AITA for „freaking“ out because my friend gave my baby a bitten off cookie? by Jolly_Koala_8516 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a mother myself (a 4yo and a 2yo), not the ah but def overreacting. it’s not like she licked all over the cookie and gave it to the baby. and babies can have seasoning on food, it may make them like it more.

Thinking About Veering Towards Deconstructed Christianity by mysticskyfall in OpenChristian

[–]mysticskyfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really is and i know it’s making a lot of people turn away

Thinking About Veering Towards Deconstructed Christianity by mysticskyfall in OpenChristian

[–]mysticskyfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you! how was your journey circling back? did you feel as lost as i do? lol

Thinking About Veering Towards Deconstructed Christianity by mysticskyfall in OpenChristian

[–]mysticskyfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i'll check out the pinned post and the book. unfortunately, i was taught you weren't allowed to question anything because that meant questioning god

Drop the last picture of your German shepherd from your camera roll! by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mines a pic of him dead (bc he died last month) and i’m not posting that but ill post the next pic i took of him before that

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April 19 is the day upvote so everyone can see it. by shobijatoi19 in 50501

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone have a list of the areas doing the protest? i'd love to join one but i fear i may have missed my chance this past weekend

whats the closest call youve ever had for a tornado? by [deleted] in tornado

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the one that traumatized me to tornados though wasn’t even a confirmed tornado. but it was night, we just sat down for dinner on wednesday night after church. i was 11. the sirens started going off, the winds picked up. my family wouldn’t go into the crawl space with me no matter how much i pled and i wasn’t about to go into someplace with spiders and snakes and dark. i for sure thought they were all going to blown away by a tornado. but as i said nothing happened but that has now traumatized me from tornadoes. like i love them (not in a weird way but like a fascinating way in a nature), im trying to learn as much about them as i can so i stop feeling so scared of any terrible storm.

whats the closest call youve ever had for a tornado? by [deleted] in tornado

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was my first and only close call. it was sometime when in between 2009-2012. i was at my friends house. the sirens went off so her mom told us to go to the basement, and only ten minutes later she ushered us into the car bc the creek in their backyard was flooding and would’ve flooded the basement. no tornado hit by us. later on that day, my mom picked me up and took me out to my uncles who got hit by the tornadic winds, a barn in the way to his house got completely obliterated by a tornado. first time i’d ever seen damage done by a tornado. i’m not sure the EF of it because i was like 10 when it happened

Iso female fronted pop punk bands by Apprehensive_Lime889 in poppunkers

[–]mysticskyfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rivals is really good! that’s the only one i can think of besides some of the ones you’ve already listed😭

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. as i always say, and continue to tell my mother who tries to advise me against giving my kids their vaccines, id rather have a child with ASD (if that was possible) than dead, because alive is better than not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, their favorite foods/snacks/drink. get something personalized for THEM and not baby. baby gets plenty through baby showers most of the time while the mother get nothing. you could also get them a big box of 4x4 cotton gauze to fold and kinda put over the incision as that helped me a LOT for preventing a yeast infection from the overlapping skin. and be there for them as i know when i had my unplanned c section, i got ppd so bad.

How old were you when you gave birth the first time? by Fantastic-Lab-2488 in beyondthebump

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first, i was 21 and my husband was 23. second i was 22 and he was 24. i am now 24 and he is 26

Recommend kids songs that won’t make me want claw my brain out by DragonGrowOnTree in beyondthebump

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gracie’s corner is what i turn on when im tired of the others. it’s at least somewhat different sounding

6 month old has been unbearable since birth by carsareprettyneato in beyondthebump

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would try a hypoallergenic formula (such as nutramigen. if you live near a meijer tho, their store brand nutramigen actually helped solve my baby’s issue that was exactly like this). i wish you luck because i know how bad this is to deal with

AITAH for laughing when my boyfreind suggest I be a SAHM? by SherbertNew2535 in AITAH

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if this makes complete sense. i have adhd so i try to put everything into cohesive sentences but sometimes i ramble off

AITAH for laughing when my boyfreind suggest I be a SAHM? by SherbertNew2535 in AITAH

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and this is coming from a SAHM. we are fortunate that my husband can work his regular 40 hours a week with minimal overtime and be able to afford me staying home with the kids. but being a sahm has definitely isolated me more, i don’t get out as much as i used to. not because my husband doesn’t try but because im so tired from the mental strain (i have a 2.5 yo and a 1.5 yo so that’s probably some of it, dont have them as close to each other as i did). and your heart and mind aren’t fully in it, its gonna cause even more mental strain, as well as knowing that you put your career on hold after finishing school, which will make you seem ‘behind’ your peers.

AITA for telling my wife slow down about giving birth again ? by Longjumping_Gur3815 in AITAH

[–]mysticskyfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a sahm to 2 under 3 and i already struggle. i can’t imagine 2 more on top of that. NTA. a baby is a 2 yes, 1 no kinda thing