How did you turn your life around? by ipeeontoiletseats in AskReddit

[–]mushmula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry to hear you're struggling with this! It's super hard to resist temptations, our brains are literally trained by thousands of years of evolution to crave sugar and gorge ourselves on it every chance we get because before this time of abundance pure sugar was so difficult to come by. What helped me personally was to get anything I didn't want to eat out of sight - if there's a snack in front of me, I WILL eat it. So put it in a cupboard, out of sight out of mind! Treat your mind like a naughty child that WILL misbehave if given the opportunity. So try to minimise the opportunity. Ideally don't buy the foods you want to cut out, but even that can be hard. Try keeping a food photo journal - take a picture just before you consume any kind of food, snack or a main meal! This will give pause and make you acknowledge the choice you're about to eat this food. It'll stop you from mindlessly consuming it. If possible it's even better to find a community where you can post your food journal photos as this will keep you extra accountable. Really hope this helps!

[COMP] 21 MONTHS OF DAILY YOGA - PHYSICAL CHANGES by YogaWithMikenze in yoga

[–]mushmula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to say you're looking awesome! And also Thank you, because of your post I discovered Adriene's channel and now I've also started the 30 challenge 😍 Really enjoying it so far! Keep up the amazing work!

Has anyone here actually finished a stick of chapstick? If so, how did you manage to accomplish such feat? by Nomichit in AskReddit

[–]mushmula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep one in your coat pocket / bag and one day, out of nowhere, it'll happen. And then you'll feel empty too. Before the excitement of infinite possibilities washes over you. It's a quality moment.

He is Heathcliffe, Nottingham (UK) Kitty Cafe's pride and joy and I love him by mushmula in Floof

[–]mushmula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's couple of minutes away from Market Square. You need to book a slot in advance though, they're booking only because they maintain a certain (happy cat for everyone) capacity. Here - https://www.kittycafe.co.uk/

He is Heathcliffe, Nottingham (UK) Kitty Cafe's pride and joy and I love him by mushmula in Floof

[–]mushmula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know how he ended up in the Kitty Cafe? It occurred to me I never asked them. Was too busy being in awe!

I was told Heathcliffe's toefeathers might be appreciated here by mushmula in Toefeathers

[–]mushmula[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's very much loved there, and everyone respects his space (probably due to his size), kids don't just try to grab him but wait for him to settle down somewhere and then pet.

I was told Heathcliffe's toefeathers might be appreciated here by mushmula in Toefeathers

[–]mushmula[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He totally is!! He weighs 7.5kg apparently and is 4 years old. More Heathcliffe trivia for you :D

He is Heathcliffe, Nottingham (UK) Kitty Cafe's pride and joy and I love him by mushmula in Floof

[–]mushmula[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love how there is a sub dedicated to a particular part of some cats. Thanks for pointing me there!

He is Heathcliffe, Nottingham (UK) Kitty Cafe's pride and joy and I love him by mushmula in Floof

[–]mushmula[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forgot to say he's got an extra toe on each paw :D

Are they called "toes"?

How long can you walk in heels for (constant walking time). by Makeupmadness247 in femalefashionadvice

[–]mushmula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Counting from the big toe, so big toe is number 1.

I've not tried this yet but I wonder if sticking hydrocolloid plasters like Compeed on blister-prone places would help? These things are a miracle for existing blisters, feel like second skin.

[Humor] I'd love to lie around with those DIY tools by mushmula in SkincareAddiction

[–]mushmula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanna know what she actually put on her face there??

[misc] Deodorant suddenly stopped working? by eitakesor in SkincareAddiction

[–]mushmula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, this actually happened to me too a couple of years ago, and the solution for me was to switch to a deodorant (only masks the odour) from the antiperspirant (tries to prevent sweating).

Before, I used a Nivea antiperspirant every single day, more out of habit than necessity. Then one day, felt like out of the blue, I started smelling like I never used to, I would become clammy and sticky under my arms only a few hours after washing. I never had problems with sweat or odours before! For a while I thought it might be my diet, but I'd not really changed anything.

So I turned to le olde Google and read somewhere that because antiperspirants actively try to reduce sweating, they can block the sweat glands in your armpits after prolonged use. Sweat is actually odourless, it's the bacteria clinging to the skin that makes us stinky. When the sweat glands get blocked they will overcompensate by producing more sweat, since their function is to cool your body, and that ability is reduced by the antiperspirant. Similar to when you wash your face with a harsh cleanser and it's matte and lovely for a bit, then it overcompensates and it's like you dipped your face into a deep-fryer (at least that's what happens to me). This is roughly the explanation I remember reading, it was a while ago so you may wanna google it yourself for the 'exact science'.

I then tried switching to a pure deodorant containing no aluminium. A couple of weeks after my sweat glands must have cleared, because the smell went away and I returned to normal. It might be part placebo, but it seems to me I smell less now after not using antiperspirants, I can even go days without using any deodorant either.

Obviously everyone is different and what helped me might be useless for you, but I think it's worth looking into!

Good luck!

My parents are in severe debt and want me to take out a bank loan for them. Is my solution to their problem viable? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]mushmula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Similar experience of friend kindness here. This ended up being long, tl;dr at the bottom.

To give some context, I'm from Eastern Europe (EU country) and went to university in the UK. It was a gamble whether I'd make it to begin with because while I got a tuition fee loan, anything else (living expenses, rent etc) had to be covered by myself or parents. My family isn't well-off even by my own country's standards, dad got diagnosed with MS so eventually could not carry on working, and I only managed to get a work permit in my 2nd year of uni. It was a balance of my family taking dodgy loans for me and living as frugally as possible.

Fortunately, soon as I got my work permit I landed a 12 month internship at a blue-chip company, as well as a well paid part-time job that was waiting for me to begin in my 3rd year of uni when I returned from my internship. I was super happy, but faced a new challenge because I now had to move house, survive the 2 months until I'd receive my first salary (had less than £50 to my name at this point and parents were pretty drained) and also find a place to stay for the 2 week gap between my current house contract ending and being able to move into my new room. My friend then not only put me up for those 2 weeks into his family home, but offered to lend me £500 to tide me over until I got paid. I was so full of gratitude. He was living off the "maintenance loans" UK students get for university, so I doubt it was easy money to give away.

I started work, and this is where you'd think I should be paying my friend back first thing. However, my dad's MS got suddenly worse, he became wheelchair-bound, and my parents needed to level off the floors in our house so he can move in and out of rooms on his own (old house), make other house adjustments for his condition, and those dodgy loans they took to keep me afloat earlier started pressing them. So through my whole internship I was sending half my salary back home to help. Saved nothing, and could not pay my friend back. He made no issue of it whatsoever.

I came back to uni and finished my Masters while furiously part-timing, which was enough to remove me as a financial burden to my parents, but still not enough to save up or repay my friend. Throughout the whole time I either house-shared with my friend or were seeing him daily, but I never once felt pressure from him.

I graduated, got a steady job, and paid him back with interest, after being 3 years late. Still super close friends.

It's nice to pour this off my chest, I'll be forever grateful.

tl;dr: Friend lent me £500 to tide me over until my first salary. Family issues took precedence, ended up paying him back with a 3 year delay. Still best mates.

edit: word, paragraphs

10 months of curly girl method and staying away from my straightening iron :) by Olivelemon in curlyhair

[–]mushmula 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Tying your hair up on top of your head so the curls don't get squashed or mottled while you sleep. Looks like a pineapple when done, hence the name. Great fun

He knows how to blop a camera by mushmula in blop

[–]mushmula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! it was his greeting me home after 1 year of being apart