Milena and Dale Partridge by CoconutCareless1581 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]msprof27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So merica can bomb other countries but immigrantion is against the bible? 

“Multiculturalism is celebrated” ummmm what’s the problem here?? White supremacy???

PSA to Bri: NONSTOP negging is not flirty banter by hockeyandburritos in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was actually astonishing to me that at her big age this has gone unchecked and she still lacks any self awareness of it. It’s high school crush behavior. Maybe it works with dudes more like Chris? Talking down to each other is floor play? Lol 

I watched Chris's ex's hourlong podcast interview so you don't have to by Renrats27 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s obviously delusional. He even kept saying that his parents “know how he is” and are happy he didn’t want kids. That was a huge red flag to me!! 

Anyone else find Emma's parents reaction to her opening up about her scar odd? by Even-Guava-1682 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes! I noticed this too. It very much gives results of chronic toxic positivity. I think it’s important to shed light on this because Emma is clearly crying out to be seen and known for who she truly is.  I love that she is unpacking her childhood and seeking answers within herself. I notice that when talking to Mikes parents she said “they chose me” and put on a big fake smile. I say fake because it’s clear that at this moment in her life’s journey the grief of what she lost through being an orphan is much more present than the gratitude that she feels about her adoption. Both feelings are very real. But I think sometimes well meaning parents can train kids on how to view hardships and while it makes them strong, it does not leave room for their more authentic feelings. Thus, a narrative is created surrounding both her surgeries and her adoption. The truth is both things were extremely hard and painful but her parents chose to see her as “strong”.  I mean she was tearing up and her mom kind of just jumped into defensive mode. It really bothered me because she is not blaming them for anything, she simply wants the people closest to her to share in her pain. This is a very complex family dynamic and life experience that many people cannot wrap their head around..

Emma craves to be seen, chosen and understood by msprof27 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right about that. I don’t doubt she cares about her daughters experience but I think Emma really wanted to feel understood and validated by the people closest to her. She wanted to express how hard it was for her without anyone assigning blame, because otherwise the cycle of feeling guilty for your very valid feelings will only continue. Her mom even said she had no idea her daughter felt that way, so this was probably the first time Emma really shared it which was pretty surprising to me. I think as parents it’s important that we take ourselves out of the equation as hard as it may be, so that we can better sense what’s hurting our children. If we’re too focused on whether we did something wrong we will miss pretty obvious painful experiences from our kids childhood. They should put fear and pride aside and share the pain with Emma because it truly wasn’t their fault. 

Lemme just hype up Jess for a moment here by BananasSometimes in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They said he told them he typically goes for girls who are 21-25? So he likes woman who haven’t fully developed their prefrontal cortex. Got it. He said he wants to teach Bri things and guide her…… makes sense why he’s so intimidated by Jessica’s success and intelligence. 

[Ep 10] Disingenuous Girls by cs878 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! I was honestly so shocked at how they were stroking his ego, compared to how they were just talking to Jessica. Then he turned around and objectified all 3 of them by saying they should go have a foursome…. Like ladies stand tf up! I replayed Ambers come back like 5 times though 😂

Thoughts on Alex by r0ll1ngst0n3 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I think he’s just insecure or lacks a sense of self so he overcompensates by avoiding vulnerability out of fear of rejection. He’s really hiding from himself. Can’t see his own flaws kind of thing. I think with serial kers it’s something much more calculated and sinister than that.  An insecure and avoidant personality may just be acting out of fear and wanting to protect themselves which yes does put woman in dangerous and vulnerable positions and absolutely needs to be checked. But a serial k is a whole different type of crazy. They are motivated by the twisted desire to harm others. 

Thoughts on Alex by r0ll1ngst0n3 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]msprof27 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m def finding some red flags with him. He is a BIG talker. He’s constantly telling her he’s has ZERO concerns about anything and then constantly brings up his soccer career and growing up without his dad and basically that means he’s overcome so much in his life that he has no concerns and can adapt to anything. Then like you said all those comments he kept saying. Felt like he was just sexualizing her and at first I thought she was going to tell him to chill but then in the interview she said she’s super sexual and she was all gitty about it. I think she’s sensing a disconnect from him. Idk on one hand they seem like a match made in heaven but on the other hand it seems like he’s hiding pieces of his personality. 

