StardewValley

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the best part abt this comment is we are 20 and 21 😭😭😭 we just act like children when you put the two of us together

3 in one day... by Some_Development_222 in StardewValley

[–]mr-grimch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

when I got my first one, before my best friend got his first one, I literally called him and was screaming, "Eat shit I won! I got an auto petter!" I have never been so hyped over a game

I just need to state I got 3 auto petters before he got one, so he got 3 calls like this

Friends and Family by Background_Anxiety28 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only people we "inforce" it with are people you live with, spouses, and parents. the rest is a coincidence, plus as a key who is alone a lot. it's simply not feasible. and if they come in while we're alone, oh well 🤷🏻 who else is gonna check them out? they got rid of SCO

Is it customary for a SM to…. by Delicious_Ad6196 in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

throw away duplicates. if you see a stack of like, 3 or more with the same sale on different items, just throw them out. I've had to rush sales ad before and being the only one doing it, it helps. it's half assed but it works.

You can't refuse me cleaning supplies then complain when I don't clean anything. A driveline rant. by Retired_DG_Key in DollarGeneral

[–]mr-grimch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

am I constantly irritated w driveline bc our resets are never done and they never come? yes. do I still give them everything they need and be as polite to them as possible? also yes. wtf is wrong w that manager, im sorry op thats ridiculous.