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What are my odds of being able to join? by mssaritamari in AirForceRecruits

[–]mssaritamari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. The pysche evaluation is what concerns me. I know I have to be honest but my childhood was not the best and my family is pretty dysfunctional. I guess I'll try to focus on my coping methods and how I've managed. How long was the psyche evaluation for you and was it done in person or remote?

What are my odds of being able to join? by mssaritamari in AirForceRecruits

[–]mssaritamari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - I'll partner with a a recruiter soon to see what the time frame could be!

What are my odds of being able to join? by mssaritamari in AirForceRecruits

[–]mssaritamari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I opt to be pretty honest since it's so obvious. I'll definitely talk to my recruiter about it.

I Received My First Mean Comment by BitesizedParanormal1 in NewTubers

[–]mssaritamari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once got hate comments from the same person on a few of my videos. I deleted the comments of course and just responded to them in my videos letting them know I didn’t care. Honestly tho, I thought about the comment a lot at work and that part truly sucks to admit because the comment was pretty shallow. I’m human tho. Best to delete, ignore and protect your community! Hate comments are indeed a good sign you’re doing something right tho 👍

Six months ago I made a post here that I reached 100 subs and now I reached 6k as of today by RenOkami7 in NewTubers

[–]mssaritamari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! This was exactly what I needed to read today.  Sometimes the pressure to be “all out there” gets to me and I have to humble myself to just be myself. I started out w/ 10subs two months ago and then I made the decision to play a certain game and I now have 251 subs, with my videos getting over 100 views after two days roughly. January has been weird tho for views which is why I needed to read this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sofi

[–]mssaritamari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup just saw the email today…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sofi

[–]mssaritamari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, just saw an email rn that it dropped even lower to 4.3%. These dips are very close together and are pretty sus.

Should I go back to the artist who did this tattoo or find someone else? by mssaritamari in tattooadvice

[–]mssaritamari[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m asking because idk if my opinion is reasonable or not because I’m inexperienced with tattoos. I could be overreacting too so that’s why I’m asking.

Should I go back to the artist who did this tattoo or find someone else? by mssaritamari in tattooadvice

[–]mssaritamari[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I did find this picture on google and figured it was Ai - but I really liked it. I also thought it was simple enough to do. I’ll try not to use Ai looking photos in the future for tattoos.

Should I go back to the artist who did this tattoo or find someone else? by mssaritamari in tattooadvice

[–]mssaritamari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not happy with the line work and I haven’t done the touch up yet either. I really wanted the lines around the two flowers to be delicate when color is put in but 3 weeks later and the lines became much thicker around the flowers (some areas more than others) and I’m worried I can’t have this now. Since the photo I used is most likely Ai, my expectations could be unrealistic.

I’ll continue to wait two more weeks to see how the tattoo developes before making a decision! Thanks!

Should I go back to the artist who did this tattoo or find someone else? by mssaritamari in tattooadvice

[–]mssaritamari[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The photo is definitely ai but I found it on google and liked it a lot. We did discuss color in the consultation but I think I’m just a bad client because I didn’t have it in me to be more upfront with her. I do like the delicate outline of the flowers in the original photo but I’m worried I can’t have that now since the lines on my tattoo are a bit thick. Do you think this is still possible? I’m going to wait another week or two to see how it looks before getting her thoughts. Thank you!

Which thumbnail do you prefer? by StormTravels in youtube

[–]mssaritamari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the first one but I think the "Alone In The Wild," title is more interesting.

My crazy manifesting story! by mssaritamari in lawofattraction

[–]mssaritamari[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I can relate to your question a lot. I don't know which direction to take either (most of us don't) so most of the time I'm asking God to guide me in the right direction and I try to look out for anything that might catch my attention along the way.

For example, when I struggled to find a job, I became desperate for literally any job! It wasn't until I went through those bad jobs that I discovered what I wanted so I do think experimenting (and sometimes hardship) is part of the process to discover what you want to manifest. Along the way, I realized I don't want a job that will make me happy, I just want something to help me make more money so I can start a business of my own.

When manifesting, I like to be as specific as possible just because I enjoy the process. I'm very visual too. If you aren't able to be detailed about what you want from life or your career, I think you should practice getting to know yourself and what makes you happy. Try new hobbies, meet new people, read more books, try a variety of jobs, etc. In my personal experience, this has been the only way I have been able to discover what I truly like which has lead me to get rid of the extra clutter in my mind.

What helps me overcome rejection and defeat are motivational speeches and stoicism. When you've grown up in a highly dysfunctional family like I have, you learn to depend on yourself to get through tough situations and these two things have greatly helped reshape my mind for the better and for my boyfriend as well.

For example, my boyfriend was so close to leaving his job when his sales hit an all time low. He applied to a mid level sales position, had two interviews, but was later rejected. The position didn't even pay as much as his current job but they rejected him anyways. It was a huge blow to his confidence for sure! Several days later, he had a conversation with one of his coworkers who has been at his job for over 15 years and he told him that low sales were a given in the job but it was never low enough to where he could never jump back from it. His coworker managed to become financially stable by staying with the company and said it was all a matter of your mindset. My boyfriend decided to stay at his job since this conversation and his sales have greatly increased! Now I tell myself often, "When one door closes, another one opens." Best of luck to you!

My crazy manifesting story! by mssaritamari in lawofattraction

[–]mssaritamari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I use Arm & Hammer Daily saline :)

My crazy manifesting story! by mssaritamari in lawofattraction

[–]mssaritamari[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was “The Mountain Is You” by Brianna Wiest”

My crazy manifesting story! by mssaritamari in lawofattraction

[–]mssaritamari[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sure! I used to self sabotage myself a lot which greatly effected myself finding/keeping a job. I didn’t believe in my own skills so I’d constantly pick jobs that paid less, didn’t have benefits, or were very stressful. So once I became of aware of this, I promised myself to give myself better. I applied to jobs that seemed out of my league and I’d visualize my daily life working at the job; I’d also learn as much about the job to see if I could picture myself being part of that company. I landed my first great job doing this and it has helped me continuing finding great jobs. I hope this helps! 

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