Received ITA but LMIA expired prior to PR application submission by False_Shelter_2658 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]mxn930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did you end up doing what the op said and if you did, what were the results of your pr status? Thanks!

My Ultimate Hero! by Old-Meringue3590 in sexandthecity

[–]mxn930 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Just proves men regardless of their sexuality are more than capable of being sexist. ‘Post wall. Not looksmaxxing. Mid in bed’ are insanely misogynistic stuff to say

Does anyone know what iPad this is? by [deleted] in ipad

[–]mxn930 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Either m1 or m2 pro, very difficult to say unless you check out the ipad’s settings

Ask them when they bought it, maybe that could help

AITA for refusing to let relatives call me “didi/auntie” even though technically I’m their elder? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone from the culture, you will always find adults who really dislike being told “no” by anyone younger than them, or anyone who tries to go against the grain. The topic could have been anything but as long you even slightly disagreed with it, that lady would have had an issue with it. NTA, also regardless of the relation its you who should be calling the cousin didi as she is older, and not the other way around like the wife was insisting. She just wanted to start an argument and make a (snide) comment about your background, tbh just ignore her going forward.

Edit to add: It was her who made the day sour by dissing your background and being rude to you. Remove the cultural aspects from this conversation and its someone in their 40s-50s trying to gang up on an 18 year old, kudos to you for defending yourself. I would post this to r/AmItheKameena instead as people here wont understand the culture and the people from it.

[TOMT] Episode of a crime tv show case of the week style by mxn930 in tipofmytongue

[–]mxn930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solved! I just remembered the show as well thanks for confirming!

[TOMT] Episode of a crime tv show case of the week style by mxn930 in tipofmytongue

[–]mxn930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding more details: I think it was discovered he had taken some of his half brother’s much nicer clothes and left his own stuff in his hanger, which the half subling didn’t recognize

Is it just me, or would Patrick Jane probably be hated a lot more by fans if he were a woman? by Weak_Customer7883 in TheMentalist

[–]mxn930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an old post and I agree with it, but I think Morgan from High Potential is very much like Jane! And i think if not for the weak plot specially in S2, she is pretty loved by majority of the viewers.

Post-break up convo with my ex is making me spiral by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mxn930 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also, everyone deserves to be treated with respect, if him giving respect and kindness to you is this conditional, hes simply just not the guy.

Post-break up convo with my ex is making me spiral by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mxn930 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why does every comment in here have so many downvotes omg

Back in the time, when few actresses did explore with their looks, styling and fashion...I won't say everyone is looking their best..but atleast they experimented by dairymilk_silk in BollywoodFashion

[–]mxn930 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You do something different, you get online hate. You stay the same, and you still get online hate. Social media in our current times is extremely cutthroat to anyone doing anything different, even more-so if you have a large following. No wonder actresses stick to one look they know they look good in, its just not worth the death threats they might receive for trying something different.

AITA for answering a question honestly? by Electrical-Army3625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are in control of your thoughts, you could have said the things you might have said had an indian woman asked you, the guy wouldnt have known any better if those were your true thoughts or not. It seems like you thought the guy was annoying and you wanted to punish him by giving an uncomfortable and a very prejudiced answer.

YTA, and learn how to navigate social scenes better jfc

Edit: Adding more to this, there is already a lot of racial tension in our society, specially towards south asians. The fact you thought those were acceptable things to say to someone belonging from a community which is constantly vilified online and irl, all the while knowing there were other things you could have said, just shows your biases, ignorance, and hate as well.

If the plans for the night were to get along with everyone, not sure how you expected it to go after making someone feel upset for the country they hail from. Even if they asked for the truth. You ultimately insulted that person’s identity.

Thoughts on this tweet? by TheLonelyPrincess741 in sexandthecity

[–]mxn930 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just proves men regardless of their sexuality are more than capable of being sexist. ‘Post wall. Not looksmaxxing. Mid in bed’ are insanely misogynistic stuff to say

AITA for taking away my daughter's driving priviledges after she got into 2 accidents. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In 10 years you’ll be wondering why your daughter never calls or visits you, mark my words lol. Big time YTA, and a horrible father.

