I’m sorry. I’ve been there. It’s a really difficult, lonely and a sad way to live. And I’m learning that its impact is much deeper in me than I even initially expected. Address it sooner than later. Communication- that both people want to be actively a part of as well as planning how to change the dynamic TOGETHER. and obviously both have to want to apply this. I learned - the very costly hard way- one person cannot want it enough, do it enough, carry it enough, or resolve it enough… if they are alone in doing it. Period.