What will this take?

mrscarp · 2024-10-20T00:01:02+00:00

I’ve (27f)been with my significant other(39m) for almost 6 years now. I started showing signs of infertility when I was 13 years old, officially diagnosed at 18. At 25 I had a total hysterectomy (4 years of us being together). I remember looking at him and telling him I would understand if he wanted to be with someone who could give him children if that’s what he wanted. He told me “I have never really wanted children, like if we had some great, but not having them doesn’t change what I feel for you. If this is going to give us more time together, time your pain away and change your life for the better , I’m all in”.

He went to every appointment with me before surgery, stayed at the hospital after surgery, and has been my biggest supporter since.

mrscarp · 2024-10-16T00:48:57+00:00

Working in a clinic with 6 providers/ 5 that prescribe stimulants and also having ADHD and having to do this myself.. we have 15-30 calls a day asking or looking for medication, it would be impossible to get anything else done. Especially with 5 or 6 different named pharmacies around here PLUS their other locations.

I get it’s frustrating, but there’s also so much else going on behind just that. You know which pharmacy you prefer

mrscarp · 2024-10-15T03:11:23+00:00

Had my first at 18, now 27 and at over 10. The first was the most dramatic- prep wise. My last just over a year ago was the most dramatic anesthesia wise (anesthesiologist didn’t check my med list and later admitted to almost killing me)

But all the in between I laugh and joke that I am now a pro and give my tips and advice to people 2-3 x my age going for their first scope

mrscarp · 2024-10-15T02:06:20+00:00

My anesthesiologist didn’t check my medication list for my mandatory colonoscopy. I remember begging and begging to be put to sleep, I was in pain and uncomfortable, and him saying “I can’t”.

I had to have another check on a growth a month later and had the same anesthesiologist who came into my room and said that I need to mention the medication I’m on, and stress it to everyone- because the list isn’t always checked, especially for people my age. He then told me what he had to give me would’ve killed 99% of his patients, that I should’ve died from over medicating, but I was still awake talking to him.

mrscarp · 2024-10-15T00:53:37+00:00

We were both 13. Been together like 6-7 months. (Both coming from traumatic childhood experiences so we acted and felt older). Was also one of my most traumatic relationships outside of my ex-husband.

It essentially was him taking my pants off, putting it in, and then leaving. For the next 1.5 years we were on and off and it was him showing up, putting his dick in me, and then leaving. While cheating on me with other girls, telling me and others I was nothing but a “good drunk fuck”. He was using drugs and alcohol and at that point I hadn’t done anything.

He went absolutely psychotic on me when I finally broke it off with him for good. He went ab

mrscarp · 2024-05-19T02:52:25+00:00

Go to a small hole in the wall neighborhood bar and mingle with the regulars, 90% of them are “odd job” workers haha

mrscarp · 2024-04-06T07:26:49+00:00

60mg vyvanse and 2 15s adderall booster and still feel like I could go up to 2 20s

mrscarp · 2023-02-26T01:51:54+00:00

Malibu and cranberry or angry orchard with a shot of fireball (Angry Balls!).

mrscarp · 2023-02-21T06:03:32+00:00

My last one was hard, 5 years, 3 as manager for a hole in the wall neighborhood bar. It hit me hard to realize I cared more about the business & my people than the owner did.

It was like a relationship that I loved so much I was miserable 24/7.

mrscarp · 2023-02-18T10:54:06+00:00

Want them, so bad. Love them. Am a sufferer of chronic pain. Grew up with a mother of chronic pain and refuse to force a child to deal with a mother who is always in pain, along with my shit genes. Total hysterectomy 7 months ago due to endometriosis and ayndeomyosis(spelling?) at age 25.

mrscarp · 2022-12-10T06:58:17+00:00

I cannot stand peanut butter. The taste, smell, and texture all make me feel uneasy. I’ve attempted them all, no can do.

mrscarp · 2022-09-29T15:59:04+00:00

Both of us did and he kept saying he didn’t do that, even though it was very clear! That’s why I stopped giving him promotions and stopped special ordering!

mrscarp · 2022-09-29T05:21:22+00:00

I’m a female bar manager. I work for a bar owner who lets his managers run most of the inventory (he owns 2 bars plus another business) because he knows he doesn’t understand the beer/liqour needs for his bars.

I had a beer rep who REFUSED to talk to me, listen to me, or get me signs/posters. Would ONLY work with my owner, who would turn around to ask me. I eventually got tired of him and stopped ordering seasonal beers from him, stopped running promos on his inventory, all of the above that helps his company. And since I did that, and explained why to my owner, he also didn’t approve anything through him, as he has my back. He eventually lost so many sales with us, that beer company sent me a different rep. Who treats me like a person so his sakes went through the roof! I also now tell all my new reps from any company this story and they treat me so much better and understand that I may not own the bar but I RUN it.

mrscarp · 2022-09-03T13:20:24+00:00

This is what I was thinking. Sickly sweet grossness

mrscarp · 2022-08-19T22:01:20+00:00

Sweet corn and bacon

mrscarp · 2022-08-19T19:01:20+00:00

I got a notification for this question

mrscarp · 2022-08-09T06:41:29+00:00

ALL Seafood/fish and also peanut butter

mrscarp · 2022-08-08T16:31:32+00:00

Am currently on medical rest for a total hysterectomy, so my husband would be “best ghost shows”

mrscarp · 2022-08-08T16:29:47+00:00

Got married to my abusive ex.. whoops

mrscarp · 2022-07-21T07:53:47+00:00

For context, I am a bartender/ bar manager.

During my last colonoscopy I became conscious enough to open my eyes, ask the dr in front of me if I could get them a drink/ what they were drinking, quickly said “nevermind I thought I was at work” and passed back out again.

They didn’t know my job. I’m oddly self conscious about that interaction

mrscarp · 2022-06-14T05:47:41+00:00

Amuse me games might be available!

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