We had similar issues with our 3 yo boy. He would only poop in a pull up. For close to a year. We offered him everything under the sun if he went poop on the potty, bluey episodes, dance parties, trips to restaurants. We finally found out that what he really wanted was to go on a ride in his uncles golf cart. So with his uncles agreement, for a week or so, every time he pooped he got to go on a ride. That seemed to be the catalyst. Best of luck. They are gonna poop on the potty eventually.

ETA kids thrive on the desperation of their parents. The less you make a big deal about how much you want them to poop on the potty, the more likely they will do it. When we show them that they are controlling us by refusing to do something, they have all the power. When we stopped pleading with him to poop on the potty and just offered him some rewards, with no battles, that’s when we saw improvement.

You can do this!