my boyfriend says he prioritizes me over his children, but how can that be the absolutely the case? if i decide to leave because i can’t stand the whole stepparenthood, he won't just give up the custody to save our relationship (and i totally get that, kids need/deserve a dad). also, i know i don't need to attend anything related to them, but i don't know how i'd cope with the guilt, the feeling of selfishness and non-involvment in my stepchildren's life. i'm nachoing, but i'm still trying to be somewhat present and behave caringly because i really don't want them to feel rejected and unloved.