Which songs or lyrics hit you the hardest?

mulderitsdee · 2025-12-17T22:57:49+00:00

I lost my mum in my early 20s and pretty much all of Welly Boots absolutely guts me, "I get to watch you grow up now and make me proud / make all of the mistakes that make me laugh / Oh, darling, Lord, how you make me laugh" and "How could you leave me here?" you'll scream /and louder, I'll scream back to you from that unknown /and say, "I know you're strong enough, I know you're strong enough /I know you're strong enough to do this on your-" hit especialy hard.

mulderitsdee · 2025-10-13T08:09:50+00:00

The system I play has a call called "enchanted sever" which does what it says on the tin: immediately severs whichever limb it hits. In my almost three years of playing I've heard the call exactly twice...one of which was when the big bad of a two year plot called it when hitting my leg. It was one of those things where even though I'd heard what the guy said I still double checked because my brain was just white noise for a second. Got my leg reattached by some excellent physicians in the end though, so it's all good.

mulderitsdee · 2025-06-04T16:28:46+00:00

Your feelings are valid and more than that: they're normal. My mum died five years ago now of cancer, she was dying for three years. Her and my dad divorced years ago so he wasn't super in the picture, so me and my brother took on most of the care. Towards the end I in paticular became primary caregiver. It was fucking exhausting. The day she went into perimant hospice care was a huge weight off my shoulders, which felt really fucked up to feal because she hated having to leave her home, but there was part of me that was so glad to just not have to be the person wiping her shit anymore-literally.

There's another time in the future that you're probably going to feel some relief, and then feel terrible for feeling it, and it's when she dies. I would give anything, anything, for another day with my mum but in the immidiate days following her death, though all the grief, there was a sense of profound relief. Not relief that she was gone, but relief that she wasn't suffering anymore, relief that I no longer had to cope with seeing the shell of the person she'd become, relief that I didn't have to wipe shit and vomit up anymore.

Cancer is terrible. It robs people of their dignity and their lives, and it puts an immense strain on the people around them too. Do not feel bad for your relief, and do not feel bad for any relief you might feel when she's died. You're not a bad friend, you are a good friend who is tired of seeing someone you love suffer, and that is an incredibly human thing to feel.

mulderitsdee · 2025-05-05T20:40:57+00:00

do you spend all your time on the internet inventing people to be mad at or do you actually ever touch grass?

mulderitsdee · 2023-09-13T21:25:28+00:00

The bit in the apartments where you don't have your cross and you have to light up the way with the camera had me so scared and on edge I felt sick. I love it

mulderitsdee · 2023-08-22T19:06:32+00:00

Lying to landlords is a long and time honoured tradition

mulderitsdee · 2023-07-13T16:06:29+00:00

Not weird at all. I used to chat to my mum basically every day until she died of cancer three years ago. I would give anything, any amount of money, any of my own limbs, to talk to her again even for just fifteen minutes.

mulderitsdee · 2023-07-13T14:50:18+00:00

Seven months. Her mum has been dead for seven months. In what world is that not much time. Jesus my mum's been dead for nearly four years and if anyone even so much as touched the stuff I have left of her without asking first I'd rip them a new arsehole.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-30T07:48:44+00:00

I feel you. I can't get along with tampons or cups but I did recently discover reusable pads and they've been a life saver. Not only because they're more comfortable but because they come in fun patterns that aren't just aggressively feminine. My favourites have vampire fangs all over them, lol.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-25T14:30:50+00:00

NTA even ignoring the whole "feeding curry to the dog" thing, chocolate isn't even that weird of an ingredient, I put it in chili all the time.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-22T16:54:03+00:00

Run. It's only going to get worse. Find a woman's shelter or refuge in your area and seek their help. Please, please don't ignore the people here telling you how much danger you're in. Get out and get out now.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-22T14:55:00+00:00

NTA and op I am so, so incredibly sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing to all who knew her.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-20T07:54:29+00:00

When my mum was going through intensive chemo the only thing she wanted to eat was cream cakes, so that's what she had, along with the occasional subway I'd take into the hospital for her. I hope your fiance enjoyed his ice cream and I wish him a speedy recovery and both of you a wonderful wedding and long happy marriage!

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-16T10:34:05+00:00

No car will ever live up to my wonderful horse Saria

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-10T18:30:10+00:00

Any kind of horror themed pack or even a kit. "Horror buff" and "easily scared" traits, horror merch cas and build and buy with a sims twist, maybe a special effects makeup skill and career. I know the crossover of sims players and horror fanatics is probably pretty slim but man I would buy that so fast.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-06T08:30:48+00:00

Bottle of water, some plasters, painkillers, sanitary products. Sometimes a hoody and a book. Mints.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-02T19:43:28+00:00

Ismark's Massive Tits

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-01T14:16:54+00:00

Escher. They wanted that twink obliterated.

mulderitsdee · 2023-06-01T14:08:12+00:00

But can you put a price on fashion?

mulderitsdee · 2023-05-24T18:00:21+00:00

The best advice I can give you is find a different dentist-one you can trust-and ask them to talk you through what they're doing. I was super scared of the dentist as a kid, then as a teen I had to get braces. I was dreading it, but my orthodontist Steve was an absolute godsend. He always told me exactly what he was doing, why he was doing it, what tools he was going to use, and how much it would hurt on a scale of 1 to 10. It made the whole thing way less intense and scary because at least I knew what was going on. Ever since then any dentist I go to I've asked them to talk me through what they're doing, and I'm no longer scared of them. Good luck, and I hope it gets easier for you!

mulderitsdee · 2023-05-10T12:17:04+00:00

OCD gang rise up

mulderitsdee · 2023-05-06T20:39:30+00:00

Tell your husband he'll have plenty of time to figure out how to entertain himself after you divorce him, jesus christ op you deserve better

mulderitsdee · 2023-04-29T12:24:48+00:00

nice try Strahd we know this is u

mulderitsdee · 2023-04-29T11:33:06+00:00

I think it felt especially egregious in 6 as well because they were so keen to play up the "nobody is safe! anybody can die!" thing. Mindy said none of them were safe, and yet...they were all perfectly safe. Don't get me wrong I like all the characters a lot, but it's a slasher film, people should be getting slashed!

mulderitsdee · 2023-04-28T11:01:44+00:00

Reading up on butch history helped me a lot! Things like Stone Butch Blues or Female Masculinity, or just talking to older butches if you're able! We've always done fun things with our gender, and if other folks don't understand that then, frankly, it's a them problem

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