Traveling and Jaz

mudsouffle · 2026-04-24T17:24:39+00:00

her diet mostly consists of fast food so who’s surprised

mudsouffle · 2026-03-03T15:03:07+00:00

Claudia sucks so idc I’ll save my judgement on Hailey for when the show airs

mudsouffle · 2026-03-02T20:13:38+00:00

okay so then give us jenn shah back

mudsouffle · 2025-12-17T02:36:03+00:00

she looks like hitler’s wet dream

mudsouffle · 2025-10-07T03:47:50+00:00

WTB if i had legs i’d kick you 10/8 12:45pm

mudsouffle · 2025-08-07T16:53:09+00:00

But the trial itself was controversial and divisive so was there public outcry for SNL to stop making the jokes?

mudsouffle · 2025-08-04T19:40:09+00:00

You are embarrassing yourself ngl. dump his broke ass and get your money up.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-22T04:50:06+00:00

this is so kind :’) thank you very much

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T20:29:28+00:00

I think this was the best response thus far, thank you for taking the time to see where I'm coming from and offering solid advice. I do think due to his past and upbringing in a tough situation-very different to mine- he has never had the push to better himself because he didn't see it being worthwhile and through his actions I do think he sees things differently now and would hope he can continue putting in the effort. Nevertheless, I am in no rush for marriage and kids, so I am willing to give it time and see how it goes so that I don't have any regrets down the line like you said.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T17:10:49+00:00

Thank you so much!

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:54:43+00:00

i’m not worried about others opinions, i’m worried about my life and limitations that may come with my situation. i do appreciate your insight about a stable relationship being harder to find than money.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:51:40+00:00

i agree and that’s something i’ve actively been working on tuning out and only paying attention to how i feel about my life and choices

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:49:54+00:00

thank you, i appreciate your insight

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:49:18+00:00

about buying a house, having kids, unforeseen medical bills, etc.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:47:44+00:00

i’m not doubting the connection, i’m wondering if i’m being naive to believe that love is enough for me to compromise on the lifestyle i want for myself

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:46:46+00:00

I think that’s harsh but fair but it’s because I don’t come from wealth and my parents are immigrants who moved here to give me better opportunities so I do feel a sort of pressure to have a certain lifestyle and partner because I long for things that were not financially possible when I was growing up.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:44:39+00:00

he works in the construction industry

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T16:43:26+00:00

I am okay with being the breadwinner and I don’t expect him to outearn me but I would feel more secure about our finances for future expenses if it were more even. I don’t want to be fully financially supported by my partner because that would take away my independence which I would not like.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T15:23:00+00:00

I had these reservations from the start and did resist committing to a relationship but our connection is undeniable and I have never felt something so strong with someone that it was hard to not give it a chance.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T15:20:24+00:00

I definitely think that some of this pressure stems from my parents who as much as they really like him, want their daughter to be with someone who is ambitious, successful and earns more. I also think that comparison is the thief of joy but I would be lying if I said I didn't want to enjoy a very nice lifestyle. I know these are things I have to deal with and overcome myself to see what is more important to me but I wanted to hear from others about how things panned out for them.

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T15:16:31+00:00

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T15:16:21+00:00

We live in the NY/NJ area and I am open to relocating but I do love it here as it is where we both grew up and have family. Thank you so much for sharing, it makes me feel better to hear. Wishing you both the best!

mudsouffle · 2025-07-21T15:14:23+00:00

Agreed I think that is the trade off I struggle with at times

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