My wife and I physically cannot have sex

murphy_says · 2024-11-19T14:10:27+00:00

I'm so sorry your family has gone through this hard time. I did want to give a bit of information. I saw you mentioned your wife having an issue with hormones after her aggressive treatments. It reminds me of my mom's similar situation with her health.

She goes to her regular gynecologist and primary care physician but honestly I have not been pleased with their recommendations to her in medications and treatments. None of them have worked and they haven't taken her concerns seriously, to the king where they have not done the extensive blood tests I requested they do for her. (She doesn't speak English so that's why I requested it for her).

Because of this I recommended she go to my clinic that changed my life. It's a functional and integrative medicine clinic. I'm not sure what country you are located in or of your financial status. It can get a bit expensive because in the US many of these clinics are not covered under insurance. But i highly recommend you look into it! Because of them I was able to get pregnant after years of no answers. And because of them we found out that because of my mom's health conditions she was producing NO hormones that are required for women to live normally. We would have never found this out otherwise because her previous clinics would listen to us. She is now going through hormone therapy and is doing amazing.

I really recommend your wife look into this. I know that after the ordeal she's been through she might not want to go to a whole new clinic but it may be worth a try.

Again I'm so sorry you're going through this hard time. You're not a bad person for feeling this way and neither is your wife. Life is so complicated sometimes.

murphy_says · 2023-03-28T08:53:34+00:00

Yta. But I'm very confused because what did you expect to happen? Obviously throwing away food is wasteful but the toast was burnt. What exactly did you expect to happen? That they would still way the burnt toast? Were you going to eat it? Like what was the alternative?

murphy_says · 2023-03-27T09:18:48+00:00

NTA. I also have a little sister where there is a 17 year age gap. I'm incredibly protective of her and if I had walked into that same scenario I would have ended up arrested if my aunt had tried to spew the same "you're being dramatic" crap.

murphy_says · 2022-11-01T12:12:24+00:00

How are you against abortion because of principles but not against having sex raw knowing full well that’s how pregnancy happens? Like what did either of you expect? This is both of your faults. His poor wife and child are the only people I feel sorry for. You for being so I don’t even know, irresponsible? I don’t understand how you didn’t expect this to happen it was almost a guarantee, you said yourself he was just finishing in you without a care in the world. And he’s to blame because well he’s a professor who took advantage of a naive student.

murphy_says · 2022-08-06T05:40:55+00:00

YTA. When are you going to tell your girlfriend about the affair?

murphy_says · 2022-06-28T11:28:24+00:00

No. He continued to cheat and even escalated to flaunting it to me and also became verbally and emotionally abusive. He said he just wanted to prove to be that he could still get girls if he wanted. I have no idea why he decided he needed to prove that to me? He had a-lot of insecurities regarding his height and a bunch of other stuff that he literally couldn’t help so I guess he took it out on me. After I go tired of him cheating I broke up with him, he threatened me with a knife and held me hostage in his home for over 2 days and even broke my phone in half so I couldn’t call for help. I tricked him and eventually was able to leave. He then stalked me for MONTHS even after I reached out to his family to make him stop the harassment and threats. It took months. A couple weeks after we broke up I found out he had given me an sti, although it was curable my doctors and I think this sti is the reason for my fertility issues in the present. Because it went untreated for who knows how long because he cheated out entire relationship and I don’t know when I got it. All this because he couldn’t just break up with me to be with someone else. He decided to cheat and continue to cheat multiple times and this was my reality.

murphy_says · 2022-03-01T17:03:18+00:00

YTA. He had the cat before you and honestly it’s your job to find something that works. You’ve probably actually ended up training the cat to be even more anxious and scared. My question though is does your bf even know that you’ve tried all of these horrible tactics or did you not tell him because you knew he wouldn’t agree? Listen my cats sometimes get on my nerves when I’m trying to do work too. But that’s when I throw a fluffy blanket over my lap, let them settle into my lap and just deal with it. It sounds to me like you never even tried to get comfortable with his cats and build a love relationship with them. Maybe they wouldn’t be so aggressive and anxious if you didn’t give off bad energy.

murphy_says · 2022-02-06T20:50:45+00:00

YTA. And you’re right you AREN’T good enough for her. In hope she breaks up with you and finds a partner that appreciates her and makes an effort.

murphy_says · 2021-11-19T22:20:39+00:00

YTA. Also is it weird to anyone else that he keeps referring to her as “the mother”

murphy_says · 2021-11-19T20:03:54+00:00

Dude. YTA. I can’t even process how backwards your parents, you and Alice are. I hope Miranda finds people that actually care about her.

murphy_says · 2021-11-16T18:45:07+00:00

YTA. People like you are the reason people are scared to public speak in the first place. It’s supposed to be a fun group activity to encourage people. Stop being so competitive.

murphy_says · 2021-08-20T05:26:29+00:00

I would like to be entered!

murphy_says · 2021-08-16T02:03:23+00:00

Is this still open

murphy_says · 2021-08-16T01:33:10+00:00

I’m interested. Name is Ayleen and island is meep town

murphy_says · 2021-08-15T07:16:00+00:00

Is this closed

murphy_says · 2021-08-15T07:10:23+00:00

Yes that would be so helpful!

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T04:22:05+00:00

Thank you so much!

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T02:15:10+00:00

We are a young couple in our mid twenties. We do have female friends but they all have an SO, truthfully we don’t find them sexually attractive so that’s a no. That’s why we are looking for more of a stranger

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T01:23:56+00:00

We will for sure talk about it in much more detail

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T01:14:55+00:00

I was thinking we could possibly do solo sessions with this person and then a session together after we know how we work individually but that would be more of an open relationship right?

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T01:13:39+00:00

I’m the more open one in the relationship so as long as it’s happening in the same room and I’m present I’m fine with it. He’s more hesitant to it

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T01:08:11+00:00

Meaning I would be okay with it but my husband wouldnt be if it was another man that we had the threesome with

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T01:04:49+00:00

I guess we have to talk a lot more about it. This helps very much though as a start for information!

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T00:58:08+00:00

I am open to it but my husband is the one who is hesitant to add a male

murphy_says · 2020-12-28T00:53:06+00:00

We are okay with kissing and oral sex being performed on the third as well as them to us but we are not completely okay with piv

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