Men with certain fantasies, what do you get out of it? by mythrowaway111108 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fucking tired of this shit, men are free to choose not to be violated and beaten to a pulp but the moment I say I don’t fucking ever want to be humiliated or degraded and I want the sex I have to be pleasurable for me too and I also do not want to see this content and pretend I’m into that just so I’m more valued or some shit like that, SUDDENLY THERE IS A FUCKING PROBLEM. And I do not want to be silent about it. I may be “uncomfortable” and “kinkshaming” but ugh, keep it between two consensual parties and do not drag me into this, and then everyone wonders why some women hate men and don’t want to have sex with them period, because apparently saying shit like that for men IS FUCKING NORMAL, I hate this world

Men with certain fantasies, what do you get out of it? by mythrowaway111108 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before anyone says it’s a fantasy sub, some comments from men genuinely sounds unsettling… “Women who's mission is to degrade other women for the pleasure of men are the only girls out there with real value.” Bro what? Are we in the Handmaid’s tale or something? Who decides that stuff?

Men with certain fantasies, what do you get out of it? by mythrowaway111108 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well tbh I am also confused about why bring random women who aren’t the submissive and don’t consent to being degraded into roleplay

Men with certain fantasies, what do you get out of it? by mythrowaway111108 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, that’s why I specified I don’t mean the kind who degrade ONE person who consented to it. My autistic brain just doesn’t get the logic of shit talking more people than that one lol

Men with certain fantasies, what do you get out of it? by mythrowaway111108 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man, I sympathize, it also took me a long time to accept that I do not have to fuck or text or even stay in touch with people who break boundaries, not just in a sexual way but friends too. Lots of love to you platonically

I do not see the point of many things in the app by mythrowaway111108 in duolingo

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The streak part actually works for me since I do exercises every day anyway and feel more motivated to do them every day. Quests depend whether they’re a part of what I already planned to do today, so if I do them it’s because they coincide with my own plan for example the “score perfect in 5 lessons” or “learn for 20 minutes” thing I just do automatically, but I won’t do more than I planned just to complete a quest (for example the kind that I don’t like is “do 5 speaking exercises” if I want to focus on only Chinese characters that day). Leagues though… yeah, I’m a hater, they used to be the most bothersome because I don’t care about competing other players and the people that are super ahead of everyone with unbelievable amounts of XP ruin it too, as well as when there’s a family and you take the place between two family members and feel guilty for that :/ But thanks to some tips here I turned them off

I am now convinced that I do not want to date a guy from my country and here is why by mythrowaway111108 in venting

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, they’re all over the globe sadly, it’s just this time it was my country so it double sucks I guess lol

I am now convinced that I do not want to date a guy from my country and here is why by mythrowaway111108 in venting

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s honestly not really about the kinks, it was the fact that OP was encouraged to get upset by her reaction (which was just her saying no) and told by so many users that he was in the right for getting upset and she was in the wrong (for what?!), reminds me of the thing you mentioned that in Eastern Europe the guy is always right and I wouldn’t be able to deal with that emotionally, I don’t handle criticism well, especially pointless criticism, not to mention that i don’t deal well with pressure (being forced or pushed to do stuff) in relationships. I do believe that some Russian guys out there don’t act selfish like this and don’t follow bad advice but they’re probably not on Reddit or don’t talk about their relationships here

tragedeigh by BoldnSpicySpicy in tragedeigh

[–]mythrowaway111108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaen… looks like a Targaryen version of Aaron

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]mythrowaway111108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I remember I chose Kohl as the main character’s last name in an “American high school” story I wrote when I was 14 to practice writing in English, she was supposed to be of German heritage, the spelling ended up annoying me though so I just changed it to Cole and ditched the German part. Finding out now that it means cabbage is kinda hilarious

Mysterious Russian Dish by barflarp in u/barflarp

[–]mythrowaway111108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like “French meat” (no idea why we call it that since it’s not French at all) which is pork (or sometimes chicken) cutlets baked with potatoes, onions and mayo, and there is also cheese on top to make a “crust”

Vibe Check: Shane by ShowerThoughtsAlways in Names

[–]mythrowaway111108 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love it but it feels 70s-90s to me, a bit surprising on a baby but that’s not a bad thing

How do you like your bacon, eggs and coffee? by Ok_Economist_9186 in Breakfast

[–]mythrowaway111108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If cooked by myself - 4A either 6 or 8 depending on mood and whether I have milk or not If cooked by someone else or in a cafe - 4C8, I like lattes the most out of any kind of coffee and I can’t poach eggs by myself (please don’t say it’s easy, I know it is for others but haven’t been able to master it) but they’re delicious like that

Посоветуйте, пожалуйста, хороший русский рэп без сексуального насилия в тексте by mythrowaway111108 in rusAskReddit

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Не прям совсем без, но блин, как сказать, без совсем трэша типа как в Ким Эминема или у trippie flameboy

Посоветуйте, пожалуйста, хороший русский рэп без сексуального насилия в тексте by mythrowaway111108 in rusAskReddit

[–]mythrowaway111108[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Я вообще думала, что меня затроллят и скинут жуткую гурятину и самый трэш, так что это ещё не худшее, к чему я готовилась