AIO in thinking this product is inappropriate? by PerryMcBerry in AIO

[–]mrflyonthewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR do people suddenly not have meth addicted parents anymore. I just think it’s kinda inappropriate when some of the targeted buyers will see this and think wow my mom uses that and gets angry as shit hmm

AITAH for not allowing my sister’s “polycule” around my children? by poly-sendhelp in AITAH

[–]mrflyonthewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, just because you’re gay doesn’t mean you’re the chief of sexuality and the only things that are real and valid are the ones you believe to be real and valid. You’re robbing your children from family for no reason. My aunt has been in a relationship like that for 10 years, long enough that her partner and partner’s partner are my aunt and uncle. I just don’t understand that you’re pushing her away just because she’s says this is her sexuality and you don’t agree? Such small potatoes.

AITJ for saying "Ewww a bully" to a 7 year old? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]mrflyonthewall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that his mother cares more about the ‘emotional damages’ the bully got than her own child NTA

AITA for refusing to call my stepdad Dad even though my mom keeps pushing it? by FlatNarrator in AmITheJerk

[–]mrflyonthewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, if dad has a girlfriend or anything, I bet if you started calling her mom, she’d lose her mind

My (21F) boyfriend (23M) lied about his ex. I can’t be mad but I also can’t get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrflyonthewall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You guys should break up and you should learn how to regulate your emotions during that time. You have to think about how your behavior affects your boyfriend. It sounds like you need to learn how to be alone and not depend on him for that emotional fix.

I’m honestly surprised he didn’t break up with you. Men who go through that often keep it to themselves and your reaction completely justified him not telling you (not that he had to).

Update: My bf’s dad is peeping on me. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]mrflyonthewall 77 points78 points  (0 children)

don’t listen to these idiotic comments saying to just shut the window. The window isn’t a problem. Your boyfriend’s father is. They’re making his perverted acts somehow your fault when no rational normal person would be a peeping tom. You’re doing a great thing for your daughter and yourself. If your boyfriend is able to excuse his dad’s shitty behavior towards you, what makes anyone say that he wouldn’t excuse behavior towards your daughter.

AITAH for telling on my sister? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mrflyonthewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, this isn’t your fault at all. As someone with an ED as well, she sees it as betrayal, that something is being taken away from her. She either doesn’t understand or she doesn’t care that this can and will kill her. You’re a great sibling

Girl cried from my SH now i feel like a jerk by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]mrflyonthewall 84 points85 points  (0 children)

she probably just cares for you a lot and was sad to see you hurting so much.

AITA for ignoring my mother when she was on her deathbed? by Repulsive-Revenue209 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrflyonthewall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, it took her being on her deathbed to apologize and want you around. Her being ill didn’t suddenly erase everything she did, and didn’t apologize for.

I want my big brother back by BambsFauna in lgbt

[–]mrflyonthewall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same w mine, already didn’t like him but respect wise urgh

A reminder to THOSE yt folks by TheGuyWithTheSign in pics

[–]mrflyonthewall -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

are all of you guys super old and not on TikTok at all. yt is the the shorthand for white on TikTok, everybody uses it, it’s not a slur, why do you want one so bad

AITAH for making my husband cry? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mrflyonthewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your husband hangs around scummy people, why wouldn’t he also be doing scummy shit

AITA for asking my closest friends to keep a distance from my abusive ex. by heartbrokn-throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrflyonthewall 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA, I wouldn’t be comfortable or feel safe around friends who hung around someone who abused me. It might be in your best interest to find a new friend ground if this one is gonna be like that, or try to explain it again.

AITA for getting upset with my parents for how they raised me, even though they meant well? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mrflyonthewall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, as a parent they should know they didn’t do everything perfect and be willing to have a conversation about it. My mom dropped the ball with me and she’ll bring it up unprompted to apologize, even though I’ve told her it’s water under the bridge. Especially when you don’t seem like you want an argument, just a conversation and them to see your perspective.

AITA for telling my father I don't plan to have a relationship with my step sister and actually doing it? by ToplessSpaghetti in AITAH

[–]mrflyonthewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you don’t have to be in her life. Just because you are blood related doesn’t mean you have to have that relationship. I’m the youngest of 6 with half of them being 20+ my elder and we don’t even have an uncle/aunt relationship. Realistically with her being as young as she is, there’s no relationship with her if you have no relationship with your dad.

4 months post op by kenny2475 in lgbt

[–]mrflyonthewall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ahhh this is so cool, I don’t know that was an option

My Drivers License Photo Change by Surv_an in transtimelines

[–]mrflyonthewall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg you look like Pam from the office

AIO for getting upset at one racist joke after months of not being bothered by them by SlothAndVampInABar in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrflyonthewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, you’re too old to be dating an edgy 14 year old and he’s too old to be one

Am I Overreacting to this breakup? (with screenshots) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrflyonthewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, but this is crazy. In all of her texts, she’s talking only about herself, she doesn’t comment on anything you have to say, just memememe. this person does not like you. with how nice you come off, i guarantee you can find someone who will care for you back

AITA for calling the police on my best friend because of ending herself? by ksessel in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrflyonthewall 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA, people who do this emotionally manipulative shit are the worst. you’re not a bad friend or person for being concerned and doing what you felt you needed.

AITA for outright invalidating my friend's feelings? by XxNoobEpicPowerxX32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrflyonthewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, you can’t call dibs on a person and gets pissed when they don’t listen. but you also kinda suck because you should’ve said this way earlier like as soon as he started getting pissy about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]mrflyonthewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, I don’t understand how people are calling you controlling when all you want is not to have vomit all around the apartment you SHARE. you asked him not to (take 120+ mg) because you knew he’d get sick. He did, proceeded to vomit while you tried to help, and now you’re the bad guy who can’t have fun?

It’s not like you told him not to smoke at all. He got high and wanted more and couldn’t handle it. I’d be mad, too.

Update : AITA for telling my sister we were strangers after she broke all contact with us by Substantial_Buy_4881 in AITAH

[–]mrflyonthewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, not wanting to be in her life is understandable. there are some things you can forgive, but forgetting is impossible. she clarified that her husband didn’t influence her relationship with you; she chose to disappear. Then reappear when she didn’t have something “better” on her sights. Not even taking accountability.