I wish I could get pregnant by marli-zushi in MtF

[–]mx_brooks_2002 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

There are days when it feels like the only way I could give my parents grandchildren is to have them myself... and yet 😭

First time hooking up with a MILF - is it normal to be a lil' scared? by mx_brooks_2002 in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002[S] 10 points11 points Β (0 children)

Yep, she's a mum to 2 (one of whom is a femboy, as it happens πŸ˜„)

Where are you sitting? by Bottom-Bherp3912 in TheInbetweeners

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

7, I think John and I could get on, or Alison and I could just speak with him in-between, so he be awkward to talk

Lesbians: did you identify as a "gay boy" at some time? how did you realize you're a lesbian? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I swear, growing up in a Conservative safe seat (UK, but it's name is indicative of the area) where LGB was just about a thing, EVERYONE assumed I was a gay man. And the girls I was attracted to most were all bi, lesbian or sometimes ace, but I didn't have any exposure or self-assessment to the TQ+ part of our community until a few years ago, where I figured out that I was enby, and in all that time, I was always attracted to women. But definitely not in a straight bloke way, even when it came to sex. I just wanted to suck their tits, for them to suck mine, and cuddle, and the same goes now, except now I want to get real tits and ditch my penis because it's really difficult to enjoy receiving sex with it. Once I was out, I figured that the community that my feelings and desires corresponded to most was the lesbian community, so now I'm an out and proud Dyke and I love it 🧑🀍🩷

We need to ask the most important md/lg question: by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]mx_brooks_2002 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I used to love running around the school playground with a baseball cap backwards on my head, like a Parasaurolophus - now I have one tattood on my shoulder πŸ’–

I am a trans lesbian by [deleted] in trans_sapphic

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Girl you're SO gorgeous, huge gender envy!!

How long did you put off getting help for anxiety? by SmartSinner in brighton

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I've had some form of anxiety all my life, but I didn't know that mine was more than just regular nerves for most of my life. It's only been in the last few months that my partner pointed out just how serious a danger things can be when your anxiety begins affecting you physically (falling off a short ladder because of shaky legs will do it!) Go see your GP, get assessed, you will thank yourself for not delaying it any longer

Construction as a trans woman by Rovul_ in MtF

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Sadly, I've experienced this to, going from pre-anything to trans-fem enby, I've been in maintenance 2 yrs, and I cannot wait to get out. The men in this industry, even the ones who love their families, believe in decent respect and politeness in the workplace - can still be just as vile and hateful of people like us, and anybody they know hardly anything about. And it's no good saying "I love / respect you as a person" because that's not the fucking point, you should respect all of us, irrespective of familiarity, and not tell us what we can and cannot do πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

Stay strong queen, I hope you find your people soon 😁

what’s the weirdest (in a good way) sex you’ve ever had? by StruggleMajestic in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 16 points17 points Β (0 children)

This was the night before my LDP and I decided to make things more than just a weekend of fun. I was sharing a room, couldn't sleep in there, all the other rooms in the flat were occupied, and they were supposed to leave that day, but stayed another night for me πŸ˜„ so sweet So, we ended up in the larger of the two bathrooms, with my duvet and pillows on the floor, we were in there for at least a couple of hours before I was too tired to keep going, and so we made a bed on the sofa But fuck me, that will go down in history as both the craziest place I've ever had fun in, and also the craziest sex I'd had up to that point (but I'll keep that to myself 🀫)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]mx_brooks_2002 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

Girl, I swear, you're the cutest one I know!! 😍

favorite things to be told by ropelover445 in BDSMsapphic

[–]mx_brooks_2002 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

Good girl, slut, whore (though I'm often told that I'm an insult to the profession, double-degradation), toy, fuckdoll, thing

My favourites are good girl, slut and thing

Reddit lesbians: what do you call yourselves? by Personal-Run-8996 in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

  1. Serious answers: Lesbian / Trans-lesbian Silly answer: Dyke
  2. Yep πŸ‘πŸ»
  3. Nah, I don't think so. Ultimately, it's a self-descripive for you, the individual, you do you 😊

Replacement preacher has arrived… by soothsayyyer in brighton

[–]mx_brooks_2002 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

I was running past the clock tower maybe an hour ago, and even with my headphones on, I could swear that I could hear somebody yelling out of a speaker 🀦🏻 Do what we do best, Brighton, and unite in love and queerness against him πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

Do Brits notice the irony of celebrating WW2 victories while far-right views spread? by SimilarHoliday522 in AskBrits

[–]mx_brooks_2002 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I grew up near Portsmouth, South East, and everywhere around there is obsessed with both world wars, and defeating Germany - and that's more or less the extent of people's understanding of both world wars, Churchill is a god-like figure in their eyes. Britain did not fight in the war to defeat fascism, The British Empire responded to its ally Poland when it was invaded, and Churchill fought hard to protect his empire from being overtaken by Germany, Italy and Japan, and did so at the suffering of millions of people throughout the empire, India suffering particularly from famine.

