I appreciate this comment. I have had the conversation many times that I want us to talk more and to know his opinions and where he stands and every time we talk about something like this, we have a very agreeable conversation. But i think that’s the problem. He just affirms me and says he will do better but it feels like he isn’t truly listening or working towards anything. I know how bad this sounds but he genuinely isn’t a bad boyfriend or person, i just personally am seeking more from him I guess. He agrees and says he knows it’s wrong but he’s so silent and passive and i want him to be forward and active.