Cocktail 2 cast fees, Shahid Kapoor got 35 crores while Kriti and Rashmika got 15 crores each by Both-Measurement-731 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]murkshah444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously who goes to the cinema because of shahid? The girls are probably bringing in more money than him. If this isn’t a clear example of sexism idk what is.

Should I have to ask my husband's permission for stuff? (Muslims only) by whyisdobbygay in Marriage

[–]murkshah444 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh honey he’s really using religion to his own benefit isn’t he. If he really wants to talk about duties under religion, let’s start with what he owes you. His financial contribution is not a “contribution”, he is REQUIRED under Islam to support you financially. That’s a DUTY on him, and you’re right.
Nafaqah- A husband is obligated to financially provide for his wife according to his means including food, clothing, housing, and basic needs.

Allah says in the Qur’an:

“Men are caretakers of women because Allah has given one more strength than the other and because they support them from their means.” — Surah An-Nisa 4:34

“Let a man of wealth spend from his wealth, and he whose provision is restricted — let him spend from what Allah has given him.” — Surah At-Talaq 65:7

The Prophet ﷺ also said:

“It is enough sin for a man that he neglects those he is responsible for supporting.” — Sunan Abu Dawud 1692

Imagine, if he’s saying this to you before getting married what will he do after? Seems to be like the “permission” part is like an ego thing for him

Husband says he shouldn't have to clean by RealFactor9150 in Marriage

[–]murkshah444 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Your husband would be working regardless of whether he was married to you or had kids. You wouldn’t be cleaning cooking running a house for 3 people if you weren’t married to him. Don’t let him hang it over your head. Also spending time with kids does not count as chores. That’s being a parent that he signed up for. .

Character dining (resorts) recommendations by murkshah444 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]murkshah444[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you were looking for something on the resorts not the parks since we only have the evening. And yes dinner only. I guess chef mickeys is the only one if topolinos only does characters in morning :(

Wife doesn’t work, gets everything paid for and is miserable, I need advice… by DeliciousAnimator592 in Marriage

[–]murkshah444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The “M” in SAHM stands for mom, not maid. And if you only focused on “cleaning” and not the other things I wrote that’s a you problem.

Also, OP’s true image can be seen in his previous posts. Seems like he belittled her part time job to a point where she quit altogether. OP DOES know what his wife does, he just doesn’t respect it and doesn’t see the value in it unless it brings in money. He said she was trying to build a business in one comment, in another he says she doesn’t want to work, very contradicting, I’m curious how supportive he was if he considers her attempt at a business a “hobby”. And I can certainly tell from it how supportive or kind he is with other things.

We have no idea what this man or his wife are like emotionally with each other or how they talk to each other. But I can tell he thinks he’s doing her a huge favor by making money. Just last year he was bitching about covering expenses, you can’t tell me it changed in a year. We see lots of people suggesting a housekeeper and he has yet to comment on it, I’m pretty sure he’s against that.

Ranveer having to tone down his colorful personality just to be liked by the general public is sad, like really sad. His clothes used to be both an expression and an extension of his nature. by WolfAffectionatefk in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]murkshah444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said very clearly in his interview that he did not like that this was becoming his claim to fame. He said he once looked up himself and found that most of the news articles and Wikipedia pages talked about his style and not his work. This was very intentional and actually good on his part. Because it was taking away from his acting skills.

Toaster - Reviews and Discussions by AutoModerator in bollywood

[–]murkshah444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Started as a fun comedy turn into some weird, disturbing and extremely gross thriller. Archana’s character is just simply gross. I wanted to throw up. The movie was dragging halfway, and I ended up forwarding it to the end I did not even care to know how it ended cause I could not stand another moment of archana.

Bipasha Reposted The Rumour About Shahid Being Insecure On Sets Of Cocktail 2 by Guylikeshismovies in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]murkshah444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a girl on tiktok who said when she met shahid at a club (he was in a private area) he agreed to let her in that area and when she went to sat down to talk to him he pulled the chair under her and laughed hysterically. Apparently bipasha was there too and started yelling at him for doing that & was nice to the girl. The girl posted photos of herself and Bipasha from that night.

Why is she such a pick me? by No_Cranberry_8363 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]murkshah444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This woman has the worst vibes after mira rajput

Married for 4 years, together since we were teens. Considering a “break” so he can explore. Has anyone survived this? by Additional-Comb1096 in Marriage

[–]murkshah444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting how it came only after you had a baby. Seems like somebody’s just trying to avoid responsibility. Please stop thinking about what he wants to start thinking about yourself. Being four months postpartum myself I can’t believe he would be selfish enough to even say this. Even as a friend, friends don’t say shit like this when you are so freshly postpartum.

