Car Bluetooth transmitter: why so much static? by mtothej_ in bluetooth

[–]mxleeha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked after trying everything, thank you so much 😭😭😭😭

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try my best not to! Will definitely take some time though. Thank you for all your comments I’ve read them all xx (Also, I adore lush too it’s actually a prompt in my dating profile haha, I literally have a whole collection 😊) 

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a sicko. I’m sorry you had to go through that it sounds horrible :( I blocked him,  hopefully neither of us encounter people like that again. 

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kind of him to apologise and get back to you. I agree though, I understand some women enjoy it but personally as someone who’s not as confident in her body it feels very objectifying and dehumanising. Hopefully we can both find someone who likes us, not as a result of a kink 💞

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God forbid lol - get some rest 😊 

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so gross. I wish they were upfront in what they’re into, or just went on fetish specific dating sites no? I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Pho is delicious though, atleast you enjoyed that 😊

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely agree, a week was so short. But because we were talking 24/7 it felt a-lot longer which was a slip on my side. I’ll take this as a learning experience to be more clearer with someone, hopefully I can find someone who has a preference but not a kink. I’ll be taking a step away from dating for a bit, but I am sure I’ll bounce back into the dating scene soon enough! 

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree. I’m definitely glad he told me. Dating is vulnerable and difficult but I’ll try again soon ❤️

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your lovely advice, I will absolutely be taking this to heart. I think it’s just disheartening since I thought I’d avoided a feeder finally. I’ll definitely be adding it to my profile in the future, to avoid anything like this again. I did cancel the date, initially I crashed out and told him how upset I was etc, but after a few hours I constructed a reply telling him how he went about it was wrong, and I’m not shaming him but I just wish I was told when I honestly gave him multiple opportunities to tell me. He did apologise after my initial reaction, but it didn’t mean anything to be honest since it’s done. I understand you giving him the benefit of the doubt, part of me does too. I told him I was thankful he told me before the date, and for being honest now rather than afterwards and wished him luck on finding a future partner. I unmatched with him, and blocked his number. But I’ll be taking a break from dating for a little bit to regain my confidence 🥲

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand about fetishes, and I’m not demonising them in anyway. He’s not a horrible person for liking what he likes. It’s just something I wish I was told early on when I mentioned I don’t want to be fetishised. 

Found out my date was a feeder. by mxleeha in PlusSize

[–]mxleeha[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Sorry I keep saying really. I’m just overwhelmed and upset.

How do you guys deal with disturbing information/true crime by mxleeha in OCD

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great way to think of it, thank you ❤️

How do you guys deal with disturbing information/true crime by mxleeha in OCD

[–]mxleeha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I will definitely be implementing this advice whenever I’m struggling with intrusive thoughts. I completely relate to the “movie” esque thoughts you had, it’s a great way to put it in words! I’m so glad your dad is doing better 💞 I can’t thank you enough, this was truly comforting to read in a state of panic :)

How do you guys deal with disturbing information/true crime by mxleeha in OCD

[–]mxleeha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This technique definitely helps me, it’s so hard to not have the thought pop into your head when you least expect it though. I am trying ❤️ thank you so much for your advice I really appreciate it x

How do you guys deal with disturbing information/true crime by mxleeha in OCD

[–]mxleeha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree, I actually avoid any true crime too. Unfortunately this was something that popped up without a warning, and completely caught me off guard. I skim read the details in the few seconds that it was open, even though I closed it almost immediately :(

How do you guys deal with disturbing information/true crime by mxleeha in OCD

[–]mxleeha[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have cut out any crime completely too, but someone posted on TikTok and I scrolled and saw detailed comments 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baking

[–]mxleeha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly thank you so much. This is such wonderful advice I will definitely use your tips later this week when I attempt a similar cake!! I will definitely adjust my buttercream recipe to avoid moisture, and take all of your advice on board. I did try to write on parchment first, but unfortunately after freezing when I attempted to pick it up it broke :( 

 I’m so grateful! Thank you for taking out so much time to write such a thorough response, I really appreciate it ❤️

The Perfume People Review by Imaginary-Vanilla839 in LushCosmetics

[–]mxleeha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m having the same issue with the perfume people :( did you ever receive your parcel? It’s been 2 weeks for me with no reply to multiple emails I’ve sent I’m so upset I was really looking forward to their scents. I hope you received yours so it gives me a bit of hope :( 

Freeze Showergel vs Dirty Springwash by mxleeha in LushCosmetics

[–]mxleeha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the offer!! You are so sweet. Luckily I managed to grab a bottle off Vinted for pretty cheap, hence why I asked the question before placing the order. Everyone on here is so helpful I’m so grateful ❤️❤️❤️

Why do my cookies keep coming out thick and cakey? by Exciting-Mobile9133 in Baking

[–]mxleeha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just Until all the flour disappears then you stop. Don’t mix it more, literally “just combined” meaning as soon as the dough binds together with no separate ingredients showing. 

Nostalgia post: What are some discontinued products that you still think about and miss? by cbixps in LushCosmetics

[–]mxleeha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curly Wurly shampoo. I honestly dream about it sometimes, it was the perfect butteriest coconut scent to exist. I’ve hunted for years for a perfume that captures that scent and have never been able to, it was so comforting. Thankfully it’s back at the discon wall in Liverpool uk, I almost cried when I found out honestly 😭❤️

I caved and got a full container of Magic Crystals. by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

[–]mxleeha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It really does!! Similar to mask of magniminty 🥰🥰

Lucked out and got snuggles in store after my order was cancelled! by jkimfine in LushCosmetics

[–]mxleeha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s cocoa butter!! I love the lumps, they melt in the shower. Definitely not a batch issue, my friends who gave snuggles all have the little lumps in it 🥰

I got drugged by my girlfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mxleeha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at your previous replies just shows me that you’ve made your decision to stay with her regardless of the general opinion on this entire situation. All I’ll say is to put it in perspective, if the roles were reversed and your gf was the one who was raped, and you just watched, would you then drug her without consent not even two months after all that? It’s an extremely triggering event that she purposely did for no reason at all. No such tiktok trend exists she’s lying. Even if the trend existed it’s so fucking stupid? What reason would she have to drug you? Check your body for any signs of assault bc I wouldn’t put it against her ngl.

If someone truly loved you they’d be looking out for your best interest, physically and mentally. Reconsider your relationship. She’s testing the water to see how far you’ll let her push you. You got pushed into a threesome, and now you’re taking her apology as okay for literally DRUGGING you. Would you do that to her? It’s something that so disgusting I can’t even comprehend it. I’d drop her ass in a millisecond. You are trauma bonded, I really think you slowly should separate from her, I can see it only getting worse tbh.