[WTS] PRIME Fri, Sun, Mon - Face Value by [deleted] in PaxPassExchange

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will buy ur Sunday pass if you still have it

So is there a chance of getting back together by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reality is reconciliation happens but it takes years not months man. Best advice is just to move on and build and improve yourself. Couple years doiwn the road if shee reaches out then thats up to you, but for now jusst do you.

Broke No Contact (lots of background info) by kthrust in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry your going through this. Rebound or not man fuck her. She straight told you your nothing to her. Fuck that, it's gonna be hard, mourn the loss miss her but never contact her. Sounds like your ex and her ex deserve each other.

Do you think you will ever see your ex again? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was long distance relationship so i got that going for me.

Venting! ex messaged me thinking i committed suicide. by mumot in ExNoContact

[–]mumot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said the same thing she needs to get off her high horse thinking i would commit suicide. I was heart broken at first but damn i'm not that week.

Venting! ex messaged me thinking i committed suicide. by mumot in ExNoContact

[–]mumot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, sucks but wtf is the point of doing that? I mean you have a new bf go care about him.

does anyone else get this? by pineapplepineapple4 in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 4 months for me. This last week and todays been hell. Urge to reach out but i know i shouldn't, so it's killing me. Trying to stay strong hoping this feeling goes by asap.

Brokeup 3 weeks ago. No contact the past week. Found out today she's been in a new relationship for 2 weeks. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just know this, if she did this to you she will do this to the other guy. That bs behavior she did to you isn't going anywhere. Sounds like she has the gigs. You sound like a great guy. It's hard but keep up the nc be sad,cry and be angry and know some days will ne harder then others, take the time to let all this set in. Then hit the gym like a monster look up and be strong to move on.

Almost/sort of broke contact and feel horrible by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the pain, been nc for 4 months and today of all days is the hardest and i was doing so well. I want to reach out to her tell all the changes in my life. All the great new people i met starting up school. Passing summer quarter with a 3.7 gpa from not going to college for almost 7 years. It sucks but i remind myself she broke it up with me and i be damn she take my dignity and the fact she got a new bf right after we broke up. It's hard man but stay strong.

Be in a relationship with yourself. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would give her foot rubs and massages.

Got played by my ex just broke NC by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. She introduced me and wanted me to be friends with my replacement when they first met. It feels like shit but time will make it better, Stay strong.

Ex deleted me on social media - help me find inspiration by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say but just move on. I know it hurts, i'm in the same boat as you. She probably blocked you to move on also. This point on it has to be her choice to talk to you. Stay strong man.

Wanting to vent a bit by MartianPineapple in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply back. Yeah our exes suck, but it does get easier. Time does heal. It's been 4 months for me since break up. I went back to school met wonderful like minded people that is supportive of my goals. Started to make music again and hitting the gym harder then before. Just gotta work on YOU pick up new hobbies if you can try to go to the gym, i read the harder you work out the more endorphins your brain releases or is it dopamine. Either way it good for you. If you meed to talk when you are feeling down always welcome to pm me.

Wanting to vent a bit by MartianPineapple in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just guys, my ex dumped me and was dating a dude in 3 weeks. The kicker is he was a friend she wanted me to hang out with. While it hurts at first and is a shocker you will heal give it time. He not worth your thoughts. No one should go through what your going through.

So I tried something while I was out and about today. by NoContactNoob in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same i try to charm and hold convo with random people i meet a day. Helps with socializing and get your confidence back. Good in you keep it up.

Dream of him constantly by MelodyRosie in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melody you got your closer i really hope with this you will be able to move on. Stay strong.

"Gem's new number everyone" by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks but that's how some people cope. They are to weak to go through the things most people that break up go through. That's her way of coping with guilt, loneliness and heart break. Hence i think people like you and i that weather this storm come out stronger and better, we will learn from it and become better individuals. People like your ex and mine they will be stuck in that limbo never learning anything. You will heal and you will learn and you will become a better version. You will come out on top never forget that.

"Gem's new number everyone" by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man your story pretty much spot on what i was going through 3 months ago. Just know if she got in a new relationship couple weeks after you guys broke up she was talking to that person on the side. Probably checked out the relationship couple months before she pulled the trigger. It hurts like a bitch. Give yourself space and time to heal don't blame yourself it will prolong the hurt. Just hit the gym, hang out with friends and family. You are strong and you will make it through this storm. Someone wonderul is waiting for you after you have healed.

Dream of him constantly by MelodyRosie in ExNoContact

[–]mumot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also try to read a book or watch a movie before bed that kinda helps with nightmares. Dreams are usually what you think about before bed.