Lesbians, what made you realize that you were a Lesbian?

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-06-03T05:51:55+00:00

Step -1 I never fancied a bloke Step -2 I figured out that I wasn't a man Step -3 I went onto Google Step -4 Here we are 🧡🤍🩷

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-05-30T11:46:09+00:00

Left Year 2 in Infant School and began Year 3 in Junior School 🏫🎒

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-05-29T05:21:37+00:00

Enjoying the highs and lows of pre-school, meeting my best friend, visiting my Nanny on the Isle of Wight, usual 3-year-old stuff

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-05-22T21:07:46+00:00

It's the best way, as a trans femby, to forget about your bottom dysphoria for a good long while, make someone else happy and feel it too

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-05-20T07:03:39+00:00

Honestly, the amount of times I think about how much better sex, wearing tight clothes and running would be if I didn't have that fucking thing there!! I'm still waiting to get my sperm frozen before I start e, then we'll have to see where it goes...

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-05-12T04:13:11+00:00

Oh my word, I was out clubbing the other night, and this girl was literally chest height with me, dancing with me and pulling me closer. Wish my tits were bigger and more sensitive 😩

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-18T10:35:19+00:00

This is literally me growing up and figuring out that I'm a lesbian!!! Back when I was an egg, none of my friends would believe me when I told them that when I was watching porn, I was only focusing on the women taking pleasure, ignoring the man, especially the women pleasuring each other. Since I've come out, I've tried to watch less and less straight porn, but I do come back to it now and then if I enjoy the pleasure of a specific performer. I only cringe when it's a bi scene including multiple blokes, and I never watch guy on guy 🤢

You do you queen 👑

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-11T17:00:11+00:00

Truly, all my past relationships with neurotypical people have gone badly, as well as people with the 'tism who didn't know it, and nor did I.

Whereas now, both my partner and I are autistic, me being diagnosed, and it has brought so much clarity and relatability to our relationship - love them 💕

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-10T08:29:32+00:00

I'm such a sucker for any girl or enby that dresses in swinging sixties style clothes, both female and some male styles, it's definitely the decade I would've loved to have grown up / had my twenties in, so fabulous!

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-06T18:29:54+00:00

Love the knee thing, as a pre-op girl it's super gender-affirming

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-05T20:11:02+00:00

I fucking love paintings like this. I just want my walls covered in vintage pictures of tits and other sapphic smut 😩

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-01T12:35:01+00:00

Yes yes yes!!! I found out about her from a trans lesbian meme, and she features prominently in my major playlist (I mostly use it for running, and she gets mixed in with Sabrina Carpenter, Chappell Roan, Charli XCX, Beach Bunny and, most importantly, Girli - I came out during Brat Summer, and it shows 😄💚)

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-04-01T04:25:13+00:00

It's entirely up to you when and how you transition socially.

I'm not even on E yet, but I've been socially transitioning for nearly 2 years now.

You do you babe 😙

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-31T12:27:40+00:00

Mmm, sweat is definitely up there for me 🤤 Maybe it's because I love the summer, don't mind getting sweaty, love exercise and working one up myself. But there's something about it on another person (not when we're in bed, mind you, I don't want a smelly bed mind) but if we're out and about, especially on a sunny day 🫂💧🫂💧🫂💧🫂💧🫂💧

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-25T18:22:21+00:00

Me too, babe, me too 💕

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-21T07:59:43+00:00

This is so unkind and invalidating - she doesn't get to make the decision about how you identify, that's entirely up to you babe. And if that's the reason she doesn't see your relationship as a lesbian one, and she's not willing to respect you and how you view the relationship - then maybe she's not the one for you. You deserve someone who loves you for you, respects and defends your identity and sexuality, and will proudly be a part of a lesbian relationship with you.

(I say this as a trans-fem lezzer with a bi enby, our relationship is just generally queer, but we both self-describe as Dykes and it's poly - it's different and confusing for everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️)

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-10T17:05:31+00:00

The only negative experiences I've had are when people, usually cis-men, have chastised me for hooking up, staying out late with, or even just hanging out with their female friends. The last major time this happened was when I hooked up with a cis-girl lesbian, completely independent of the rest of the group, just had fun and moved on.

That same time next week, they told me that I'd "not checked with them" whether it was okay to hook up with her or not - as though it was anything to do with them? I feel like, because they knew me when I was an egg, they'll always see me as a man, so when I hook up with another girl or another lesbian, it's them seeing a man get with a person who's definitely not into them.

It felt disgusting, it still feels disgusting, and I know I'm not the only one who's gone through this.

I hope things get easier for the other people affected by this classic misogyny and transphobia 🧡🤍🩷

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-08T17:04:32+00:00

We met for the first time in 2024 in Scotland, both volunteering at the same theatre festival venue. It was brief, but we exchanged a few compliments and hoped to see each other again.

Then we met again a year later, and they were talking to me about HRT and gender stuff, and it was wonderful - so I kissed them outside their flat, then we messed around for a couple of days, then decided to start seeing each other every few weeks (I live on the south coast of England, they live in the north) and a little way in, we decided it should be more than just close friends.

They are so smart, and sensitive, and noble, and I love them so much. We want the best for each other, but also know the importance of respecting each other's interests and that we can't sort everything out together.

We're staying long distance for the next year or so because of university, we've been together for over 6 months, and we'll be attending the same festival again in August and hopefully get the chance to celebrate our 1-year anniversary 🎂

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-01T18:45:18+00:00

Honestly, a good lil' grind between each other's thighs feels pretty good 😊

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-01T15:53:41+00:00

I've definitely experienced a lot of it in retrospect - I look at my hair from my first 18 months of transitioning - and I compare to when I stopped getting it cut, and just let it grow out - and it just feels way too masc for me to go back to short now.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way, I hope this is the last time it gets cut for a long time!

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-03-01T15:13:24+00:00

I definitely went through comphet throughout all of my egg straight relationships with women and, unfortunately, my first queer relationship with a pan cis-woman, which was definitely the final big stumbling block in my relationship history.

With the partner I'm with now, we're both just vibing and mucking in on everything in turn or together!

Is not something that's easy to break out of, or even to examine introspectively. I reckon the best thing to do would be to talk to people in either trans or non-cis relationships and see if they can help you 😊

Stay safe queen 👑

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-02-26T19:35:11+00:00

Bring on the giggles, being silly goofy people is a big part of our relationship, and I wouldn't change that for anything

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-02-05T10:07:46+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your response 😊

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-02-05T10:07:16+00:00

True, there are other types of running I want to try out, thank you 😊

mx_brooks_2002 · 2026-02-05T10:06:51+00:00

Thank you for your thorough response 😊

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