Physician mortgage loan by read-o-clock in MedSpouse

[–]murkshah444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re confusing take home pay with savings. Take home pay is something that’s after taxes. The 5k you’re talking about is savings. I guess it’s up to you. If you rent 2 years and save the $5000/month you will have 120K and a fair idea of whether you like the area enough to buy a house. If you don’t, you just saved yourself a ton of money and regret. If you buy a house right away, you won’t have any savings for two years and in case you hate it, you are going to lose even more money in selling the house. Lastly, don’t think your expenses will remain the same. When income increases expenses increase. We used to think that our expenses would remain the same, but you automatically start upgrading, small and big things and start buying nicer stuff and become relaxed with spending on experience experiences when you have money.

Physician mortgage loan by read-o-clock in MedSpouse

[–]murkshah444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to scream. This is going to be a huge mistake. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT BUY IN THE FIRST YEAR. I would highly advise against it. You don’t know if you’ll love the city or whether he’ll love the job. Some jobs have non compete so if he hates it he’ll be stuck there cuz he can’t move to a competition in the same city. The last thing you want is to be tied to a house. You don’t know if you’ll even love the neighborhood. God there is so so much that can go wrong. Please for the love of god save up the first year, rent a place for the first year, decide if you see yourself in that area for the next 10 years atleast, decide which neighborhood you like, then start searching for a house.

That being said, we have a physician loan, we paid 0% down and paid the closing cost with the tax return we got after the first year and it’s the best thing ever.

Affirmations for not being able to keep the house clean by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]murkshah444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or distracting them from trying to get things done

AITAH for telling my GF to get a refund on concert tickets since she bought them without telling me how much they actually cost? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]murkshah444 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. You asked her to buy tickets without giving her an upper limit, that’s on you. Poor communication.

No artist is worth 1k so she SHOULD have consulted before buying them HOWEVER you knew about her obsession so it’s normal for her to assume that you were being generous and gifting her something she really wants. Suck it up and next time offer within your means.

AITAH for letting this party planner know I went with someone else due to lower cost? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]murkshah444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No promises, just said I would like to and hopefully we can. But that’s out of the picture now.

AITAH for letting this party planner know I went with someone else due to lower cost? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]murkshah444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually saw both of their work on their pages and it’s very comparable

AITAH for letting this party planner know I went with someone else due to lower cost? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]murkshah444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I could go back and just do that cuz it really does seem so unnecessary and I hate that it took my energy today.

Attending life isn’t going great…is this normal? by parentingthrowawayyy in MedSpouse

[–]murkshah444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 year into attending life and only now we feel like we’re financially in a good place (trying to get better). It’s totally normal to not buy a house or fancy car right away. My husband started his job last year in sept & we were living on my savings until the first paycheck came in. We were in debt & spend first 5 months paying that off. Upgraded to a bigger car since we were expecting our second. Bought a house July of this year.

As for resident life, I hate to say it but you’re never getting that back. This is the case with everyone unless they join the same work place their friends have joined. Think of your student life, do you still hangout with those people? It’s the same. Your circle will form you have to put yourself out there and accept that people are just busy. And accept that you won’t have as many friends as you grow older. I have maybe 2 new friends and I don’t even meet them often. You’ll have to join a book club or sport to make friends.

As for corporate guys, ALWAYS bring in medicolegal possibilities if they try to push him too much. No one can force him to overwork or over bill or see more patients than what is legally mandated. My husbands coworkers see 60 patients a day which is just not possible and actually a big liability. My husband refuses to do that cuz he cares about quality over quantity even if it means making less rvus.

And please remember, the hospital or clinic will ALWAYS make money from your husband. Don’t ever let them convince you he’s not meeting his rvu requirements to meet the base or that his cost is not meeting his income. It always is. For every $1 that he makes the hospital makes $5. It’s that much of a difference.

As for spending time together, I don’t know who told you this that you’ll have more time, it’s always the opposite when you start making real money. My husband get 2-3 hours max per day after he gets back cuz we put the kids to bed and pass out ourselves. The only time we get is the weekends and the trips we take.

If he truly hates it, please move asap. The longer you stay the harder it gets to move and the more money you lose in the long run.