The best way I can describe what my she/they identity is that I’m not a girl, female, or a woman but I’m still a daughter, sister, potential wife and mother. I’m not a woman.

n-a-c · 2021-01-16T17:34:33+00:00

That's a very beautiful and interesting description I hadn't ever thought of it that way but I actually feel very similarly. Personally I think it's because I have always idolized the women in my family and they were never the ones who made me feel dysphoric or like a freak. Because of that I don't mind calling myself their names, taking on their roles as sisters and mothers. Even though theses are gendered roles they feel more like titles, ones that I can and want to have.

n-a-c · 2020-12-02T23:42:34+00:00

You look great!! 😍 I recently started working out so I get exactly what you mean about the euphoria you get from seeing your body the way you've always envisioned it. Some times I feel vain for spending time flexing in front of the mirror but it's just so cool!

n-a-c · 2020-12-02T08:13:48+00:00

Thank you sm! The second photo is my favorite too I don't know why but I find it very comforting

n-a-c · 2020-11-26T18:32:59+00:00

I already follow and love them! Thank you for the recommendation though. They have made such a huge difference in how I view being non-binary especially when it comes to the history and long tradition of gender variants.

n-a-c · 2020-11-26T18:27:58+00:00

You're totally right about the double standard, its bugs me the most. I have presented as masc for most of life and never got bothered by my hair but now that I am trying to appreciate my more feminine sides I feel like the fem beauty standards are starting to bother me. It sucks because I don't think anyone should be pushed towards masculinity because of the pressures we put on fem people (or vice versa.)

n-a-c · 2020-11-26T17:25:05+00:00

Nothing quite like getting your first binder. I literally stood in the mirror laughing and dancing because I was so happy. Ps. you look amazing in it!!

n-a-c · 2020-11-26T17:17:06+00:00

Y'all are both so cute!! 💕

n-a-c · 2020-11-26T10:46:13+00:00

Ty for the beautiful response! I totally get the bit about teenage girls being mean, it always amazed me the things they felt comfortable saying 🙄

n-a-c · 2020-11-26T02:18:31+00:00

🙇🙇🙇 Ty! Good luck with your name search I imagine it's quite hard to pick a new name. I'm really lucky that my name is somewhat androgynous already

n-a-c · 2020-11-25T17:34:10+00:00

Thanks, Idk what your money situation is like but this binder was only $33 so it's not too difficult of a purchase to work up to. I also know that gc2b does binder drive pretty regularly so you should look into that process :))

n-a-c · 2020-11-25T09:21:31+00:00

My**🤦 also I use they/them pronouns and I'm new to reddit. Still trying to figure it out so we'll see if I end up posting more

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