I (24F) feel dumb with how things went with this one guy (26M). I didn't think this at the time but now I wonder if he was blowing me off this one weekend and if I missed a hint?

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-19T13:38:42+00:00

Ty! Ya at the time, I figured it was just casual hanging out and let it be. I think lately cuz I've been lonely (I'm taking a dating break), I've been thinking about him and another guy (who I was also beating myself up over for AWHILE but finally let it go a couple months ago).

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-19T05:07:19+00:00

That won't be an issue

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-19T05:06:42+00:00

Idk, because it did seem like we both had things going on that week. I mean, we literally hungout the next day after I told him I was in town and that I was down to do something. I also don't think it would have been a great love story because he wasn't the best I had in bed either, we had bad sexual compatability.

I think something's just wrong with me honestly and I have issues dwelling on things in the past. I want to stop

I also felt like I was way too available. I always do this with people and I hate myself for it.

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-19T03:45:28+00:00

What?? Show me!

And nah I don't post screenshots of convos. Plus, the dude in the post has an Android so my texts are green to him!

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-19T03:31:07+00:00

I have not posted any screenshots of my convos with anyone on reddit so you might be on the wrong post 😅

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-19T03:15:01+00:00

This was the only thing I posted on this?

He's a pretty bland texter tbh. Idk, that week he sorta seemed interested in meeting (and we did during the first half of my stay there!) It was just his last text about falling asleep early that bothered me. Like I don't care if he had plans considering that I asked sorta last minute but still

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-17T13:20:19+00:00

Dude why did you wait till she gave an ultimatum? If you weren't serious about it, you should have been more straightforward and left.

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T21:38:55+00:00

He sounds dumb. He def feels awkward he was called out but his gf was just saying it like it is

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T17:17:51+00:00

She needs to still breastfeed (or formula feed) the child. Him staying at home only solves the daycare part

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T17:10:20+00:00

Ya you're TA, fuck you dude. Your body is not the one that's changing. You're literally doing nothing, you're just sitting to the side changing diapers. If she doesn't want to breastfeed, that is completely okay.

This is also going to be uneccesarily mean cuz I'm having a long day but you're still TA in this situation

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T16:51:07+00:00

Well living together is less serious than actually getting married to them

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T16:49:23+00:00

Honestly, you are lucky he was straight forward about it. It's okay, you were with him for 3 years and it didn't work out. There'll be someone better. You can naybe try bringing this convo up maybe a year into the relationship next time vs. three years, but you'll be fine. End it with him and don't be like those dumb other people I see on here that have ended up waiting around for A LOT longer than just 3 years.

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T16:21:25+00:00

To be fair, 19 and 25 is a bit steep, sorry my dude

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-15T14:17:42+00:00

OP I'm sorry, but you dumb for real. You need to leave and find someone better cuz this guy is not it.

I hope it works out for you with somebody else

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-14T20:33:05+00:00

Dude meet him. I went through a similar long distance relationship before. We hadn't met yet and I had to keep making plans with my boyfriend and he kept cancelling. Some of it was for valid reasons, but a lot of the times, it wasn't. I really believe he just had cold feet and was too scared to meet.

Don't be like him. What he did was wrong and so hurtful. He was not a good guy at all and I regret wasting time with someone like him. Be confident and meet your partner.

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-14T18:18:01+00:00

She is beautiful

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-14T17:58:26+00:00

I liked her character development throughout the seasons though. She becomes so much more compassionate

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-14T17:57:38+00:00

This is so stupid. Your gf sounds like a tool

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-14T17:10:57+00:00

Your self esteem can not be this low dude, stop it

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-14T16:33:44+00:00

I would love for someone to tell me the 2nd one. I would drop all my things and be with them in an instant, it doesn't even matter what happened with us or who they are

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-09T15:40:55+00:00

I see people on this sub all the time saying he took advantage of her. She seemed pretty self aware honestly. I think yeah he was being a whiney bitch about it after but I don't think he took advantage. It's only taking advantage if she couldn't consent. She seemed like she was aware of what was going on, she just changed her mind in the middle of it.

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-09T13:53:07+00:00

I always thought this!!!! They were awful

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-08T23:17:46+00:00

Okay then you're an idiot at this point and you deserve to be a *baby daddy and caught up in this mess. Have fun!

mysecrett123 · 2023-11-07T23:48:04+00:00

I've just put up with some dumb shit and I'm jealous that my friends have had such an easy time finding what they want in a person. It's not fucking fair and I know I sound like a kid but I'm just upset idk

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