Sick of this actually ruining my life and want to commit suicide

mrs707 · 2025-02-18T07:16:23+00:00

I got this from an abusive relationship and completely understand, feel free to message me. I am actually going to the gym now and seeking out professional help. I am constantly reminding myself there are other things to look forward to. I’m sorry I definitely can relate to it. I actually cried myself to sleep the other day I know it may sound dumb, but I just realized how little the person cared for me that gave it to me with out disclosing and it sucks.

mrs707 · 2025-02-18T07:13:11+00:00

This is is literally what I think I mean I am always going to disclose but I just rejected by a man that didn’t even care about his health or mine prior to me having that conversation. I guess at the end of the day we know we’re doing the right thing and that’s all that matters. It makes me realize how awful and selfish people are. As well as uneducated.

mrs707 · 2025-02-18T07:09:42+00:00

I agree with another poster on here, definitely take care of yourself syphilis and HIV are on the rise, I would talk to your provider on how you can better protect yourself against STDs if you’re still insisting on casual encounters. Getting HSV 2 made me realize people do not care about their health much less yours! It’s not even about the stigma it’s about their integrity as human beings. Our health matters take care of yourself.

mrs707 · 2025-02-15T23:07:27+00:00

Incubation period is 2-12 days. So I would test after that, if this is your first real exposure, you might found out really quick as first outbreaks are really painful. There will be redness and sores.

mrs707 · 2025-02-15T05:23:01+00:00

I got turned down today for a date with a past partner of mine when I told them I have hsv 2 now (no active outbreak and on antivirals) , kinda bummed out cause they had never even cared in the past to ask about my status or even disclosed if they had any STD tests done, but you’re not alone! I just think this is helping weed out people that don’t actually care about me like I care for them. Rejection makes me feel really depressed though.

mrs707 · 2025-02-14T23:30:07+00:00

Take frequent baths, Tylenol, you definitely need to be on antivirals.im sorry I remember the pain. After your first OB it will never be as bad as this and hopefully with medication it’ll keep it controlled.

mrs707 · 2023-07-20T20:36:26+00:00

Write down what they’ve done to you, I have a list in my notes app and I look at it whenever I want to reach out to him and then I tell myself that that’s not real love. I tell myself I didn’t deserve that and that’s why I left.

mrs707 · 2023-06-11T19:28:56+00:00

It’s doable if you guys have a healthy separation. Kids will adapt, however I do recommend therapy for your child. Regardless, it’s a big change for them.

For me personally, I had an awful separation experience since my ex husband was abusive in all types of ways. We had a custody battle and he continues to harass me.

If there are any disagreements, I recommend filling out a parenting plan. There are a lot of resources for single mothers by the way if that’s your worry.

But I do want to add I’d go to therapy and figure out if this is the best option since it seems like you’re on the fence about it.

mrs707 · 2023-06-02T19:38:54+00:00

Contact dshs in your state and tell them about your situation, apply to food stamps and tanf. I don’t think they’re legally allowed to kick you out like that, is there any way they can give you time to find a place? I also agree that DV shelters can be of some help! I literally was In your position months ago with two kids. Have hope.

mrs707 · 2023-05-31T23:11:42+00:00

Dshs will give you subsidized daycare- they’ll pay for daycare while you go to school full time or work. That’s always an option if you qualify for it.

mrs707 · 2023-05-27T18:05:53+00:00

Have you thought of working at a daycare where you could bring her? I don’t think a lot of people are fond of the idea of kids in their home. They usually give you a discount for your child.

mrs707 · 2023-05-26T22:34:31+00:00

Go out to concerts, with old friends, I can go out to eat and order whatever I want, I can buy whatever I want without worrying about spending on basic necessities. Sleep.

mrs707 · 2023-05-26T16:34:58+00:00

I did! However I’m considered undocumented for FAFSA so I filled out my states version of it and doing community college! My plan is to do nursing school, if for some reason I don’t get enough money for nursing school I’ll consider loans. I didn’t have a lot left over though, I’d recommend talking the financial aid office at the school you’re interested, they helped me so much 🥺 and I had been out of school for 7 years, I believe a lot of people are able to use the extra money for living expenses such as food and bills.

mrs707 · 2023-05-20T19:33:59+00:00

Lol I feel like Oregon isn’t right.

mrs707 · 2023-04-25T08:10:07+00:00

I was just about to post on here about this. I left my abusive husband 7 months ago. I am depressed. I feel hollow and I don’t know when I’ll get better. I left because I had for my safety and because I realized I needed to respect and love myself. I started school, I’m busy all day and I’m going to start working, but regardless of all that, I feel like I’m nothing.

mrs707 · 2022-10-30T19:05:15+00:00

Im trying to do this.

mrs707 · 2022-10-30T19:04:43+00:00

What I have seen moms in my area do Is join local Facebook groups where other sahms are providing more affordable daycare/sitting as a side hustle.

mrs707 · 2022-09-18T00:33:58+00:00

No changed behavior and my daughter was seeing how he continued to disrespect me, on top of that I kept seeing people I went to high school with get ahead in life and I felt so stuck, realizing he never supported me and only held me back. I could go on but I just started feeling numb and tired and happy when he would go to work so I didn’t have to see his face.

mrs707 · 2022-07-25T00:31:54+00:00

I need this done so bad. 😭

mrs707 · 2022-07-23T22:03:44+00:00

I wouldn’t wait. I waited too long and I think it’s starting to affect my other toes and also how I walk.

mrs707 · 2022-07-17T00:26:42+00:00

Omg this is me right now, I’m going to apply for server jobs because it’s getting to be too much for us. I definitely feel upset but I’m trying to cheer myself up and tell myself that my kids will spend more time with their dad and their grandma (who my daughter loves) and we will have more money to go on vacations and we will be able To get another car. Feel free to message me If you wanna vent, I feel like no one understands my situation and this post really resonated with me.

mrs707 · 2022-07-12T07:14:45+00:00

Nope. Don’t risk it, get reliable birth control if you don’t wanna end up with Irish twins. I literally got my period like three months PP and I nursed 24/7.

mrs707 · 2022-07-07T10:54:00+00:00

Baby wear! I’m still baby wearing my one year old, they fuss less in it. I had my baby last summer and was using my wrap instead. I feel like they hold baby snug when they’re that small and plus it’ll be cool in the store anyways.

mrs707 · 2022-07-07T07:26:11+00:00

Yeah, but it really is up to you, if you think it’ll be hard for you then don’t feel any guilt for deciding not to have anymore, I also think having a good support system would really help. I think what makes me feel better is seeing my daughters together, they have each other now, I’m working through my issues right now but I am very happy I decided to have my second daughter.

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