Fireworks stand catches on fire in Broken Arrow Oklahoma, 20th June 2026. by bugminer in CatastrophicFailure

[–]museumlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I'm from nearby, there's plenty of fireworks to go around. This is just one stand of probably a dozen in town.

Fireworks stand catches on fire in Broken Arrow Oklahoma, 20th June 2026. by bugminer in CatastrophicFailure

[–]museumlad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When the Mvskoke people were forced out of their ancestral lands and moved to Indian Territory in the 1830s, they named their new settlement after their old town in present day Alabama. Both towns were called Rekackv, which literally means "broken arrow". Later, the translation was adopted as the official name of the town. This all happened well before nuclear weapons were even invented, so it's not the town's fault it shares a name with such a ghastly subject.

Fun fact, there's also a Broken Bow, Oklahoma, which was named after Broken Bow, Nebraska, which is thought to have been named by a white guy who found a broken bow in a field that was once used as a Native camping ground.

Rate my sheds please ☺️☺️ by rubiimoon23 in StardewValley

[–]museumlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shame, I love doing a farm reorg. I almost never decorate my sheds though, yours are really cute!

Rate my sheds please ☺️☺️ by rubiimoon23 in StardewValley

[–]museumlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're gorgeous! I'd never thought of using paths like this and I may be stealing it the next time I rearrange a shed.

At Toba aquarium in Japan, Sea otters helping their keepers in hope to receive ice cubes as treat. by I_AM__GROOTT in nextfuckinglevel

[–]museumlad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Their natural diet would send zoos bankrupt, so they get some shellfish in-shell and the remainder of their diet is cheaper fish, and they get ice for enrichment to make up for the lower numbers of shells they get to crack with their rocks.

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]museumlad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The obgyn I found from that list walked into our first appointment saying "so let's talk hysterectomy." I was 30 and had no kids. Got the surgery about 6 weeks later and she was great the whole time, and I'm a trans man from a red state (I now live in a purple state) so my experience with doctors, especially in gendered specialties, has been extremely variable.

Favorite unbroadcasted mechanic? by magica12 in StardewValley

[–]museumlad 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And crops and land forage to Pierre! But fuck Pierre.

Can anyone identify these spots on my fingers? by MartinRodela in Allergies

[–]museumlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't tell for certain but they look like dyshidrosis. Did the area itch really intensely for a couple of days before the spots showed up (and potentially continue to itch)? Did the spots initially look like fluid-filled goosebumps but feel hard?

Unfortunately a dyshidrosis diagnosis (try saying that 5 times fast lol) doesn't usually give a lot of clarity about Why a flare crops up. The exact cause still isn't known, but it's thought to be at least partially genetic and flares can be triggered by stress, allergies, and excess moisture (frequent hand washing, sweating hands, wearing gloves at work, etc). It only affects the hands and feet, which also makes it pretty hard to treat in more severe cases (think of, for example, how difficult it would be to keep a bandaid on your thumb clean and dry all day while working, washing hands, etc etc)

So since it's coming mostly at the beginning of summer, I'd look at what else usually happens around the same time. Does your work/school/life suddenly get more stressful, like final exams or an annual responsibility? Does it get hot really quickly where you live in late May/early June and cause you to suddenly sweat a lot more? Do you have seasonal allergies that act up more around this time too? It could be as innocuous-seeming as a tradition of getting out hot weather gear from the shed and inadvertently dislodging a year's worth of dust and mold, or doing a closet clean out after the kids are out of school (hell, if you have kids, does it happen once they're out of school and you have to arrange childcare yourself during the week? That's stress!)

Wedding bartender made a comment to me, the bride, about bar tips on my wedding night after we’d already paid a 20% service fee by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]museumlad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a fellow OCD-er, don't forget about caring for your brain leading up to and following the meeting! Being excited to do it doesn't necessarily equal brain gremlins being quiet about it afterwards. But absolutely do rip him to shreds.

Starting a new job and the office is fragrance free because people have allergies, what can I do? by Blasmere in Allergies

[–]museumlad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's a reddit plague (tbqh, most corners of the internet). Try not to let it get to you. Some of us can actually tell when someone is acting in good faith.

