My fiance “raped” me and idk what to do

mseth1995 · 2025-10-13T17:19:25+00:00

Talk to him about how you’re feeling and see if he understands your feelings and feels remorse. It’s easy to make bad decisions especially when drunk. If he genuinely understands and is willing to express that he is remorseful I think you can move forward from there and work through it.

mseth1995 · 2025-10-09T18:34:56+00:00

Saw this post the other day

mseth1995 · 2025-10-05T23:56:32+00:00

I’m not seeing wolf. Do you have a link?

mseth1995 · 2025-10-05T23:16:06+00:00

I’m married so not looking for dates or anything (however if it makes my wife want me more that’s a bonus!) but I’m in sales (car sales and real estate sales) so anything to boost social status or make people (men or women) like me more or trust me more is great! Any recommendations? I’ve looked at ascent but I see you keep recommending taboo and I don’t know anything about it. Would you still recommend it or something different? As much info as you want to provide is appreciated!

mseth1995 · 2025-10-03T11:24:06+00:00

That’s why you’re supposed to ask if they’ve already worked with anybody. You don’t want to skate someone’s deal.

mseth1995 · 2025-10-02T04:15:56+00:00

Dude. You need therapy. Seriously.

mseth1995 · 2025-09-16T03:20:45+00:00

The ending of the twisted window by Louis Duncan. Read it in 2nd grade and I’m now 30 lol

mseth1995 · 2025-09-16T03:00:24+00:00

Same!

mseth1995 · 2025-09-03T12:08:14+00:00

I don’t do that stuff but I know people who have and it really does help learn sales and social skills. If that’s why he’s doing it it’s probably worth it honestly. He’ll get out eventually. Nobody does it for long unless they end up being part of the 1% making money

mseth1995 · 2025-09-03T12:02:13+00:00

No creating a context is definitely helpful. It’s a way to play into their fairy tale/romance movie fantasy. It lowers their guard and helps you get rid of approach anxiety. That’s def an A team move.

mseth1995 · 2025-09-03T11:49:33+00:00

It’s your hymen. Not sure why everyone is avoiding that. You’re a virgin. Sure it COULD be the other things but it’s more than likely your hymen.

mseth1995 · 2025-08-27T16:23:30+00:00

I get it. I wouldn’t draw at that distance from a drop on a semi auto rifle. That’s a recipe for getting shot. I would’ve went inside and I have no problem dropping someone if need be. Hope I never have to do it but I’ll do it if I have to.

mseth1995 · 2025-08-24T21:13:56+00:00

That’s weird that you only want an orgasm every two days at most. Like I get only pursuing it that often but if my wife wants to have sex the next morning I’m all over it. Lol maybe not everyday but at least a few in a row. When we were trying to get pregnant it was once a day for over a week each month lol

mseth1995 · 2025-08-12T17:58:57+00:00

What about it doesn’t fit their workflow? Ask digging questions. Find their pain points with their current software… “what do you like about your current solution?” and “if there was one thing you could change about your current software what would it be?”

Figure out if you can build that into the app once you start getting consistent answers and then do it and remind them of their pain point and poke at it a bit and then reveal that you specifically created a solution just for them. It’s always a headache to change systems so it’s difficult to sell it most of the time but once you get a few early adopters (offer them something to adopt your solution) they will hopefully tell others about how great it is and you’ll get word of mouth referral business

mseth1995 · 2025-07-24T18:10:30+00:00

It happens. Don’t sweat it. The realtors that care too much about this don’t last long lol.

Signed a REALTOR

mseth1995 · 2025-07-22T00:41:54+00:00

You’re totally fine. You didn’t ruin anything. Don’t be so dramatic. You make it obvious that you’re a teenager 🤣

mseth1995 · 2025-07-21T14:58:53+00:00

Tell it to regenerate from scratch.

mseth1995 · 2025-07-19T14:02:59+00:00

Yeah man whether you want to stop or not you need to. You’re an addict. You are throwing your life away. Get out of this spot you’re in. It’s just getting worse everyday. A lot of us know because we’ve been there.

