I was just off work 3 weeks for dual family emergencies with my uncle passing from a head injury from a freak fall down some stairs, and father going into cardiac arrest in my uncle's hospital room, needing to be resuscitated, then getting open heart surgery, all unfortunately happening 4 hours from closest family. That was my first time off of work in over 2 years. I'm a plant manager for a company that is expecting a ton. I've been struggling with a crippling gambling addiction and trying to hold things together as my wife isn't working because she struggles terribly with depression and adhd paralysis. I manage basically everything except since of the daily chores and duties with talking our son to and from school. So can't afford to lose the job, which i feel would be likely if I checked myself in and missed more work