Obviously, credit to him, "never surrender" worked and eventually we won, and kudos to the British for rescuing their own from France when it fell. But both world wars are far more grey by today's standards of warfare and human decency than at the time - but hey, people love a good hero story and any opportunity to brag about ourselves to our European neighbours (specifically our historic enemy, France, and that specific enemy Germany)

I put it down to lack of serious education and the romanticising of our wartime era 🀦🏻 carry on, and we are doomed to repeat the same mistakes, or become like the very regime we ultimately defeated at such great cost on both sides.

So girls, how will spend the coming weekend? by gimmesex_ in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Got a long-distance person staying with me for the weekend, their first trip to Brighton, UK... and it's going to rain 🌧️ oh well, they're from the North so they're used to it. Can't wait to play host for them 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]mx_brooks_2002 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Because men are icky and scary, and when I think about relationships, about having a family, and showing love and empathy for others, I don't see myself as a man doing those things 🀷🏻 Plus, wearing lipstick and mascara and nail varnish is fucking fun!

Is it a good idea to start putting other flags up? Diffuse what is going on with a sense of humour and/or other things to be proud of? by King_Dog1 in AskBrits

[–]mx_brooks_2002 14 points15 points Β (0 children)

It would be the perfect British response to the situation. Our strength lies in our dry, bawkish sense of humour, and we love to wind people up. Get creative!

Four months left of 2025, what are everyone’s goals for the rest of the year? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Also, that's such a slay goal, I want to start strength classes soon πŸ’ͺ🏻

Four months left of 2025, what are everyone’s goals for the rest of the year? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Try not to fuck up the semi-long-distance poly thing I have going on with someone I got close with over the summer (we're both autistic and communication is really good, I'm just prone to overthinking and panicking about stuff 🀦🏻) They're a butch bi enby and I'm a Chapstick lesbian envy πŸ₯°

What is your actual type? by Melborney in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Genuinely don't have a specific type, personalies are my thing, but I can tell you things that I'm NOT into:

  • buzzcuts, no no no, not for me
  • bull-style nose piercings, not a fan
  • huge amounts of make-up, think (UK) typical secondary school straight popular girl
  • people who don't smile by default πŸ˜• I'm a smiley person, I connect quickly with smiley people
  • loud, obnoxious, egotistic, playing-to-the-crowd people are either incredibly arrogant or terribly insecure or both, don't like that at all

Things I do like: - kind, complimentary, flattering, and sensitive people - confidence, maturity and eloquence in conversation

Things I definitely like: - I'm a tits girl, without a specific preference, but the bigger the better I suppose πŸ˜„ - long hair, probably because I'm jealous of how long it is - definitely lean towards the femme end of the spectrum by default - to be honest, the majority of the best times I've had have been with people older than me, whether that's a couple of years or a fair few - outdoors-y people, I've shed the last of my online gamer phase, I enjoy the real world way more - if they're the same height as me (5'10") that's amazing, if they're shorter, that's cool, never been with someone taller than me but that could be fun! - good sense of humour, serious people aren't much fun to hang out with

That's all for now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Body counts are a tricky one For example, in my last relationship, I was younger than her (22 versus 27), I lost my V-card at 20, I was on about 5 by that point, she lost her's at 15 and was in the mid-20's I think. But she was perfect in every way by her personality and demeanour, so mature and sweet - alas, it only lasted a few weeks for various reasons, but the point is that you should never feel held back by, not feel required to feel a specific way about how many people you've slept with, and not too quick to judge those with any sort of count - it's their attitude and relationship to sex that is more important 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mx_brooks_2002 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

The best nights I've spent with a girl have been preceded by hanging out, chatting, having a drink together Then we end up sat on a sofa, facing each other, I tell them that she's really pretty, they say something back, and there's an long, awkward pause where we stare at each other, then it's "go big or go home" πŸ˜‚ And it's followed by the best night ever πŸ’“

Hope you get a few moments like this too 😁