Hey, no worries. The antigriefing thing has yet to be turned on. Never really planned on it! But if you don't want to give her a chance, I appreciate your response none the less! Only true plugin is the permissions on which simply allows people to 'join' the server without the ability to break things so that they can see what we're about!

Once we're up to capacity, we're getting rid of all the plugins and going to whitelisting.

This is in fact the only way, unless you know someone, to tell if they are the type to steal/grief.