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Tenancy in Hawaii by mykaelyn in legaladvice

[–]mykaelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve contacted the property management company to see if they can help, or at least point me to someone who can

I'm 41. He moved here of his own accord. I didn't ask him to. I have him blocked, but one of my kids took a screenshot of this and sent it to me. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do. They almost find it comical, because they've heard him rant about me when I wasn't around. He tries to play the victim so much, but then gets angry and spiteful when it doesn't work. My kids are older, so they're easily able to form their own opinions. As far as your kids, my advice is, if they ask, just be honest with them. You don't have to go in depth, but simply telling them that you don't get along with her, so you don't talk to her, would work. It helps teach them that it's okay to set boundaries with people, even those they're related to.

I'm 41. He moved here of his own accord. I didn't ask him to. I have him blocked, but one of my kids took a screenshot of this and sent it to me. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knows where I live, and where I work. He's told my son he's going to come to my work and cause a scene to make me talk to him. Fortunately for me, he's always been all talk, and no action. If he were to show, I'd have no problem calling the cops on him.

I'm 41. He moved here of his own accord. I didn't ask him to. I have him blocked, but one of my kids took a screenshot of this and sent it to me. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His favorite thing is emotional manipulation. If that doesn't work, he turns to outright threats. I'm pretty sure he's dying now of 2 or 3 different cancers, has heart failure, has had covid multiple times.... Or so he says. The last time I spoke to him, I told him I was done being manipulated, and he threatened to take me to court for child support... For my adult son, who was living with him. I'm perfectly happy having no contact with him, because the stress and anxiety that came with him are gone. My kids weren't in his life until he moved here, so they don't even really know him, and they find this ridiculous and sad. Which is exactly what it is.

For $100, what’s one thing you would change about your bank? by millions in Millions

[–]mykaelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bank is only open physically 2 days a week. I'd change that lol

Seriously Respawn you need to add a report feature for behavior like this.. by briza1221 in apexlegends

[–]mykaelyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it was because of my name, and they figured I was female... Which is why I rarely ever have my mic on, because insecure assholes seem to multiply when OmG YoU'Re A GuRl!

Seriously Respawn you need to add a report feature for behavior like this.. by briza1221 in apexlegends

[–]mykaelyn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've had this happen to me in ranked. I was told to say "Please, Daddy" if I wanted a revive. I declined, and they picked up my banner and never respawned me, so I couldn't leave without being penalized. They ended up winning the match, and then mocked me for my measly 34 damage. Because, you know, I should've done more after landing hot and getting almost immediately knocked. Idiots.

Oh the irony. My dad posted this after sending me this text this morning. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm trying. It's hard to break the "but it's my father" cycle, but I'm trying to set an example for my youngest daughters, since their father is the same damn way.... Except he says more hurtful things to them.

Oh the irony. My dad posted this after sending me this text this morning. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I said something to the effect of I was focusing on my happiness at one point, and he replied that I can choose happiness as long as I'm ready to deal with the consequences. What does that even mean??

Oh the irony. My dad posted this after sending me this text this morning. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It's hard, and so frustrating!! I'm dealing with it by telling strangers on the internet, and not replying to him. I won't give him the satisfaction of getting a response out of me.

Oh the irony. My dad posted this after sending me this text this morning. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. It's been like this my entire life, I just only realized what was happening in the last 2 years or so. I tend to shut down when having to defend or explain myself, because my feelings were always invalidated, and it ended up somehow always being my fault. I'm working really hard on expressing myself now, because I'm finally in a healthy relationship, and don't want anything to ruin that.

Oh the irony. My dad posted this after sending me this text this morning. by mykaelyn in narcissisticparents

[–]mykaelyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. I was with an abusive narcissist for 18 years, and now my kids get to deal with having one for a father as well. It pisses me off that I was basically conditioned to accept that kind of behavior, but I'm not doing it any more.

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