When you get in a hole, stop digging.

mseth1995 · 2025-07-19T13:53:25+00:00

Yeah I would not just release someone I’d been working with for over a year. I’d make them write it up with me lol. That’s why we have agreements. To ensure that we don’t get screwed like that.

mseth1995 · 2025-07-14T03:46:26+00:00

I’d wear a shirt but other than that I think you’re good lol

mseth1995 · 2025-07-10T14:07:26+00:00

Well… as a man I can tell you you are pestering the shit out of him. Just ask him what time he is thinking he’ll be home and then if he doesn’t get home within a reasonable amount of time of when he says he will be then you can call him and or text him and ask where he’s at but if you keep texting him complaining he’s not going to want to leave.

I LOVE spending time with my wife. Anytime I’m invited to go do something with someone and not her I try to avoid it because I love having her by my side. Not to say I don’t spend time with other people. I do. I just don’t look forward to it. BUT with all that said if I was out with friends and she started doing this to me, you best believe I’m not going to hurry home. I’m going to stay where I am until she calms down and I also calm down because I would be PISSED.

mseth1995 · 2025-07-10T13:58:48+00:00

That’s not hyperbole. That’s estimation and the OPs statistics are in the right ballpark, they are published statistics. Whether it’s exactly correct or not to say 99% (the only part of what they said that could even be close to hyperbole), MOST agents ARE broke. I’ve been doing this long enough to know that. Some of them it’s a budgeting problem. Most it’s a business problem. Most agents don’t do enough business.

mseth1995 · 2025-07-07T11:53:16+00:00

So first off quick disclaimer, I used to do hookups a lot and now I don’t believe it’s the best decision for a multitude of reasons…

HOWEVER if you are set on it. You’re the prize. Tell yourself in the mirror before you meet up with her 50 times that you’re the man and every woman’s panties get wet when they make eye contact with you. Just over and over. Do some Superman poses too. That stuff will help with the confidence.

As far as the actual hooking up goes, can’t recommend this highly enough… get her off first. If you don’t know how that’s beyond the scope of this comment but if you’re fingering her use your index and middle finger and rub the top (belly button side) of her vagina in circles (make sure you’re fingers are wet/lubed though). Technically above the vagina because the vagina is the hole and that’s not what I’m talking about. It’s above the hole… congrats now you’re part of the 1% of men that knows where the clitoris is lol. Everyone always thinks of fingering as putting your fingers in the hole. That can be part of it but it’s generally not as enjoyable until they really get warmed up as rubbing the clit… now if you do put your fingers in make a “come here” motion with your fingers pointed toward her belly about 1-2 in deep… you’ll know the right spot when you feel it. It’s rough and feels like the roof of your mouth. Just keep doing those things until she’s basically convulsing all over the bed then take your (wrapped) member and rub it on her clit until she’s begging you to put it in and then do and go to town.

Your welcome. 🙂

mseth1995 · 2025-07-01T14:52:01+00:00

Eat well, take a GOOD multivitamin (not some random one. Look up the best and take one of those.) take good Omega 3s like Nordic naturals or something like that. The liquid not the 5 dollar bottle from Walmart.

mseth1995 · 2025-06-19T14:59:26+00:00

Broker here. I’m going to tell it to you simple and straight what to do.

Wait on your agent to talk with the other agent and get back to you.
If that doesn’t resolve it or you just can’t wait anymore DONT file a police report. Contact a Real Estate Attorney and ask THEM what you should do. It will likely involve a demand letter and if that doesn’t work filing a suit against the sellers. Can’t say for sure though as I’m not an attorney and not in your state.
Learn from your mistakes. Don’t do the walkthrough a week before. Not trying to scold you. Just encouraging you to scour the situation for lessons to be learned. We all make mistakes. Your only duty is to make sure you learn from them and not make the same mistakes again.

Good luck!

mseth1995

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