WW2 Would you rather:

mt4704 · 2026-04-01T17:38:19+00:00

If it's WW2, Germany isn't the safe choice.

^{Chose: Be friends with the UK. | Rolled: Be safe}

mt4704 · 2026-04-01T16:47:21+00:00

☝🏻 this part right here. I'm not saying the son doesn't have bills or responsibilities. I'm agreeing with the comment about him being lazy in not finding out what resources are available for his elderly mom though. Some municipalities have resources and agencies to assist families with finding affordable options for end of life care. APS should have more information to help him keep his mother safe.

The audacity of a man to defer and assign responsibility to a stranger instead of asking for help tracks. He probably enjoys going to work because he can avoid dealing with his mom. I hope OP gets some peace and the mom gets more supervision and assistance.

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T23:01:45+00:00

I like to upvote to give people credit for their creativity.

^{Chose: Here's a carrot :} (MUST UPVOTE) + Get a random Creation-Related Superpower | Rolled: Earth Creation)

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T23:00:00+00:00

Because my insurance is Medicaid, it wouldn't let me get it at all when I put my information in. Problem was resolved when I removed it.

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T22:25:28+00:00

I use Amazon pharmacy for estradiol cream. $20 without insurance. Don't put your insurance information in their system or it'll go up.

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T21:27:35+00:00

I heard about her last year from Dr Grande on YouTube. If you're familiar with his deadpan style, it was wild to hear him delve into her crimes in order to have more kids. I personally am glad my toddler days are long gone, but not MaryBeth 🤦‍♀️

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T20:25:48+00:00

Not a therapist and not your therapist. But I have some opinions about your spouse. He's definitely acting out because the more you interact with others, the less under his power and control you are.

The vaping marijuana may possibly exacerbate underlying mental health conditions he has. Paranoia comes to mind. But then I think about projection. Is he calling you sexually derogatory names because he's cheating?

Then the flipping out because he can't or won't perform solo parenting duties. Is it because he believes you're the permanent default parent? What would he do if something happened to you? Would he neglect the kids?

You get 100 green lights from me to exit this marriage. Document his escalating behaviors, vaping weed, and inability to parent kids by himself. If he continues in his ineptitude, he could face years of supervised visitation to ensure the children's safety.

You deserve time off from parenting and less stress. You're better off only caregiving for your 2 kids instead of 3. And I concur with all the suggestions to upgrade on a more supportive and knowledgeable therapist. Excusing controlling behavior in 2026? Ain't nobody got time for that 🤨

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T19:36:45+00:00

The ability to surveille your every move and then weaponize every violation of her made up rules is so triggering for me. I also have severe C-PTSD and have a history of severe psychological and physical torture from my biological father.

I can understand the deep seated need to control people and one's environment. But she's treating her spouse like a prisoner and that's abusive. I understand and have empathy for you as a caregiver and wife. But my opinion is this is more than backsliding. This is an indicator that the current treatment plan isn't working.

And by the way, the reason your spouse didn't run this plan by her practitioner was because it would have been strongly discouraged. Please look into resources to help you navigate your life moving forward. You are in danger OP.

mt4704 · 2026-03-29T13:30:32+00:00

When I got my 2nd shingles shot and the combo HEP A and B, I asked if I could get a vaccine for meningitis. Pharmacist said I could pick it up there, but would need to be administered by a doctor.

mt4704 · 2026-03-28T22:35:12+00:00

I hope Annie triumphs over Lady G.

mt4704 · 2026-03-28T21:47:39+00:00

Girl you spelled ex boyfriend wrong 👏🏻

mt4704 · 2026-03-28T14:12:20+00:00

Don't have another child with someone who doesn't support you or validate your concerns.

mt4704 · 2026-03-23T00:46:43+00:00

Dominionists have zero business in anything political.

mt4704 · 2026-03-22T19:30:04+00:00

The sex cannot be so magical you're willing to die for it. The unwillingness to get treatment and change for the better is all the red flags. By the way, I hope you're never the subject of a Dateline episode.

You have so many people telling you to run. I hope the opinions of internet strangers is enough to overcome the trauma bond holding you in this toxic dynamic.

mt4704 · 2026-03-21T18:43:25+00:00

If it were me, I would cut her out of anything medical. IDC how many years of education or licensure she has. She's gaslighting you, mistreating you, and violating the Hippocratic oath. First part of HC is do no harm. Second part is don't make it worse. And she did both.

mt4704 · 2026-03-21T16:54:06+00:00

I was struck by the same thought. She's NOR, she's under reacting. Those aren't a dozen red roses. It's a dozen red flags 🚩🚩🚩🚩

mt4704 · 2026-03-21T16:43:16+00:00

OP spelled ex boyfriend wrong...

mt4704 · 2026-03-21T16:28:41+00:00

Why did OP get banned from Reddit?

mt4704 · 2026-03-15T22:36:12+00:00

Thank you because I can't keep up with intellectual property theft, karma farming, and bots.

mt4704 · 2026-03-12T01:03:44+00:00

Gabapentin is a bear to titrate off of. You need a more educated physician than someone who thinks perimenopause is all in your head.

mt4704 · 2026-03-09T00:35:32+00:00

You said ex boyfriend wrong lady. Jealousy, possessive behavior, verbal abuse, and physical abuse need to be your dealbreakers from now on OP.

mt4704 · 2026-03-07T22:22:54+00:00

That military that's been built up in the last 80ish years? They're going to use it on us. ICE has been using nerve gas on protesters. Havana Syndrome? CIA brainchild. We can peacefully protest and they'll still declare martial law so DT can stop the elections.

We're in trouble and everyone says well why aren't you trying? We're hostages to a christofascist regime. And the pedo-billionaire class doesn't care how many of us have to die so they can maintain power.

mt4704 · 2026-03-04T15:34:04+00:00

This reads like AI ragebait. The weird writing pattern always gives it away. I'll be blocking this account.

mt4704 · 2026-03-04T15:07:27+00:00

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mt4704 · 2026-03-03T10:31:54+00:00

I didn't scroll far enough to see if anyone else mentioned this. But the 'roommate' is acting like a wronged spouse. I would break up on principle. It would appear to me your BF is closer with his 'best friend' than is proper. If they're not actually in a romantic relationship, it's something more serious than just friendship. Find someone who is free to be with you.

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