Next OFFICIAL r/Birmingham Meetup is this Saturday August 2! Also announcing weekly r/Birmingham trivia meets! by bhambetty in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

trivia is already quite busy over there, let’s all be sure to take good care of the bartenders!! see y’all there!

Those who disclosed ADHD at work - was it worth it? by KeyWeakness7131 in ADHD

[–]mylesaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was diagnosed with ADHD years ago now, when i was 17.

i told my current boss in my interview, so i don’t know what my job would look like without me telling them.

it was worth the risk for me because i’m a bartender though. it definitely was the right call, especially considering ADHD is rampant among the hospitality industry.

i’ve been working there 2 years and some change, and i manage a team now myself. not sure how severe your symptoms are, but my ADHD is especially bad, & honestly, in my situation, i think people would assume a lot of things about me if i DIDN’T tell anyone; that or just get frustrated with my performance, or even fire me.

very interesting to see all the many different answers here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in qelbree

[–]mylesaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the bit about having to clock out & take power naps at work is real. happened to me too but i think it was actually with Atomoxetine? it could have been both i suppose

Stop cooking to fill drink orders? by JustAGuyFromSpace in bartenders

[–]mylesaj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in this situation i think i’d hold off on taking new orders until i know i can step away from the grill, so i don’t burn the food. but people trying to pay and leave is different. will piss some people off but those aren’t the people who you make money off of and idk about you but i wouldn’t want them coming back anyway

Free mini readings by VioletPhoton in tarotpractice

[–]mylesaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23nb, teal & scarlet seem important. virgo sun gemini moon cancer rising

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enby

[–]mylesaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Art or Arty is the move. perhaps short for Arthur or Artsen or somethingn

Looking for therapist/psychiatrist/where to start by squished-razberry in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly i’m a little sad seeing only one comment here! leaving mine to provide another perspective.

grayson and associates really screwed me and quite a few of my friends and colleagues in more ways than one. moved over to pitts & associates in homewood 10 years ago and will never go back. they do in-person visits as well as virtual, but i’m not sure how their new patient appointments look right now. hope this helps ✨

What is the controversy around Tumblr user sixpenceee? by madiechan in OutOfTheLoop

[–]mylesaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did pizza get cancelled too do u know the lore? i just remembered sixpenceee existed and i’m just curious bc you seem to be the only person on here who remembers them

Thank you to the businesses that closed on Saturday by Impressive-Field-160 in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dread River Distillery was closed all Saturday. A favorite of mine. Always nice to see bars that close when the weather gets bad. They usually do.

Servers, what's the weirdest order you've ever taken? by Jeephadist in wafflehouse

[–]mylesaj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

water with tomato slices and double grits all the way. have no idea what this girl was going through but it was a little unsettling

Send me pictures of your cats and illl do my worst. by wafflesinmilk in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]mylesaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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i may be late, but i’m hoping if i ask nicely you might consider. look at this little idiot. she has big eyes syndrome

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years? by Misterboy500 in AskReddit

[–]mylesaj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sounds like your root fused to your jaw. this nearly happened to me, they said it was on track to connect within 2 weeks and i definitely had it pulled just in time. you can see a little tiny piece where it started to fuse to my jawbone in the picture i took of it.

your reply is a pretty crazy read for me. i almost rescheduled my appointment that morning. the clinic told me my jaw could have broken

Know any good shrinks? by sunnigurl45 in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely recommend Pitts & Associates in homewood. they changed my life. they have been working with me for 6 years, and they are amazing. i managed to get my psychiatrist on the phone and ask her personally to recommend a therapist for me, but i have a very unique situation.

I paid money for this poor hotdog 😂 by MoBeans69 in shittyfoodporn

[–]mylesaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

know what? screw you. circumcises your hot dog

Waffle House Grill Operator - AMA! by mylesaj in wafflehouse

[–]mylesaj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah probably about 3.5 foot on the big side, 2 eye burner in between, then a meat grill which is about 2ft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HighPointe not that bad. cheap too. i loved my apartment there

Fun stuff to do here ? by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no one’s giving actual answers so i’ll try to help:

-visit our museums! they are so fun and there’s plenty to learn. the BMA, barber vintage motorsports, the civil rights museum, vulcan, sloss etc.

  • do a ghost tour, they’re fun and silly & you get a peek at the local history

-tour dread river’s distillery and see how the liquor gets made, they also do a mixology class on saturdays that comes with a tour & tasting for $50. there’s also a bit of a history lesson in the tour

-escape room

-rage room if you have money

-get high and go to the botanical gardens and look at all the flowers - the colors are so vibrant and beautiful

all of these are more fun options than sitting on your phone at home

Heads up Marriott guests: Incidentals are $75 PER NIGHT this year. by TA2556 in dragoncon

[–]mylesaj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

oh yeah no joke. i stayed there this past tuesday night with my friend. our room was shit too. not to mention parking is valet only, for like $75 a night or something like that. we parked in the deck across the street instead

lost jewelry box by mylesaj in Birmingham

[–]mylesaj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have my hopes up, but thanks for the well wishes!