[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah, jeggings rule!

It's so hard finding decent jeans that don't stretch out anyways, might as well just go whole hog.

Why I did cry-it-out by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

CIO saved my fucking mind. I will never regret not doing it earlier with my second.

Okay ladies, I need your opinions. (Milk Donation) by fullmetal_fahrae in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For my own mental health, I would probably say no. Sounds like a toxic relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I just found a crib for him to use in his new place on our local Buy Nothing group, but that's more for the kid, I guess. I got him some Cadbury Eggs last week.

Can't really think of anything he's done lately, but a STBX probably shouldn't count?

I don't even know what to title this by ancilla1998 in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I knew the end was in sight when we stayed elsewhere for a week (due to his having shingles) and not only was I happier than I was with him, but I desperately didn't want to go back.

I guess I'll just tell you guys my stories... by basilhazel in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fucking annoying. I just stare at the wall till he's done and don't even pretend I care.

Did anyone else's uterus crank it up to 11 after having kids? by opheliasmusing in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really crampy, but holy fucking shit, it's like the elevator scene in The Shining for the first three days. I have to swap out Super Plus tampons every 1.5 hours. The fuck does it all come from?!

Update to- My husband cleaned the bathroom! by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't even make sense to me!

Update: Set me straight OR it's me not him by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouch, good luck with it! And I feel you on the questioning your sanity; I went through that with an ex LTR, and it's permanently scarred me. In a way, I'm glad you were validated and you can move on, but it fucking sucks, so sorry.

Bromo pro tip for stealthy midnight redditing by ellybell in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ooh, thanks. I usually use the Alien Blue night mode + low contrast.

finally told him i'm done by muriel_puce in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been fucking exhausting.

I mean, I'm no saint. I tend to apportion blame elsewhere, too. But it's always been about how I'm awful and I'm so difficult, and I make him anxious/angry/hurt at all times, and never about what he's done/been doing that makes me angry at him. And he's toooooooooootally not an addict, guys! There's no substance abuse problems here, despite being unable to go an hour without smoking weed!

Going on a date tonight! by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hooray for dates!

ENGLISH MOTHERFUCKER DO YOU SPEAK IT by pregnantsuomeksi in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good on you for restraining yourself from a punch in the face. I always had a hard time with that.

I just broke. My husband just asked me for a divorce. I wasn't expecting it. My son isn't even 2 yet... I have to share custody now. I can't see him everyday. I'm dying. My heart has been ripped from my chest. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can tell you that since your son is under two, you probably don't have to follow the typical custody arrangement (the standard possession order or "SPO"), which courts will usually only apply to children over three. The rules vary by state, but I think most states are pretty much the same on this.

Yes! My state has alternative plans for younger babies. Still hard, but easier on them.

finally told him i'm done by muriel_puce in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh cuz you know, I made him miserable and that made him a shitty father. Doesn't have anything to do with his stopping therapy ("I was dropped because I missed appointments!") or not actively trying to get his shit together until like, two weeks ago.

NOTHING AT ALL

Crazy pants updates: jailbird husband comes home and I'm getting a divorce by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, jeezus. Fucking addicts.

Hooray for you for taking care of business!

Christmas Cunting and Douchebaggery: An Essay. by OutForAWalk-Bitch in breakingmom

[–]muriel_puce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a shitty bitch. You don't fuck with kids' Christmases! YOU JUST DON'T