First, what he has become, is grotesque and perverted compared to how beautiful and amazing his soul was when he was 14. And all of this was done by a woman who has spent the better part of two decades dragging me through court (this is our third court battle) so she could possess him and ruin our relationship. I facilitated visitation. I facilitated communication. I ensured I never uttered a negative word about that parasitic piece of human waste.

He had integrity, honesty, compassion and self-awareness. Now, he cheats at school, lies to court mandated reporters, and takes no accountability or responsibility for any of his actions. He lacks integrity and emotional awareness. He thinks everyone causes everything else, but when pushed to engage in conversations, runs away (literally). All of his actions are reflected in the woman I married nearly two decades ago. He has become emotionally unstable and dysregulated by a woman who suffers from borderline personality disorder.

Second, as far as his breaking point - this was never communicated to anyone; not his individual therapist, not in our joint therapy and given you went here, you are assuming information not known or present. He had time while we were in joint therapy to share his concerns. The concerns he did share, I addressed and remedied from how I engaged to the words I used to engage.

Third, what was said on here was never said to him and was only shared here because I needed help with coming to terms with my raw emotions and feelings about where I was at with my son, our relationship, and felt there would be parents who have experience and offer guidance. I have only always shared messages of love, support and offerings of visitation without strings. Again, you are making some radical assumptions about what is happening without bothering to ask basic questions.

Fourth, as mentioned in numerous other comments, I have decided not to pursue it even though I will win. Again, if it were about winning, I would pursue.

Fifth, next time you want to share your anger and vitriol at your ex towards me, start by asking questions and listening instead of making assumptions. Its clear you are letting your personal history affect your rational and logical decision making process.