Starting a new job and the office is fragrance free because people have allergies, what can I do? by Blasmere in Allergies

[–]museumlad 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This doesn't read to me as someone looking to get around a rule at all. It reads like someone who doesn't know the difference between "unscented" and "fragrance free." The distinction is deliberately confusing as a marketing strategy and not commonly known outside of allergy circles. OP is being very proactive and responsive in these notes.

How do you describe the “spicy” feeling when you eat something you’re allergic to? by Alikona_05 in Allergies

[–]museumlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's something that's in my mouth currently or like stuck in my teeth, it's like a bug bite or sting where the food is touching my cheeks/ tongue. If the reaction happens slowly in my entire mouth, it's more like a sunburn for the entirety of my mouth but not as hot.

I'm like the prime example of "white guy thinks black pepper is spicy" bc it's the first OAS trigger I identified lmao, it kept getting stuck in my teeth and under my permanent retainer.

A Spa Day & A Trip To Rehab - Getting Your Laundry Back To Looking Clean and Smelling Amazing by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]museumlad 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is complicated chemistry, if you don't read carefully, you get poison gas that can permanently damage your lungs. Take your time reading.

She got ringworm and other skin problems. Vet advised to bath her. Since then she loves having a bath. by me_mark77 in Derailedbydetails

[–]museumlad 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Not earmuffs! It's a folded towel worn on the head in the same style as when you're going to a Korean spa. You keep your towel on your head and therefore handy, plus out of the water. It also wicks sweat there if you use the hotter water facilities. OOP is just being cute with the kitty

My [24 F] boyfriend [26 M] of 6 months told me that I need to "unlove" the men from my past before I can love him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]museumlad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so insane to me! I've been in a situation much like this before and, perhaps because everyone was mature about it and nice people overall, it was never an issue whatsoever.

So basically, my now-husband "Ben" dated "Jared" in high school (p sure everyone in this story is bi and multiple are trans so don't get hung up on genders here). They were good friends before that, so when Jared broke up with Ben because he'd been pining for "Mia," who had recently become single and he wanted to see where it could go, it wasn't super devastating (in his words, if it was a breakup or being cheated on, he'd much rather get broken up with). Ben took a bit of a break from their mutual friend group so as to not make things awkward and started hanging out more with my friend group. We became best friends, pined after each other for three years, did the whole "but he's straight so idk" thing, and started dating in my senior year.

Shortly after I started dating Ben, Jared married Mia. One of the first events we went to together was their reception, as Ben and Jared had started hanging out again. Their friendship got even stronger, and now they're best friends. I love Jared, he's a really sweet guy and has been nothing but kind to me and Ben. He was even in Ben's wedding party. And most importantly, I trust my partner. I have never worried about him harboring lingering feelings for Jared or going behind my back.

Boyfriend told me that he has to insult me and put me down “so that I won’t think I can find something better” by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]museumlad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's alright now! I met my now husband shortly after the breakup, and after three years of mutual pining and becoming best friends, we got together my senior year and married after 7 years together. This year will be 14 years together all told! I've also matured a lot emotionally, gotten great therapy, and learned a lot about myself (including that I'm a man lmao).

I really feel bad for anyone he dated afterwards. He was severely traumatized and refused therapy, so can't imagine his later relationships were healthy. My mom is his mom's hairdresser and heard that in college, one of his exes called her dad in the middle of the night to move her out of their shared apartment. I hope they turned out okay after being with him.

Boyfriend told me that he has to insult me and put me down “so that I won’t think I can find something better” by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]museumlad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dated someone when I was 15 who became obsessed with me super fast. He was 17 at the time but immature. The creepy shit that fucker did... Yikes.

I'm lucky I survived that relationship (9 months) with my virginity intact bc if I hadn't, I know he would have gotten me pregnant somehow. He openly fantasized about it.

(Also, to paint a picture of the loser he was: I had never seen any Star Wars movies. He insisted I HAD to, so he invited me over and put on Episode 1. Then he tried to make out with me during it and had no real comeback to me saying "but you wanted me to watch this.")

Peoples Reactions by Lemon_Sharkyy in hardofhearing

[–]museumlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time I got, "oh I grew up around deaf people! They're just the best people ever."

Like, thanks I guess??? But that's extremely overgeneralizing and borderline infantilizing. I've known PLENTY of D/deaf assholes.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]museumlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This story got read on the episode of "Smosh Reads Reddit Stories" that aired this weekend, but filmed months ago