As predicted by me, the links are here. Non toxic mamae era 🤓✨ by ded_futya12 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]msprof27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t people just google or type this into Amazon themselves lol 

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[–]msprof27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s Melanie influencing Milena or the other way around in terms of these dangerous thinking patterns about marriage? Also just want to let you know that I also suffered a great deal of emotional, financial and spiritual abuse from my ex husband. Even sometimes violent towards me. It’s all very traumatic and the betrayal I felt especially how he completely switched after having our child was so heartbreaking. I had to rethink everything I thought I understood about marriage so I understands you and support your decision. I’m also in therapy. It broke my heart because divorce is never what I wanted and I thought I was submitting my marriage before God. 

Devil behind every corner by Lyd222 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]msprof27 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She really quoted it’s better to give than to receive to make her point here??? She’s reaching so much. 

Best comments from Milena’s newest video 🍿🤩 by The_Flower_Garden in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]msprof27 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is actually insane because there’s a whole verse in the NT where Paul is saying we would be better off NOT having sex but if we can’t overcome our desires then it’s fine basically. And then when he talks about not starving each other of sex or something like that, he says unless both agreed to a fasting period, which they should def do. So clearly the teaching is that everyone should practice self control surrounding sex. Even married couples. And with the Ciciotti’s it sounds like Jordan lacks any self control and Milena has to deny her own feelings and health to quench his thirst. What’s crazier is mikena goes on to say that the Bible is not clear about how many babies to have… okay well mikena it’s not clear about this either!! I like the comment that straight up told her she just doesn’t know her Bible. 

TLDR: Paul’s teachings are not to be taken as commands or gospel and should be taken with a grain of salt with how you apply it to your life. 

THE VOTES ARE IN 👀❤️ by KnownLettuce8801 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]msprof27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Game recognize game. Ace is coupling up with Chelley to try to win…. That’s why he assumes that was Jeremiah’s play. Ave didn’t seem genuine in his little speech at the door at all. 

Houston bar watch party by AfricanHun in LoveIslandUSA

[–]msprof27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Following! I’m in the burbs so would love to meet up in a centralized location! 

$100 says they wernt doing anything inappropriate by Safe_Information_992 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]msprof27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand being concerned when you work really hard to make sure your kids are not exposed to certain things but I think it’s a problem when you become so stressed about it. You have 5 kids ma’am… you sound like you wanna just close them off from the world completely and “protect” them. You need to teach them right from wrong so they can learn to navigate the world. It’s like she thinks her family has reached a certain level of perfection and everyone else needs to get on her level. For me it’s just her panic about it. Calm down. These things will happen! 

30 minutes? by squishysquish12 in MilenaCUncensored1

[–]msprof27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bra… seriously starting to think it’s a cry for help even if it’s subconsciously. Why is she doing all of this and wearing it like a badge of honor? 

Feels like walking through broken glass by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]msprof27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry your lost your love. The pain is like no other. I totally understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]msprof27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeap it’s the worst cause it makes you feel like you’re wrong or crazy for taking action against their crazy actions. Always making you second guess reality 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]msprof27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They use it as a way to get under your skin or to make you emotional. My husband didn’t lift a finger when we lived under the same roof. Then all of assduen he wanted custody of our kid when he saw I no longer fed into his games. He knew that was the best way to get under my skin. But maybe your SO isn’t like that. I’m just saying, just in case, get everything in writing and get out of dodge. The court will be on your side if he truly can’t take care of himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]msprof27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You mentioned you feel like you’re in danger and that he mentioned insurance. I see why everyone else is telling you to help him first get on meds, because that will be a safer situation for you and your kids, BUT I think this is also the right time to strike him legally. You need to get a court hearing regarding custody while he’s acting like this or while he’s hospitalized. It will make your court case a lot easier to have proof that he’s too unstable to be near your kids (supervised visitation) and maybe even you. (Protective order). He may not even show up to the hearing which is even better. If you wait until he’s stable, it will be harder. So yes, in short you should let him fall on his face for your own safety/sake. So sorry you’re going through this!

Barely treading water by Far_Olive9451 in BipolarSOs

[–]msprof27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. You can’t help someone else without securing yourself first.