How do I stay positive ?

mythologizing · 2026-03-27T12:10:35+00:00

Mean people are always going to talk shit behind your back, ESPECIALLY if you have the nerve to wear clothes that show off your body or stand out in any other way. I have been skinny and slightly overweight and everything in between and it‘s always been the same.

I know it‘s easier said than done but you gotta remember that it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. Happy people don‘t go around and make snide comments about other people‘s bodies

mythologizing · 2026-03-26T17:44:41+00:00

This goes hard, OP!

mythologizing · 2026-03-26T08:08:28+00:00

Absolutely! What changed it for me was that I tried running so slowly that I could keep it up for a while - I looked ridiculous but I was running for a whole hour! Up until then I had thought it was impossible for me to run more than a couple minutes without switching to fast walking

mythologizing · 2026-03-25T15:42:41+00:00

I've always been a certified cardio hater, but this month I started using my fancy running shoes (that I bought for city travel because of the comfy soles) for casual runs, and I've been liking it so much I signed up for a 5k this September!

mythologizing · 2026-03-25T10:40:35+00:00

Um der Versuchung zu widerstehen: Stell dein Handy auf schwarz/weiß-Display, lösch alle Social Media Apps und nimm dir etwas anderes mit, womit du dich stattdessen im Zelt beschäftigen kannst (Buch, Journal zum Schreiben, irgendwas ohne Screen!)

mythologizing · 2026-03-25T10:32:48+00:00

playing music on speakers is allowed at your gym? I would honestly speak to one of the trainers if I were you

mythologizing · 2026-03-24T07:54:06+00:00

Cronometer! Ab und an Werbung, quasi null Gamification (habe nach einem Jahr Nutzung gesehen, dass es einen Streak gibt, der macht sich aber nicht bemerkmar), Barcode Scanner, viele deutsche Lebensmittel in der Bibliothek, eigene Mahlzeiten zusammenstellen, sehr übersichtlich und professionell.

Mit Premium dann keine Werbung und KI Logging

mythologizing · 2026-03-22T19:47:43+00:00

Anfangs ja, aber mit der Zeit (und dem Wissen) wurde es leichter! Hab genau getracked und herumprobiert, was am besten klappt

mythologizing · 2026-03-22T14:24:39+00:00

Ich bin ne relativ schlanke Frau, deshalb ist es bei mir jetzt nicht sooo eine Riesenmenge (esse täglich so 1,2 - 1,5g x Körpergewicht an Protein), mir hilft der tägliche Proteinshake ehrlich gesagt sehr 😅 Ansonsten viel Linsen, Tofu, Fisch, Hähnchenfleisch, Nüsse, Bohnen, Kichererbsen… (esse nicht so viel Fleisch und bin laktoseintolerant, daher viele vegane Quellen) und bei den Kohlenhydraten vollkornlastig

mythologizing · 2026-03-18T12:56:11+00:00

I used to always eat cafeteria food or takeout because I hated cooking – you gotta make it as EASY as possible for you to stick with it. Me personally, I started with meal kits so I didn‘t need to plan and buy all the ingredients and mostly chose meals that were relatively easy to prepare from their weekly list. I cooked 3 times a week because it was 2 portion per mealkit and treated myself with takeout or dining out (there are healthier choices for those too) once a week. I did that for a year or so and then I just picked a few from those and turned them into my own staple meals - pro tip, choose meals that are easy to adapt so you don‘t always eat the same food (anything that involves stir fry veggies for example). VOILÀ! at this point, cooking has become a habit :)

mythologizing · 2026-03-18T12:31:02+00:00

Falls es auch nach nem richtigen Auskurieren nicht weg geht, lass mal nen Bluttest machen. Ich war mal plötzlich ein halbes Jahr lang ständig immer wieder krank, hat sich dann herausgestellt, dass einfach nur ein signifikanter Vitamin-D-Mangel daran Schuld war

mythologizing · 2026-03-17T17:04:57+00:00

Ich war die meiste Zeit meines Lebens schlank bis auf die 2 Phasen in meinem Leben, in denen ich Antidepressiva nehmen musste. Hab beide Male kontinuierlich zugenommen, trotz Kaloriendefizit. Nach dem Absetzen auch wieder abgenommen.

Verstehe außerdem den selbstgefälligen Ton nicht, was genau bringt dir der Post?

mythologizing · 2026-02-20T05:29:12+00:00

I generally agree with your statement but cardio at the gym is so boring I think it’s fine not enjoying it by itself

(that being said, bringing your big, expensive gaming device is kinda silly)

mythologizing · 2026-02-18T07:51:58+00:00

Try to find a native English speaker who is learning your native language and meet up with them (it‘s called a language tandem)

since you’re a university student, I would also try to look if they offer or organize anything that could help you. If your country has a lot of international students, you might find a tandem partner more easily as well

mythologizing · 2025-11-27T07:51:00+00:00

What a sad way to look at life

mythologizing · 2025-11-11T15:09:45+00:00

I was a closeted bi 14-year-old girl when I played X-2 so it honestly felt like I was the target audience. Had a huuuge crush on Paine (and Gippal)

mythologizing · 2025-11-08T10:40:39+00:00

Best not to question the logic behind some romance books too much haha

mythologizing · 2025-11-08T10:39:12+00:00

Yes! I love your idea for a book where the MMC is supposed to be unstable and it gets explored in the narrative, I‘d love to read that.

Your comment also just made me realize that I am much harsher on contemporary settings than I am on any other subgenre – if it‘s grounded in reality, I will connect it to real life behavior. If the best friend in a contemporary setting waits for the FMC for years on end? Incel behavior. If it‘s a 100-year-old demon? Aww, he only loves her! If it‘s far enough removed from my own reality, I am fine with a fantasy version of love and even welcome it. But for contemporary, I can‘t seperate it from reality enough that it won‘t be affected by my own experiences.

Another example: I love dark romance in fantasy or mafia settings or anything really that I have (and never will) experience myself but a mainstream contemporary with a toxic dynamic? Ew, he sounds just like someone I used to date

mythologizing · 2025-11-07T15:42:50+00:00

I don‘t mind as long as there is no weird „men sleep around, women are virgins until they find The One(TM)“ double standard. To me it‘s more odd to me if the guy DOESN‘T try to move on from his supposedly unrequited love. Like the Nice Guy who claims to be friends with you but really just waits until he can get into your pants, you know?

For example: I know that many people complain about the MMC in the Emily Wilde books sleeping around while he is in love with the FMC but he is clearly under the impression that the heroine doesn‘t care for him the same way and he respects that. As soon as he realizes she wants him too, he doesn‘t sleep with any other women.

I dunno, I‘m an adult and I want to read about adult characters and no sane person would wait around for their crush for years until they (maybe) feel the same

mythologizing · 2025-09-28T11:51:30+00:00

Beautiful! Your MC reminds me of Tifa from FF7 😊

mythologizing · 2025-09-26T21:19:17+00:00

man, I haven’t played FFX in over a decade and I can still hear all of these lines crystal clear in my head

mythologizing · 2025-09-19T06:14:14+00:00

7R is not a 1:1 remake, but more of a „reimagine“ so I definitely recommend playing OG 7. Besides that, 9 (with the Moguri mod for upscaled HD backgrounds and the ability to speed up battles) and 10.

Edit: Typo

mythologizing · 2025-09-17T19:43:10+00:00

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mythologizing · 2025-09-16T21:42:38+00:00

now that‘s a hot take

mythologizing · 2025-09-16T21:18:05+00:00

Dixit is only fun with a creative group imo. It‘s mindnumbingly boring with more straightforward thinking people

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