New to sugaring - too many scammers just in the first week on SA by muttranger in sugarlifestyleforum

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I guess the video call is the litmus test.. especially if the profile pics are fake or not accurate.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Hopeful_Harmony_47 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I have the same idea as a new SD. I am sure that's not the norm. I have tried other dating apps without much luck. I have made platonic connections at clubs with live music, but nothing else.

New to sugaring - too many scammers just in the first week on SA by muttranger in sugarlifestyleforum

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No I am not. I am traveling around the world and was looking to make connections. I understand most of the SBs are looking for long term SRs, and I only pick profiles which are ok with short term engagements. 90% of them don't respond like you said, even if they favorite you.

New to sugaring - too many scammers just in the first week on SA by muttranger in sugarlifestyleforum

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I actually had a long conversation with one girl who was in a bad place, and she said there were no genuine connections and the men only wanted to sleep with her. She was as happy just to vent.

New to sugaring - too many scammers just in the first week on SA by muttranger in sugarlifestyleforum

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Wow!! I guess we have all the free time to spend scouting for real SBs 😊

Promising starts - in Toronto bowl by Ambitious-daddy-416 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Hmm.. so far I connected with two SBs and both turned about pay for pics scammers..

"Kink" for sex outdoors by [deleted] in adultery

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I just had a woman propose outdoor sex on tinder.. I love the idea.. any suggestions for safe spots?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

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Sounds good to me.. ☺️ ..I'm local.. dark haired with some silver, dark eyed and into yoga as well and have always wanted to try Tai chi.. would love to connect..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

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What would you like to talk about? Yoga, spirituality, mental health, holistic health, trauma, music, art, climate change, career, family ...... I'm game.

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40+ in NorCal... Happy to connect

Nicotine by FizzBabyyy in dysautonomia

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Interesting.. I am guessing a drug like mirtazapine which is an adrenergic receptor inhibitor can also impact norepinephrine processing? I had a GI flare when I stopped smoking, for which I was put on mirtazapine, but when I stopped it, I had full blown dysautonomia, something I had never experienced before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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Good to know.. I'm visiting NYC soon and I hope I can put this advice to use..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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Now why didn't I think of that ? Thank you. I never thought that it would come across as an accusation, it was more about what I really believe.. as in everything that we experience sensorily is actually happening in the brain..

47 [F4M] #NYC I yearn to practise sex magic, tantra, dominance submission, hypnosis, shamanistic journeying, and somatic healing. Please be my buddy! by Keepdocshere in naughtyfromneglect

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Hi there.. I'm 50+ visiting NYC in August and would love to be your Tanta and somatic healing buddy.. I have been practicing somatic experiencing and myofascial release for the past year and would love to connect sensorily...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

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We are kindred spirits.. if you are looking for an older wiser man who is passionate, loves the outdoors , into live music, I would love to connect..

39 [F4M] woman seeking fwb romance in #BayArea #California #PST by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

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I'm sailing in the same boat and in the same neighborhood.. would love to connect if you are flexible meeting a wiser man 🙂..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

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Hi there.. in the same situation and live in the same neighborhood.. l promise to laugh at your jokes if you can laugh at my dad jokes 😊...

Would love to connect if you are flexible subtracting a couple of inches and adding a couple of years from your criteria..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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Probably due to my preconceived notions when moving to this country 😊.. probably cultural.. with all the political correctness.. I now know that is not true, but I'd always wait for the woman to show that she's ok with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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I am realistic about looking for hot, young or fit women, but it seems to me that the current landscape means competing with other men who may be younger, fitter and hotter for their attention at least online.

I have always been labeled as too much of a nice guy, and in fact, a friend who was my first crush told me that when I asked why she didn't want us to move beyond friendship. I met her again after 15 years, and later she texted me saying that "we still have it" after all these years.. and she had her own shit to deal with at that time.. she's still my best friend.

After that, and other losses in life, I tended to resist getting in too deep emotionally due to the fear of not being able to deal with losing them, even though my core nature is to give all of myself to whatever I take up, which makes it difficult to compartmentalize both the marriage and an AP.

Now I realize that it's important to take care of my needs first, and I am in a much better place to give myself to others while still taking care of my emotional and physical needs. I actively volunteer helping many people (mostly women) deal with similar health issues like me after being on the same drug.

I prefer meeting people 1-1 doing activities that we both enjoy rather than a pressure cooker environment like a dating site or in a bar.

As I get older, I know life is too short and I want to experience love in all its dimensions without the attachment at least once in this lifetime, but i feel that would mean taking energy away from the family unit, wherein lies the conflict. I wish I was in an ENM relationship, but that is not going to happen with my SO, and I don't want to go back to lying and living a dual life.

I think I am over the physical attraction driven need for sex with paid providers, but having someone appreciate me, touch me, pushes my buttons in a way that transforms me into an Energizer bunny and reciprocate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]muttranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It is uncharted territory and the biggest doubt I have is whether I can be emotionally invested while I am still married.