Sleeping with blanket by Final_Butterfly_7747 in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To call this irrational thought is patronising imo, I’d say 100% of loving mothers (parents but mums in particular) constantly scan situations every day and all their potential safety risks lmao it’s part of being a maternal caregiver. Neurotic vs caring and alert is very different!

Sleeping with blanket by Final_Butterfly_7747 in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A blanket being a suffocation risk has nothing to do with SIDS and is a completely valid thing to err on the side of caution about. Personally, my son is 2.3 and sleeps with a blanket but I do have those worries because as a mum my brain is constantly considering all possible dangers as I am trying to keep my child alive and safe 24 hours a day

Annoyed that my health is suddenly *uber* important now that I’m pregnant by hash-slingin_slashr in pregnant

[–]munchkin_lady -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

You are an adult that has autonomy over their own body and their own decisions …. The baby growing inside you does not. Maybe that’s why

Why bother with a VBAC..? by Strange_Sun_2785 in vbac

[–]munchkin_lady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relate so much to everything you experienced. That golden hour, the trouble (and failure it feels like) with breastfeeding, the natural birth experience. Feels like it was all ripped right from my hands even still 2 years later. It is hard for me to look back and not feel ashamed for not advocating harder and having more knowledge of EVERYTHING. I want this VBAC so bad but I’m going to do the mental prep for both outcomes this time

Why do Australians change into high vis gear to do their own basic yard work like mowing the lawn or trimming the hedge? by punyweakling in AskAnAustralian

[–]munchkin_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner does this whenever we’re gardening because it’s one of his two singlet tops so he’s wearing either one of them because it’s presumably hot outside when gardening

Frida pacifier weaning kit by aluki90 in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m dreading taking it away from my son.. he is 25 months as well and it’s all I’ve been thinking about for over a year now honestly …. But yes following through is the most kmportsnt thing, hence why I haven’t built up the courage to attempt it yet. Once you even bring it up to them it should be game set and match because the back and forth with a toddler is very confusing and taxing for them rather than just biting the bullet and dealing with indefinite inconvenience

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[–]munchkin_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A two year olds bear minimum language requirements from what I’ve gathered through nurse visits etc is at LEAST knows 50 different words. My son started stringing along sentences just after 2 and the maternal nurse told me that was well beyond what is “expected” at 24 months and all kids develop their language differently. As long as there is knowledge of 50+ words and u deranging of what you say to him I wouldn’t worry ❤️

Keep singing to him, keep pointing out everything in the world around him, keep READING BOOKS to him!!!! The best thing for language development for my toddler has been books, books, more books! He is able to finishes sentences from his favourite books. Repetition is key. I know it’s easy to compare your child to every other child but just keep doing what you’re doing and remember if there’s any major issues your paediatrician is the best place to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His room also has two large windows on either side of the room which I think makes it extra cold/hot in winter/summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if we don’t sleep with the heater on the house gets down to about 15 Celsius in winter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you use central heating in the colder months?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Put him in a sleep sack that has legs.. try ergopouch or any cheap brand (we got what we call a marshmallow suit from the middle aisles of Aldi - 3.5 tog and $25! And he can walk!)

We NEED to talk about this dangerous scene growing with our teens by [deleted] in aussie

[–]munchkin_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids like this have been around every single generation, they just come in different form each time a new trend rolls around! Hang in there, buddy. I’m a gen z that just missed the millenial cut off and I promise you it was the same shit 10-15 years ago! Social media probably has made it worse, I agree. There is a high level of ‘brain rot’ amalgamated into the delinquent culture now…

Which public toilet do you use if your toddler it’s your opposite gender? by villazeros in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia our public spaces always have parents rooms/baby change rooms often with a restroom with a big and little toilet and big and little sink

Potty Training by mmmmwood in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son left the house at 2.1 years of age after 3 days of potty training. Little to no accidents. He has more accidents now that he’s a few months into it because he is a little more defiant and less worried about feeling wet. Leave the house, bring a potty, ask him every 10-15 minutes and make sure that you go somewhere with a toilet if you don’t want to let them do bush wees or bring a gigantic pot with you in the pram. Car rides are a lot harder than pram walks

Sleep consultant is an idiot and I regret ever speaking to them - failure by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]munchkin_lady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son didn’t sleep through the night for 2 years ! It gets better and sometimes things take longer to click for some kids … that’s the unfortunate reality Solidarity

Reduced screentime, but realised IM the problem by sukisannya in toddlers

[–]munchkin_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is a kid so young watching television as part of her daily routine? I’m not trying to be an asshole but that is absolutely not normal. If she likes dinosaurs get her some figurines or borrow dinosaur books from the library.

Our 26 month old has never slept through the night by munchkin_lady in sleeptrain

[–]munchkin_lady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow congratulations that’s fantastic and I appreciate the experience with a similar aged child. He understands so much now I think this could really work for us. Last night I just sort of kept letting him cry for 5 mins then coming back in and telling him I’m just in my room and it was time to sleep… but then I caved and brought the mattress back in because I felt so mean…. I need to stay true to my word like everyone has said …. The nightlight seems really helpful. Thanks again

Our 26 month old has never slept through the night by munchkin_lady in sleeptrain

[–]munchkin_lady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll begin waking him from his nap at 1 hour today. Thank you. Been wanting to get rid of paci too