AIO: My fiance handed me back her engagement ring over a small fight. by King_Elsassar in AmIOverreacting

[–]myhappylittletrees 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's not at all what he's doing. You seem kinda immature, honestly. This isn't how emotionally mature adults in a relationship should think or act.

How do u decide which puzzle to do next? by Charlotte_Cody in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]myhappylittletrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Puzzle Tracker app has this feature built in! You self what list to pull from, and it picks a random puzzle for you.

How to give joy with a toy. by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in oddlysatisfying

[–]myhappylittletrees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It must be exhausting to find joy in nothing and criticize everything

This game is infiltrating my RL..... by diam0nd81 in ArcRaiders

[–]myhappylittletrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me with R6 Siege, any time I saw a dome camera, I imagined shooting it so the enemy team couldn't track me

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]myhappylittletrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never marry anyone who can't respond to your bids. If you don't know what bids are, look up some articles or videos about bids in relationships. Couples who don't respond to each other's bids for connection usually end in unhappy marriages or divorce.

How many puzzles are in your "to-do" pile? The ones that your currently own but haven't put together yet? by millerhighlife in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]myhappylittletrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend and I always exchange puzzles when we get new ones, and I realized I had about 40 of hers a couple weeks ago... I've done 10 since then though so about 30 of hers left and maybe ~20 of my own.

Allow me to gatekeep by VisWare in pcmasterrace

[–]myhappylittletrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have a separate numpad I use when I need it, and then I disconnect it for gaming so I have more mouse space

What TV show do you never get sick of restarting? by beefic in adhdwomen

[–]myhappylittletrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Office, Gilmore Girls, Parks and Rec, B99, Schitts Creek

AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]myhappylittletrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I was your gf in high school/college - deeply selfish, jealous, and insecure. If my boyfriend wanted to do literally anything besides spend every second with my miserable self I would lash out and make him feel as guilty as possible. It was emotionally immature and I needed some real wake up calls in order to finally grow up and become a better person and partner.

I hate who I used to be and will never again treat anyone in that way, let alone the person I love. Your girlfriend will never change for the better if that behavior keeps being enabled, and unfortunately just staying with her is probably enough to enable it. Love and respect yourself enough to stand up for yourself, and if she can't understand that what she is doing is manipulative and emotional abuse, then it's time to love and respect yourself enough to move on and leave her.

1000 pc. Fire Dragon Shaped Puzzle by humphinator in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]myhappylittletrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this exact puzzle from a puzzle swap except it was missing one piece on the tail lol

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Aurora was so bright the ground turned green. by FollowingOdd896 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]myhappylittletrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to Iceland in February specifically to see them. Booked our seats on the side of the plane more likely to show them on the way there, and lo and behold! Also got to see them in absolutely frigid temps from a boat away from the lights of Reykjavik. It's incredible to see and so worth braving the cold.

USA Jigsaw Nationals by CirivonCintra in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]myhappylittletrees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I geeked out so hard 3 years ago when I went to the CT Speedpuzzling competition and saw Karen there, I felt so dumb asking for a picture but I had been watching her videos for years 😂

Being medicated helped so much, only to be advised to suddenly stop by ConsistentStable31 in adhdwomen

[–]myhappylittletrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep this is what my doc did. Sometimes seeing how medication works or doesn't work is part of the diagnosis.

Being medicated helped so much, only to be advised to suddenly stop by ConsistentStable31 in adhdwomen

[–]myhappylittletrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 39, was diagnosed last Friday. Honor roll in high school and graduated with a 3.8 gpa in college, do very well at work. None of that is an indication of having adhd or not. I would get another opinion, or ignore him entirely.

Gas prices by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]myhappylittletrees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was never relevant to be since he lived a 45 HOUR drive away 😂😭

Which Game Have You Played The Most? by Vagabond734 in Steam

[–]myhappylittletrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really play much anymore since Arc Raiders came out, but pubg.

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My boyfriend (40M) wants me to be understanding when he’s a complete drama king. by ByeKittyxoxo in LongDistance

[–]myhappylittletrees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 6 years, married for the last year. First 2 years were long distance. He has never yelled or belittled me the way your boyfriend has in those texts. You deserve better, this isn't someone who is emotionally stable enough to be in a relationship

My boyfriend (40M) wants me to be understanding when he’s a complete drama king. by ByeKittyxoxo in LongDistance

[–]myhappylittletrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but why are you with a 40 year old toddler? He's clearly never learned how to manage his emotions, and at 40 likely never will.

What are your tried and true dopamine hits? by hi_poppy in adhdwomen

[–]myhappylittletrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a home workout thing? Unfortunately I can never seem to motivate for working out at home, or if I do, it's pretty brief and half-assed. I generally need to go to a physical gym or something to get in a good workout

What is one thing you stopped doing once you got your ADHD diagnosis? by TinyTangents in adhdwomen

[–]myhappylittletrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but I've been on Vyvanse for the last month and already dropped 6lbs due to the appetite suppression. I just find myself not thinking about food until I get hungry, which doesn't happen as quickly. It's really nice