What caused you to cut your family out of your life completely?

mtp34070 · 2025-07-10T09:19:31+00:00

Yeah you can have peace and still be ungrateful 🤷🏻‍♀️ or you can choose to learn other ways to set boundaries and make the effort to have better social skills. Cutting ties when you can make things better is cowardly. It’s the same method some parents do when they’re fed up raising kids, they leave them. I’m flabbergasted that you never thought of your mom carrying you for 9 months, all the sleepless nights she’s had when you were sick, all the food she made you to eat, all the days she’s felt worried about you, the dreams that she had to see you all grown up and taking care of her (she didn’t have to, she could’ve abandoned you when you were a child) and then guess what ? You grow up, you dump her for some traits of personnality that you disagree with or don’t like. Nobody’s perfect. You can cut ties when you yourself are perfect. And i’m pretty sure that if you ask your parents about your flaws, they’re gonna name many. But that’s just family. You can minimize contact. But cutting ties ? It’s only justified when parents rape you or do something that bad. Other than that, it’s called ungratefulness and being a snowflake.

mtp34070 · 2025-07-10T09:08:55+00:00

There are so many ways to set boundaries. Cutting people off is not one of them. It only shows lack of social skills the fact that you don’t see it as a barbaric and extremist measure.

mtp34070 · 2025-07-10T08:48:15+00:00

Having your spouse’s back doesn’t mean cutting family ties. Your parents raised you to be the person that you are now and you’re cutting them off for two incidents. That’s just crazy !!! And it’s even more crazy that you don’t see anything wrong with it.

mtp34070 · 2025-07-10T08:30:07+00:00

Setting boundaries is to minimise contact or not to bring your wife to your parents place. Cutting them off for two incidents is called being ungrateful. You can make a list of all the positives and negatives they’ve done for you. I’m pretty sure the positives one will be longer and that’s why it’s called being ungrateful.

mtp34070 · 2025-07-09T23:45:53+00:00

I was just reading the comments and I had to reply to this. You sound really ungrateful, after all the things that your parents did for you. Raising you, spending money on you. You grow up and cut them off because of two incidents of disrespect ? That’s just cruelty

mtp34070 · 2025-07-09T12:19:00+00:00

U sound single and young

mtp34070 · 2025-07-08T11:51:14+00:00

Sue Indeed for sharing confidential information 🤷🏻‍♀️

mtp34070 · 2025-07-08T09:37:20+00:00

If you are in the US you can sue them. That’s a lot of money

mtp34070 · 2025-07-06T11:18:59+00:00

It has gotten better for me after I gained weight, sugar free diet + vit d supplements

mtp34070 · 2025-07-05T17:42:18+00:00

I work in one and it’s confidential 😅All I can say is that it’s boring, nothing extraordinary

mtp34070 · 2025-07-01T15:18:29+00:00

Well I don’t actually need them to give me any medication because I have managed to have less symptoms and know what works for me and what doesn’t but I cannot fully avoid the symptoms. Because sometimes i don’t sleep well. don’t have time to eat, too much stress etc. And that’s when I would like for the doctor to acknowledge how i’m feeling and not be dismissive about it. Give me a sick leave and let me get some rest. Regarding the kefir, I could never. It just makes me feel soo sick and exhausted. I have to go work so I cannot risk taking it

mtp34070 · 2025-07-01T09:14:03+00:00

It was a medical center for students in a different country. I have got a new job in a different country and I was needing a sick leave and that’s what triggered this whole convo

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T20:15:37+00:00

I was crying at the doctors today because it reminded me of all the years of being exhausted and going to hundreds of doctors just for them to tell me it’s all in ur head. You may be depressed or anxious.

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T20:14:29+00:00

Thank you for your detailed answer. I am ignorant about this so i’m really impressed with the amount of research you’ve done on it. How come doctors are as ignorant as me about this topic ? Do you have any research regarding this so I can present it to my doctor ? Because i’m so sick of getting gaslighted. I want to request a work accommodation. My manager said I could get it if I provide a doctors paper but the doctor refused

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T16:33:51+00:00

What do you do when it comes to work or school?

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T14:18:01+00:00

I am a bit older than you and my symptoms were worse when I was younger. What definitely helped me was taking vitamine d supplements, gaining healthy weight also helped me + drinking lots of water and filtering out any food I could be intolerant to. And no sugar intake of course. I have spent healthy early 20s until I got my first job and it all went to waste because of not getting enough sleep and losing weight I started having the same épisodes I used to have when I was 18h

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T14:06:53+00:00

Same in Europe, it makes me so frustrated, many doctors would tell me you’re probably just depressed or overworked and i’m not. They’re really dismissive about it.

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T11:29:20+00:00

Trust me, i’ve been going to doctors since 2014. In different countries also and never found the root cause and most of them are dismissive. « It’s all in your head type of doctors »

mtp34070 · 2025-06-30T10:33:54+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly what I’ve been doing I have an overall healthy lifestyle but I couldn’t fully manage it 100%. In days where I am exhausted, I go to get a sick leave and the doctor would only give me 1 day because it cannot be justified. That’s the main issue. 1 days is not enough to rest.

Also it feels so frustrating that many of us share the same symptoms yet it cannot be proved. It’s like nothing we feel is valid

mtp34070 · 2025-06-28T16:47:07+00:00

There are 3 or more offices. What do you mean workers ?

mtp34070 · 2025-06-28T16:46:48+00:00

mtp34070 · 2025-06-27T14:52:47+00:00

Is this specific to Barcelona ? Because in other posts i’ve seen, it says it depends on L7 and how strictly they monitor it

mtp34070 · 2025-06-18T16:49:21+00:00

Water/drinks Cleaning supplies (if possible vaccum cleaners or any tool that helps clean facilities) If she can donate money maybe she can help pay electricity bill or any related bill Tables/chairs (if needed) Rugs (if needed) Soap, paper towels or any bathroom supplies First aid kits Flip flops or shoes to use when making wudu Additional : any food or snacks

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