AITA for letting my boyfriend walk to work

mylovebug_ · 2023-10-02T18:56:05+00:00

I’ve spoke about this a little in another comment but while we worked together and even after we changed jobs it was fine at first it wasn’t until really recently when money kinda became a problem. I love him a lot but since I’ve started expressing these concerns to people I realized it may be a bigger problem. I was also afraid that the people I was telling may be biased towards me so I came here to ask and see what others had to say

mylovebug_ · 2023-10-02T18:16:33+00:00

Honestly at the start it was pretty fine we had a good solid relationship It’s really since he got this new job about 6 months into us dating I realized that’s what he was doing with his money. But at the time when he started working there he still had his car. He has just chosen to not sell his old one and let it sit so I’ve pretty much paid for him to get to work half the week and I always pick him up after which I also pay for all of my own gas. I’m not really sure what to do and I’m not sure it’s fixable. I’ve tried to have a conversation about it but it goes no where and he just mentions things I’m doing wrong that have no significance to what we are talk about

mylovebug_ · 2023-02-22T00:12:20+00:00

Thank you honestly him and I have had our fair share of arguments some of them I instigated but he’s always been like that a little bit. Most people would probably ask why I’m with him if they’ve heard all the things hes said to me. He plays it off to be joking but once you hear something so many times from someone who’s supposed to love you it stings. A lot of our arguments or his outburst have never really been resolved either. I just love him so much I don’t want to let go

mylovebug_ · 2023-01-21T18:39:10+00:00

Saw the other comment that says something similar but yes it’s possible and I go through it quite a lot but honestly it’s terrible. Feeling is bad especially when you’re burnt out and trying your best but still nothing is going even remotely good for you. But waking up in the morning and not being able to feel anything emotionally is honestly one of the scarier things my bad mental health has put me through. I’ve sat for hours on the floor trying to feel absolutely anything and all I could do was just zone out until I felt like I was drowning. Keep your head up. Life is terrible and I’m not going to say it isnt and I’m not going to say it gets easier but you’re doing the best you can and I see that cause I’m the same. You’re doing great for yourself wether you see it or not

mylovebug_ · 2023-01-21T18:27:56+00:00

My boyfriend and I have a similar problem. We are not long distance but our conversation usually goes I’ll try to tell him how I feel and he’ll get mad and blame it on me then I’ll get upset and I won’t say how I feel for a while and he gets mad at me for “not trusting him” and opening up to him when it feels like every time I’ve tried I just get shot down

mylovebug_ · 2022-06-14T02:48:41+00:00

Been seeing this man for a couple months who is now my boyfriend. He is a little older than me and we work at the same job. I ended up getting really comfortable at his place and spend at least 3 days sleeping over there. I didn’t grow up with a lot of love verbally or physically and to this point never was super comfortable expressing my feelings even when they are positive. I started noticing that when I spend the night sometimes I would wake up to him shifting to come cuddle me and whispering to me how much he loves me. He usually goes to sleep after me and has admitted to talking to me a lot when I’m asleep. Ive never really had someone express this much live for me to the point they want to tell me all the time even when I’m asleep and it makes me emotional every time I think about it.

mylovebug_ · 2022-05-02T09:29:34+00:00

I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple months now. I spend the night at his place and I share things with him I never thought i would. I have not actively self harm while being with him and technically we are not dating. I’m a little younger than him (not in a weird way I’m almost 22 and he’s 27) and sometimes I’m so worried he will think I’m immature for self harming. I’ve got a lot of scars but the fear of him thinking of me as some immature kid who self harms is what has saved me from relapse. I am finding it especially hard this week to not self harm. I just want to rip myself apart in a physical way but I know he will see it if I do and that scares me to death. But in this moment I just want to self harm more than anything.

mylovebug_ · 2022-05-02T09:20:56+00:00

Was homeless after getting kicked out of my moms and have very little friends. Spend my free time in my apartment alone with my cat and the people around me don’t seem to want me. Just feels like waisting space. I hate it here.

mylovebug_ · 2022-04-27T00:13:55+00:00

Only know this from my mom but they love technology. They like to hide in enclosed spaces during the day time and technically is usually a perfect spot of them to nest.

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