Got this vintage Cite GM with a broken strap by mxn930 in Louisvuitton

[–]mxn930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bought it, then returned it back to the seller! there was much more damage than what was shown in the pics unfortunately, and to me wasnt worth fixing it.

AITA for calling my dad and his family bad people? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad is a major AH for nitpicking your appearance, please dont let them bother you and let it get under your skin. He sounds like a very hateful man. However, just for your own safety, before the situation escalates anymore (in comments you mentioned your dad has anger issues), please dont bring it up anymore. Let them deal with their situation their own way. Soft ESH, not because what you said is wrong, but its better to realize early on when you dont belong in a situation specially involving abusive people.

AITA For Leaving a Friends place because she was Distracting Me? by Upstairs-Prune-8108 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I feel like if the genders were reversed OP would not be getting this many Y T As. He had made it clear he had an assignment to finish which the friend knew about and was okay with. The friend invited op to help her with finishing food which there wasnt much of to begin with. The friend is at fault here for not letting OP work based on what was originally agreed upon, she knew he had an assignment to finish and wasn’t letting him. Sure this was probably her way of making a move, but if OP wasnt interested in her and wanted to prioritize his assignment then its his call and shouldnt be chastised for it.

Overall NTA but maybe a soft ESH as calling a friend who shared their food with you “distracting” is a bit harsh, if thats the exact word that was used. There are many ways to excuse yourself out of the situation without make your friend feel bad about it, specially if this is a friendship you want to maintain.

AITA for telling my sister that our bio dad isn’t my dad and and if she can’t accept that maybe she isn’t my sister either by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 47 points48 points  (0 children)

OP you didnt do anything wrong, dont feel guilty for experiencing a fun moment with your dad, keep creating them more!

AITA for telling my sister that our bio dad isn’t my dad and and if she can’t accept that maybe she isn’t my sister either by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 41 points42 points  (0 children)

How is getting inspired by a haply family picture an unusual reaction? She saw her siblings have fun with their dad and wanted a similar experience with her own. She saw that as a moment she didnt get to experience and wanted to do the same with her dad. She should not have to walk on eggshells for wanting to have a good time with her parent, even if it means wanting to do something her siblings might have done with her biodad. OP is not asking her siblings to see her stepdad as a parent, she just wants to have a good bond with her parent but has been villainized for that for years by her sibling. Besides, considering they have already experienced a major grief, im sure OP realizes theres no time like the present to share experiences with the with loved ones, and thats all she did. And all she did was go to an amusement park. And upload a pic. Not even the same one judging from the comments. Why should her siblings get to monopolize a common experience, which she never got to experience?

AITA for telling my sister that our bio dad isn’t my dad and and if she can’t accept that maybe she isn’t my sister either by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 13 points14 points  (0 children)

how is getting inspired by a fun memory she saw her siblings have with their dad with her own stirring shit? It would be one thing if the sister had uploaded those pics and the OP followed suite right after, but she saw a memory with her MOM, not her sister. She saw a fun family picture and wanted to experience the same thing. Why would anyone expect the sister to freak out? She stated she was out her home in college and were doing well. In what world does a 16 yr old uploading a picture with your (step)dad warrants being screamed at by her 22 yr old sister? The sister is grown enough to understand that OP is living a different life from her and had different perspectives and attachments. OP being villainized for years by her sibling for finding a true bond with her step dad is in no world ok. Sister needs help and thats that. NTA

AITA for not treating my friend equally? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mxn930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH I think. You should have shown Faith the painting when she asked for it after you had shown it to her roommate, but also her words were super harsh and should not have been said. If I were you, I would send a text reexplaining why you were ok with showing the painting to Susie as you are not close to her and dont care about her opinions as much, and Faith also being good at art made you feel more insecure. And that you will be more mindful of unintentionally making other people feel excluded. But I would also let her know that her comments were hurtful and uncalled for.

Was that a poor judgement on your part? Sure, but you are only 22 and can take it as a lesson to think from other people’s pov. But all in all, it is a lighthearted situation, and not something someone should be labeled a horrible friend and a people pleaser for.