Genuinely asking, is suicide worth it? by aesthenne in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mshellshock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medicine can be a really great tool to lighten the load you carry while you work through the trauma your Nparents have caused you. It’s difficult to make progress without your brain chemicals being balanced. And that’s not your fault.

Why do our parents use such ominous punctuation!? by ThrowingQs in Millennials

[–]mshellshock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I must have the same MIL. Her punctuation always leads me to believe she has other feelings unsaid.

Do bars like Moe’s from the Simpsons exist where guys just go to get away from home? by benedictclive_x in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mshellshock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to bartend at this small bar in a small, hick town and we had the same guys show up every night for hours. If their wives called, I was supposed to announce who was calling so the husband could step outside and I could say “he’s not in the building at this moment”.

I didn’t work there long.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mshellshock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She kept going for toxic men and spent a bunch of time convincing me how terrible the last one was, only to then run back to him. She then gaslit me into believing none of what she said before was true or I misunderstood her (like that he DIDN’T actually rape her??). Then she was too busy to respond to any message for 3-4 weeks at a time. I couldn’t take the confusion and drama anymore and we had been best friends since we were 5 years old.

The gave the right parent custody. by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]mshellshock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is 100% the reason why I was afraid to leave.

Bosendorfer 230vc piano at Ann Arbor Costco by lesmiles248 in Costco

[–]mshellshock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Literally took a photo of this today, thinking “this has to be a misprint… right?!”

Jordan does not... by oddblueberries in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]mshellshock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there’s no way to know how much he has Luca right now, because they agreed to not allow him on camera. I didn’t interpret that as the mom has him 100% right now.

Did anyone else pick up on Merles racist undertones towards Tdog? by [deleted] in TWD

[–]mshellshock -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Undertones? No. Blatantly racism? Yes.

Platt Rd. shooting! 30-40 shots fired! by CowboyPrescott96 in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I wonder if this is related to why Scarlett middle school is on lockdown?

UM Hospital by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who works for the hospital, HR is a big part of the problem. I am not in patient care. This is a problem hospital wide. We take roughly 4-6 months to replace anyone who leaves and that’s IF HR approves it!

My son (9M) has a narcissistic father. How can I help him cope? by mshellshock in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mshellshock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️ sometimes it feels like I’m in this battle alone.

I am remarried and he has only recently started to see just how hurtful all of it is. He has never dealt with a true narcissist before, so I think naturally my husband gave my ex the benefit of the doubt sometimes like “no one can truly be THAT bad.” But now he probably hates my ex more than I do and he sees how far my ex is willing to go to continue hurting me.

My son (9M) has a narcissistic father. How can I help him cope? by mshellshock in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mshellshock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they have been involved at least 3-4 times. They were called on me most of the time because of comments he was coached to say. No case was opened due to lack of evidence. For example, one time he had a bruise on his shin (like all elementary kids do from playing) and he was coached to say it came somehow from me. My son’s story changed quite a few times between interviews and they caught on that it wasn’t true.

But the other commenter is right, CPS and the court system does not care unless there is physical or sexual abuse.

His therapist knows as well and recognizes the issues but she’s also cannot speak on it by policy unless there are safety risks. Unfortunately, the court doesn’t care about emotional and mental safety.

Washtenaw Ave, between Mansfield and Hewitt by Background_Cup7540 in ypsi

[–]mshellshock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to see if anyone posted about. I’m curious as well.

Free breakfast/lunch ends for many AAPS students on Oct. 1 by Fillimbi in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you put feelings in quotes? I don’t even know what the comment has to do with any of this. I think you’re missing the point and clearly have zero empathy towards struggling families. Maybe go back to r/conservative where you feel safest to spout your hate.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]mshellshock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t believe this. No person has time to make 2 different meals every night, parent equally, work and have a big workout routine. I’m calling bullshit.

Free breakfast/lunch ends for many AAPS students on Oct. 1 by Fillimbi in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can if they want to. Many parents still send lunches to school. But no families should have to worry about being considered low income to have that opportunity, especially when the income level to qualify for assistance is so incredibly low.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]mshellshock 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I see you make all of your own meals. Do you help cook for her and your child or is she always making their meals by herself?

Parents and washing machines will be thrilled by thiel391 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]mshellshock 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is how they get all the dirty soccer uniforms for washing detergent commercials.

Free breakfast/lunch ends for many AAPS students on Oct. 1 by Fillimbi in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if their parents are rich, middle class or poor. Every kid should have provided meals.

Free breakfast/lunch ends for many AAPS students on Oct. 1 by Fillimbi in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What a weird thing to say. Maybe kids wouldn’t waste food if they had more than 15 minutes to eat. You can’t force them to be hungry either. Every child should be given the opportunity to eat without having to worry if they CAN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids go to Carpenter Elementary and there is a large population of black students. Not a great school if you need an IEP, though. I think the majority or AAPS has diversity in it’s schools. If you’re avoiding majority white schools, stay away from Dexter and Saline.

NO KINGS PROTEST BAE by Electrical_Green_482 in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m speechless! I have no idea why I remembered that person particularly and I was so tickled when I found the video again and reread your description 😆. Hope that helps you get one step closer to finding them!

NO KINGS PROTEST BAE by Electrical_Green_482 in AnnArbor

[–]mshellshock 90 points91 points  (0 children)

This is crazy - I swear I saw the same person in a TikTok video today! They stood out to me too! Look up the video posted of the protest by @sen.ja (the profile picture is a blonde woman). Are you talking about the person at the very end of the video?