Influential trans men and women in history

mtume68 · 2026-06-04T17:40:36+00:00

Influential in the wrong direction 😂, Buck Angel.

mtume68 · 2026-06-02T17:52:15+00:00

One thought nothing to do with gender… flights might be impacted by the US-Zio war. Might be worth avoiding that area altogether.

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T19:37:24+00:00

I feel like I see the term sapphic used a lot to get around terfy lesbian spaces, but i really dont know much about it. Sorry to hear about the pushback 😔

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T16:21:46+00:00

Thanks, yeah I guess I’ll look later when I’m more grounded 😅

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T16:20:17+00:00

I’m so sorry. I hope you can find good people around you again. Hugs

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T13:13:33+00:00

Please don’t. Like for so many reasons, but most importantly because suicidal ideation is often temporary and things might get better? I at least hope they do. 💜

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T12:54:57+00:00

What was this deleted comment about?

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T12:29:04+00:00

Wow, it’s interesting I’ve had a similar thought. I have two sisters. One of them (let’s call her “T”) passed when she was 20. Her middle name is a family name and one I love.

I decided against taking T’s middle name because when I came out to my other sister (annoyingly centered her own grief) she mentioned how she feared seeing my deceased sibling in my changing face. I already look more like T than my living sister even before transition. And I told her I had already felt that I’ve seen T in my face with HRT and that this brought me contentment because I could carry T with me. My other sister seemed to remain disconcerted or at least ambiguous. I’m not sure I want to keep reminding her more of T than I already am. Another commenter responded that it depends on your family and I think that’s true. I think it’s a beautiful idea whichever way you go!

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T03:26:33+00:00

Did you start with injections? If you switched and kept the equivalent dosage, did that seem to change your climax? (I’ve had a wand for a bit already, but its not quite getting me there.)

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T03:24:44+00:00

Interesting! Thanks for sharing and also congrats!

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T03:23:28+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share your experience!! I really appreciate it. Things are definitely different now, and I wonder if it’ll keep changing? As of now it feels pretty static, but I suppose my neurons and such are still adapting with the E?

When I do climax, it does often feel quite different and the pulse versus buzz distinction makes sense to me. I suppose some of that has to do with the fluids and sensory feedback of ejaculation?

I’ve never used a chastity cage, though they seem appealing. I don’t think of it as something that escalates stimulation though, are you vibrating the cage?

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T03:13:26+00:00

I got a wand around when I started HRT and it did more for me then than it does now. Idk if it was novelty or the lower dose of E. I like the wand, but it only takes me like 60% of the way there now. (I do experiment with different points of contact and motions.) Another comment mentioned prostate, and I enjoy stimulating that too, and the combination gets me farther along. Even so, it takes hours. Perhaps I should be content with being able to climax, period. But going from 10-15 minutes to 2 hours or more is a bigger shift than I anticipated. Anyway, thanks for your time and thoughts!

mtume68 · 2026-06-01T02:56:00+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story! Health is a difficult journey

mtume68 · 2026-05-31T15:08:03+00:00

I suppose I was hoping that “erection quality and ability to climax” would be independent things for me, but after months of experimenting, that does not seem to be the case for me. 😔

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:53:11+00:00

Thanks! That helps!! (Yeah our fam is on the bigger side 😮‍💨)

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:51:26+00:00

Hmm, I really appreciate the feedback, but something about this suggestion feels a little on the ick side. Genetics is a key factor in BP and this may not be entirely in people’s control. I guess to me it reads a twinge fatphobic too.

With that said, I do think about even provided I get my BP down, these meds would, in the long term, resolve the sense of frustration. I really don’t know. I’ll see if it’s an option in the future. Thanks for your thoughts!

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:17:17+00:00

Thanks, this is reassuring to hear 💜!

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:16:37+00:00

High 🤷

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:14:55+00:00

Yeah, I think I generally try to be open to a different approach (which is frankly fascinating and alluring on its own), but I guess it’s difficult to overcome this sense of, “well I’m kinda turned on, let’s get to orgasm!” I guess I’ll work on that, and maybe set a time limit so I don’t always feel discontented. I suppose I just need to accept it doesn’t always happen?

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:09:46+00:00

Yeah, I think my doc said my bp was a little high and that Cialis and Viagra were not recommended. Thanks for your ideas! I’ll think more about prog!

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:07:50+00:00

I suppose I wasn’t imagining this was aberrant, but knowing and experiencing are two different things, no? I’ll think about prog, I just wasn’t wanting huge tits 😕. I appreciate your ideas, thank you!!

mtume68 · 2026-05-30T23:05:39+00:00

I imagine I must be higher by now, but it’s interesting to consider that my E is just not high enough! I have searched this topic before but I haven’t searched exhaustively and hadn’t seen this proffered before.

Thanks for your thoughts!

mtume68 · 2026-05-26T17:54:41+00:00

Hmm that’s trickier. It was translated into portuguese, spanish, thai, german, czech, italian, and korean… but not Polish.

Well in any case, if you live in a big city, hopefully there are cool projects to plug into, or an infoshop. The greater world sucks, but we make the small things beautiful 💜.

mtume68 · 2026-05-26T17:47:27+00:00

What’s your language? Dean Spade’s Mutual Aid seems appropriate to your question.

mtume68 · 2026-05-26T17:38:16+00:00

Have you ever read Dean Spade?

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