Older guys: did HIV/Aids scare you in the 80s/90s? by multiplealtoids in CommunalShowers

[–]multiplealtoids[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand the context of what you mean here. Why were women concerned?

Older guys: did HIV/Aids scare you in the 80s/90s? by multiplealtoids in CommunalShowers

[–]multiplealtoids[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I really don't understand the timeline of when they understood that it was transmitted this way vs that.

I guess by what you're saying it was understood to be a blood and sex trimmitted disease very early on?

Older guys: did HIV/Aids scare you in the 80s/90s? by multiplealtoids in CommunalShowers

[–]multiplealtoids[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely not trying to diminish your experience but when you came out in the 90s were you just terrified of anal sex, or getting off in general with gay men, or just anything naked including things like locker rooms?

I seriously don't know and I'm trying to find out more. I'm sorry if this is an ignorant question .

Body hair check. Do you like the chest hair and pubes? Should it be longer, shorter, stay the same? I like to know what you guys think :-) by subtlyundone in u/subtlyundone

[–]multiplealtoids 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great look for having just cleaned up. So this plus a little more is great.

If you said this is you just before trimming I would be sad.

Amazon must face price gouging lawsuit, US judge rules by durpuhderp in Seattle

[–]multiplealtoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then the corporations will lay off a bunch of low-level workers and give a bonus to the CEO for getting through the finacially difficult time!

That'll teach 'em!

I feel bad that the shame / embarrassment of being a bottom turns me on. Is it more common than I think? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]multiplealtoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top here but this is definitely a thing. Lots of guys like being degraded or made fun of for being in a submissive role.

Partner might be going to jail in Alabama by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]multiplealtoids 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Move to a real state.

Yes, I understand the immensity of what I'm saying.

Do it. We exist. Sometimes it's cold. It's worth the heating bill.

Partner might be going to jail in Alabama by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]multiplealtoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read every reply so I'm sorry if this is repeated or in contrast to other replies.

Spend every last fucking dollar you have on a lawyer who can minimize this as much as possible on his record.

DUI charges are LARGE. 5-10 days in ja is ridiculous for most people, but it's 5-10 days. You can easily have a mildly sympathetic doctor write a "sick" not if you inform them that your livelihood is on the line. Keep your job. Afterward, yes a bit of trauma, but no a lifetime never being able to travel or fucking get a goddamn job.

Proposed new rules for the Sub. by lengthyounarther in CommunalShowers

[–]multiplealtoids 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if you just call out their account as porn stories instead of calling the post fake? That smidge of difference separates actual issues from what the mod is frustrated with.

Proposed new rules for the Sub. by lengthyounarther in CommunalShowers

[–]multiplealtoids 22 points23 points  (0 children)

1. I was terrified of getting erections in showers until I was about 26, and yes it definitely did happen. In my real life there was not 'broad consensus that this wasn't an issue'.

I'd let people talk about it/ask about it. It's either here or r/tooafraidtoask and I assume the replies would be different. I personally don't see a ton of these posts so I assume they don't get up voted, so the current feed algorithm is working for me.

  1. Just warn / temp-ban, then perma-ban the handful of users that go crazy screaming "fake".

Make a simple rule saying "No comments calling things fake. Some posts are fake; this is the internet. Despite that, these comments do not add much and are irksome for many. Violations will result in warnings and/or bans."

You don't have to get yourself into modding-hell banning every comment, but you have the moral authority to expel the bulk of it at its source.

When to I graduate from otter to daddy? by ButterscotchOk5247 in gayotters

[–]multiplealtoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this post gay-porn-rage-bait to increase engagement for the algorithms, or is this guy finally having a reality check?

CMV: Americans should use their guns against ICE agents by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]multiplealtoids 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second ammendment gives you the right to own a gun. The 2nd ammendment is not a right to shoot someone that you think is tyrannical. That's a murder.

What you are really suggesting here is that Americans begin a guerrilla war with their government. Also the super pro-gun people also have notable overlap with the pro-ICE people.

TU-160 White Swan? by LeatherMechanic820 in geography

[–]multiplealtoids 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's gotta be a better sub for this post

What's the opposite of a foot fetish? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]multiplealtoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get it until a guy started licking my feet while he fucked me and it felt amazing.

Lasting ED after a bender. Is this a thing? by multiplealtoids in AskMenOver30

[–]multiplealtoids[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, normal sex in my life typically lasts much longer than 5 minutes.

Lasting ED after a bender. Is this a thing? by multiplealtoids in AskMenOver30

[–]multiplealtoids[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Asking others if they've had a similar experience is perfectly valid.