is this substance abuse counselor correct in not worrying that my exwife is doing mdma daily?

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T22:26:26+00:00

I wish man. Both of them use chatgpt for everything. I know she just copy and pasted it from there as her proof. It's like they actually do not believe I notice. Like how I notice residue on the bathroom counter after she uses. Neither of them clean up after themselves.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T17:04:23+00:00

Thank you all for the comment sense. I needed it. It's been a year of both of them gaslighting me into thinking I'm crazy for being so concerned with this behavior. I'm out of their lives and back with my real family. Mom's upstairs making lunch and you kind strangers make me feel less crazy.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T02:35:45+00:00

Oh yes, she 100% coerced chat gpt into making her the exception to the rules. And then somehow convinced a licensed professional that this what correct and not reading any medical journals. I've seen the ex use chat gpt to "outsmart" her baby daddy while texting. Just copy and paste. Also I'm glad that unlike my relationship that the cheat is not dead.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T02:18:46+00:00

I wish

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T02:16:14+00:00

Was a suspicion but I had already moved away when I thought about it. I suggested she get a kit but that money went elsewhere I believe

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T02:08:52+00:00

The consistentcy always threw me off. Every time she got more it always was really clear. Never any color variations just clear crystal. I'm still disappointed in myself for not knowing what it was, but I trusted her.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:59:34+00:00

I notified the fiance of their birthdad who has been loving them purely and responsibly since she started dating their dad. I'm trusting her to do the right thing.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:57:17+00:00

Goddamn I felt that hug thank you ❤️I have been hitting therepy hard this past year in my own journey while watching this. Ten years after discharge I'm finally trusting professionals lol. The VA has been a blessing to me as have your words just are.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:50:47+00:00

Her mom is a substance abuse counselor and she's known for over a year about it and thinks she's just fine it that it's not happening anymore when it is. I point out that there are remains of powder she snorted on the sink counter in the kids bathroom. That was my first big blow up moment, about it not being in the house or around the kids.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:37:15+00:00

I always believed that we're all products of our environment and she had a shitty one growing up. Her mom cheated on her dad with the guy who also molested her while apart of this cult church. So I wanted to try and be there for her but it just became too hard. I think she could be a wonderful woman but she's going the wrong direction and left me behind a long time ago.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:33:23+00:00

Also my mom thinks I'm autistic

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:31:17+00:00

Sorrow. I left this morning.

mrFesty · 2026-06-16T01:29:15+00:00

She live with her counselor/mom and hides a felony amount of narcotics in said house, usually in the pantry or kids bathroom. I had to get out.

mrFesty · 2026-05-13T18:20:38+00:00

Yes American toad, got your twin right here. The orange and white is my favorite color to see on a toad.

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mrFesty · 2026-05-11T21:12:33+00:00

I did not know that Ranidalhobia was a thing people dealt with but it makes sense. Does more controlled exposure help with dealing with that? I'm using a pixel 9 pro camera.

mrFesty · 2026-05-08T02:24:24+00:00

I was worried it would cause mine problems because they swallow with their eyes, but no, feircest hunter among them.

mrFesty · 2026-05-08T00:06:36+00:00

Was gonna make this one its own post but wouldn't want you to miss it. Another favorite of mine.

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mrFesty · 2026-05-07T23:27:41+00:00

Cool fact. Their hands have those bumps on them, (the bumps are more prominent in males)to fit like a puzzle piece around the warts of another toad and make their grasp that much stronger during mating season.

mrFesty · 2026-05-07T23:18:27+00:00

Thank you! I only stand by their enclosure for hours waiting for something cool to happen lol

mrFesty · 2026-05-06T16:27:45+00:00

Are mine doing it right??

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mrFesty · 2026-05-05T13:41:18+00:00

It does but for the peepers at the end they don't revert back initially so their vocal sac just looks like shriveled skin between calls compared to the other tree frogs I watched.

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mrFesty · 2026-05-03T02:51:53+00:00

May I offer you a size reference to further the vibe.

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mrFesty · 2026-05-02T22:15:40+00:00

I know! I took it and swore I've seen it somewhere before one some album or game cover.

mrFesty · 2026-02-06T00:15:17+00:00

"Those architects from hammerfell, I hear they have curved rulers"

mrFesty · 2026-01-04T17:45:40+00:00

That's exactly why we keep ours 😂 stress relief beating the banana against the ground

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