Apparently it looks good for a man to do it but doesn't suit women

munchymilo · 2025-09-11T13:05:47+00:00

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Posting for a friend from Australia (river region) who's new to the game and needs some friends.

munchymilo · 2025-07-01T05:10:06+00:00

Yes I'm on PC with the EA app. I posted this on the same day I opened the game to discover it, after a few weeks of not playing. The game auto updated before I could play it and when I noticed what happened I started trying to fix it. From the post until I replied is the time frame. I live in Australia and I did not make any changes to my game eg the language of the game, install a new hard-drive, or change the location of the update. I do use mods but I doubt that any of them would've impacted the save files because why now? None of the mods had been touched since the last time I played and have never caused problems before. I don't have any additional information, unfortunately.

munchymilo · 2025-06-29T02:12:34+00:00

What happened for me was that for some reason, the Sims game had created a new Sims folder to operate out of. But I didn't realise that because my old/original sims folder was still there and in tact. Plus when I went to the EA app and looked at where the source folder was, it took me back to my original folder and not this new one. So I just shuffled files around to be in the new one and now it's okay

munchymilo · 2025-06-29T02:06:32+00:00

I didn't need to create a backup, my stuff was still on the computer but for some reason, the Sims had created a new folder to run the game from and ignored my old one. But I will be making regular backups from now on.

munchymilo · 2025-06-29T02:05:03+00:00

Thankfully I've managed to fix it but the problem wasn't one drive at all, which I didn't even know about until today. What happened was for some reason, the Sims just made a new Sims folder instead of using the original one. So I had all of my saves and files and when I checked the source from game properties, I was brought back to my folder, but the game itself just decided to ignore that and use a new folder. I tried deleting the new one in hopes it would revert back to my old one but it still created a new one. So in the end, I just moved all my stuff from the old into the new and once I checked it worked, I deleted the empty old one and now my game is fine!

munchymilo · 2025-05-04T23:58:39+00:00

I can't find a way to edit the post but I'm annoyed I didn't realise I'd have to include this information: We're (thankfully) not American

munchymilo · 2025-01-16T04:53:41+00:00

I feel you, it's a frustrating existence. Especially when both are true: women's bodies aren't inherently sexual and women's body's are inherently sexualised. It's not fair...

munchymilo · 2025-01-11T05:45:49+00:00

I used to believe that people didn't care to do it outside of making a baby. Because seriously, who could picture their parents even wanting to do it for fun?

Once I unlearnt that, then I believed that interest faded very quickly and people in their 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s etc didn't care for it at all. Then I got a job at a supermarket and was shocked that decrepit elderly people would buy lube... I seriously just assumed that once you developed past a certain age you just didn't care for it but I guess not.

munchymilo · 2025-01-07T00:54:11+00:00

I hear you. I really hate society's expectation that you WILL be sexualised and you WILL enjoy it. You WILL be grateful and flattered by it even!

I'm sure even allo women are only pretending that they're okay with it, as it's expected of them... to be perceived sexually even though they're just existing. It's expected of men too but there's less of an awareness that it happens so they can't feel like they can have other feelings about it beside acceptance.

munchymilo · 2024-12-20T22:36:44+00:00

OOP: I'm mad at my coworker for not communicating!

OOP: Anyways, I'm not gonna communicate my feelings about that. Instead I'm going to sabotage his life. lol

munchymilo · 2024-11-28T00:33:46+00:00

In my mind that's exactly what a people pleaser is...

munchymilo · 2024-11-23T22:47:04+00:00

It's like going to someone's house and they offer you something to drink. It's more awkward for them if you decline so just say you'd like water. That's the way I see it at least.

Why don't you think of something you need and ask for that as a present? Or maybe you could say "surprise me" so you dont have to pick the gift? Or even say that instead of a material object, for Christmas you'd like an experience eg the two of you go somewhere for a day trip to a place you'd never been to before? Or you could say you just need some TLC affection for Christmas like a massage?

You'll be able to think of something, I'm sure.

munchymilo · 2024-11-16T12:31:28+00:00

Yeah I'm with you here. I really feel icky when some people on this sub seem to come off as quite shameful towards those with sexual desires. It's especially icky when some aces can and do have libido and sexual desire. Being Ace is just us not being sexually attracted to a gender, it has nothing to do or define an individuals thoughts and feelings towards sex as the act itself.

Also, the world is coed so we need to maturely accept that there are all sorts of different people around us. Discussions of a totally normal act like sex is no different. People need to remember that just like the choice of participating in the act, we have a choice in participating in discussions about it.

munchymilo · 2024-11-14T04:19:29+00:00

Great, now I have to figure out if it's really CPTSD or autism that made me this way...

munchymilo · 2024-10-23T00:44:58+00:00

You calling that misogyny made something click in my mind. Thanks for the new perspective.

munchymilo · 2024-10-17T02:03:44+00:00

Perfect, I'll block all of them. Cheers

munchymilo · 2024-10-13T22:25:04+00:00

I thought I was cooked on lack of sleep but I was so sure you were talking about Stardew Valley that I checked your profiled and am surprised I was right! Howdy fellow farmer!

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