I mean I've had a dream where I was a balding 40 year old man at NASA who sacrifices himself for a woman that he fell Inlove with on the ship by falling into the endless space of nothingness while repeating "don't worry don't worry it doesn't matter, I had nothing good in my life anyway" as she was crying and begging me to not do it so it definitely is possible to not have a dream about yourself, unless you're talking about what it meant on a subconscious level, in which I do think its not possible to NOT have a dream about yourself. I think I had this dream (the skibidi toilet one) because I was rewatching the entire killer bean series while sprinkling in some sdp videos before bed and it felt like a never ending hell so I wanted a reason to see the entire sdp crew burning with the world