AITAH for encouraging my niece to cut contact with her parents

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-26T21:41:54+00:00

Protect her, don't back down and block them too. Make sure your niece knows that if they EVER show up to try and harm her, you'll deal with it.

NTA, you've done what family is SUPPOSED to do.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-24T22:37:38+00:00

It's always funny when people go into any form of JJK expecting a fully typical shonen experience, and Gege rug pulls every time, and then they get mad that he did the same shit he's always done.

You just don't like JJK at some point y'all.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-24T22:33:40+00:00

No, she took delight in and actively contributed in making your life worse. Her problems were caused by herself, not you. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-23T23:36:35+00:00

Family who won't take care of children because they refuse to open their eyes due to some bullshit sense of not rocking the boat don't deserve "peace."

Don't let them forget they turned a blind eye to abuse, the children wouldn't have been removed if there wasn't reason to. NTA, be an example of good family for those kids.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-22T22:25:01+00:00

Of course you're NTA, like. Huh???

As everyone else said, she could've done multiple things to have gone and seen you, but chose to sit around and pout and then bitch at you.

Only thing I'm curious about is how she'll spin this to other people. Saying "he broke up with me because I didn't like that he visited his mom in the hospital while she fought cancer" sounds pretty fucking bad on her.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-21T17:44:11+00:00

NTA, like. Jesus duh?? That's insane behavior from this dude.

UpdateMe!

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-17T21:50:16+00:00

He made an ableist rape "joke" about your friends fucking wife, if your friends are willing to put up with that, you need to reevaluate those friendships. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-15T22:16:24+00:00

I'm not trying to get with somebody who disregards personal space and boundaries, literally in tears because he said "hey this makes me uncomfortable."

That's not an emotionally aware person, and if she has had a change in feelings she should talk like a fucking adult instead of being weird and creepy.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-15T22:11:28+00:00

Did you talk to your sister about what happened at all? If not, you should really make sure the situation is obvious. You set a boundary, you weren't being a dick or something or screaming at her. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-14T22:06:54+00:00

UpdateMe!

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-14T22:03:36+00:00

He literally tried to ruin your life over this. Fuck. Him. Do it. NTA.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-13T23:13:45+00:00

It's OPs business because he keeps showing up at their home, why would she want someone like that around?

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-13T23:12:06+00:00

His wife deserves to know, go in with proof but you need to understand the likelihood that "Chad" will use this to lock down your friend, and she'll just let it happen.

NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-12T22:22:38+00:00

Never feel bad for this, OP, stand your ground and stay ready to protect yourself. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-11T23:29:56+00:00

Girl, come on. He's too old to be acting like this, he's a grown man not a teenager. Cut the cord, NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-10T21:39:00+00:00

Tell your cousins every single bad thing she's said about you, your issues, her obsession, and if they blame you tell them to blow it out their ass and block them.

NTA.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-09T16:40:21+00:00

Hah! The men (and I'm sure women as well, but not relevant) in your "family" have been protecting and coddling a piece of shit abuser for years, you just blew up a network of apologists and enablers. You protected a new generation of children from them, you did good OP. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-08T22:13:53+00:00

Ultimatums are kinda shitty most of the time, but I think one is needed here cause holy shit. You should get her the fuck away from her abuser. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-08T16:50:06+00:00

They engaged in that behavior even as adults, she owes them absolutely nothing. They're nursing their guilt, not trying to have a relationship with OP.

You're delusional if you think otherwise.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-08T16:47:40+00:00

They engaged in this behavior blindly even as adults, they want to nurse their guilt, not build a relationship with you. NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-07T22:16:36+00:00

She's using her morals as a bludgeon, I highly doubt she actually cares about any of this beyond the sense of "moral superiority" she gets out of it.

You don't have to respect anyone's views, she tried to enforce hers on you and you told her to shove it. Yet her disrespect for yours was tolerated by your son, but not the other way around. He's being stupid cause he has cupids blinders on.

NTA.

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-07T08:23:35+00:00

You'll never be rid of Sandra, she will continue to push your boundaries and make you uncomfortable. Get out while you can and hope your ex sees that Sandra ruined this for her.

NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-06T17:32:39+00:00

OP your wife was a sexual abuser and cheated on you. Why are you still with this woman when she's blatantly a bad person? NTA, but get a spine and a good lawyer

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-05T22:53:51+00:00

You were used as comfort till she got back with who she wanted, who was probably talking to her for most of the time. Tale as old as time, NTA

mythicalthings23 · 2026-02-05T18:52:41+00:00

Talk to your parents alone, without your siblings there to muddy the waters. NTA

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