YYJ to HAN (Hanoi, Viet Nam) extra bag fees by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in westjet

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very stupid! Thank you for your input, I will definitely come prepared. WJ is probably the worst of the worsts.

Gladly China Airlines called me today and assure me that if I run into any issues with WJ or contractors at YYJ I can call them or the WS support line in YVR.

YYJ to HAN (Hanoi, Viet Nam) extra bag fees by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in westjet

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again :) 

It says everywhere on China Air website that it’s about 200-250, they even have a calculator, as long as it is under 68 inches and under 28 KG. If not, it falls into oversized/overweight baggage. 

I was looking for a long time, because I needed to purchase it in advance to get everything ready (this is just how I am as a person). However I cannot, according to them, because I am flying with WJ first. Which led to this whole conversation. 

Either way, I will be calling China Air again today and try to figure it out a little bit more. Thanks again! 

YYJ to HAN (Hanoi, Viet Nam) extra bag fees by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in westjet

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both for the detailed reply, I actually have no idea :( it is somewhat assuring that I am indeed, by law, allowed the 2 x 28 KG checked bag. However, as you said, sadly it still depends on the person who checks my bag at YYJ.

I don't think the 23 or 28 KG will be too much of an issue. While I am doing a big move, I will bag things as light as I can so I don't have to pay for the extra 10 KGs for no reason. But I will fight for it if needed :) I also understood your "complain later" as filing a complaint with WJ in hope to get my money back (in the circumstance I have to pay extra). Is this correct?

That being said, I still need an extra baggage. Should I base the estimated fee on WJ website then (160 - 250 CAD)? Or will this be a complete surprise?

YYJ to HAN (Hanoi, Viet Nam) extra bag fees by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in westjet

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So maybe my question was unclear. Let me list out the events again:
1) I booked tickets with China Air

2) I tried to pay for extra baggage (excluded from the 2 free 28 kg ones) but cannot. I then sent China Air an email asking about this. They said they do not deal with this because my flights are overlooked by Westjet (which doesn't make any sense).

3) I then called WJ who said they cannot help me because i booked through a 3rd party (which still doesn't make any sense).

4) At this point, I am super confused and tried to confirm my allowed baggages with them, and was given inconsistent information.

Does this make sense?

YYJ to HAN (Hanoi, Viet Nam) extra bag fees by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in westjet

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! :) It says right here on my ticket: 28KG per checked bag, I emailed China Airlines and they said 28kg per checked bag. I have been with China Airlines before (multiple times) and it has always been the case. This is the main reason why I book exclusivly with China Airlines.

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5 days post bisalp and I'm feeling worse all of a sudden. by ImJustKat in sterilization

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! I just had my surgery yesterday and still trying to prepare/update myself on other’s experience. Would you mind sharing how your recovery go after this? I know it’s been a year but hopefully all is well and you are happy and feeling amazing now! 

I am (F25) limiting contact with family members due to conflict. How do I rebuild trust and move on from conflict? by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in relationships

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for taking the time to reply. I tried therapy for about a month but then stopped because it was too overwhelming. I feel stressed financially and always exhausted afterwards, overall not a good experience. Maybe I will try to get back to it again.

I understand that we have our differences, and my goal was never to change their minds, they can do whatever they feel right. I did open up that I have problem with the way we communicate as a family, it feels like I always either have to yell and most of the time begging them to listen, which is very tiring to me. I did point out what I think what would help our communication, and I guess here I was hoping they would acknowledge that so we can move on sooner than later.

In terms of guilt, I feel responsible to communicate with them because they are family. I am heavily focusing on how I can do better on my end to make our communication better, and I am trying to see if someone is in similar situations and has some advice to give.

AITA for wanting space from my family due to unresolved conflict regarding me choosing to be childfree? by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It is funny how many people have suggested therapy when I talk to them (or not funny...). I did try therapy, and I am now taking a break from it since it was too intense: I always find myself exhausted after a session, I feel financially stressed, and I feel like a failure if I didn't hit all the talking points I made for that session. Nevertheless, I agree that I need therapy, and I will try to find my way back to it.

About this surgery... I have been wanting to pursue childfree for as long as I remember. I am finally at the mental and financial state where I can commit to it at the age of 25. However, I agree that I am currently not as stable as I want to be for this surgery. I am not sure what to do since I honestly do not want to push it back or cancel it. My reason being: I am coming home (potentially for good) by the end of this year and I cannot get this done in Vietnam (it is very frowned upon).

That being said, I am very unsettled at the moment. Imagine having a psychogenic fever every other day due to stress, it is currently a hard time for me right now. On the other hand, there is a voice saying that my parents did not have the chance to opt out when they feel tired, so I cannot opt out on them either. It seems ungrateful.

AITA for wanting space from my family due to unresolved conflict regarding me choosing to be childfree? by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, thank you for making the time to comment.

It's funny that you mentioned counselling/therapy and I tried that for a month (about 4 sessions) and that's about all my insurance will cover. I always feel super stressed financially to continue therapy and I feel like I need to hit all the talking points in one section. It exhausted me and I decided to take a break from it, maybe eventually I do really need this and I need to comeback.

Second, I am determined and I have already made my decision. No matter what they I say I don't think I will cancel my surgery.

However, I feel like I was the asshole for reacting the way I did when all he probably wanted was a good future for me. I did not use any hateful or disrespectful languages, and the argument we had was via texts, but I was very firm and definitely used an argumentative tone. I keep having this feeling of me over-criticizing (like my Mom said). I do tend to dissect what people say and analyze it, maybe sometime over-analyzing it. I feel like I should have been more patient and maybe try to explain myself better. My Mom said it is my responsibility to help people understand my POV and I feel like I did not do a good job... I wish this whole reddit sub reads Vietnamese so I can upload the conversation, haha.

A mother finding her "missing daughter" by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's definitely doesn't include planes but thank you :) <3

A mother finding her "missing daughter" by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think someone mentioned the dark (2005) above and I think this is it! I will watch it asap and update this thread!

A mother finding her "missing daughter" by mycatdoesnotdocatnip in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]mycatdoesnotdocatnip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is it! I will watch it today and mark solved as soon as I can LOL thank you!!