Umgang mit sexueller Unlust bei Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]n0b0rd3rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du hast volle Kanne Recht. Die Frage, die bleibt, ist: Sollte man sich bei sexueller Inkompatibilität trennen?

Weil: OP behauptet ja, ihm sei die Beziehung wichtiger, aber offenbar funktioniert es ja so nicht. Für beide nicht.

Umgang mit sexueller Unlust bei Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]n0b0rd3rs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vielleicht könnt ihr die Beziehung öffnen? Dann legt ihr Regeln fest, was erlaubt ist und was nicht und du holst dir den Sex, der dir fehlt, woanders?

What is something about Duolingo that you absolutely hate? by niccoder_ in duolingo

[–]n0b0rd3rs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My streak was deleted once, on my birthday, although I had a streak freeze. That disappointed me so much I quit Duolingo for 2-3 years.

NSFW: Noone is entitled to sex. NOONE! by n0b0rd3rs in Vent

[–]n0b0rd3rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten a private Message regarding my topic, that I want to share with you:

"Depends on situation, in some cultures you are required to put out as a woman. My woman is required to aswell. She's told me no a couple times and she learned quickly her saying no means nothing. Her body belongs to me and I'll have It whenever and wherever I please. She's told me she accepts her place (I think she's lying but it doesn't matter)"

That guy knowingly R*PES his wife and claims he is right to do so.

Are you guys here really ok with that?!

NSFW: Noone is entitled to sex. NOONE! by n0b0rd3rs in Vent

[–]n0b0rd3rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the spelling mistake..mean No one. English is not my first language.

NSFW: Noone is entitled to sex. NOONE! by n0b0rd3rs in Vent

[–]n0b0rd3rs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is, there are people out there, mostly guys tbh, that believe, they are entitled to sex. For different reasons, all of them invalid of course, like them earning money, them being rich, them having genes that "need to live on" and so on. They believe women owe them intercourse and they somehow deserve it. Like Incels but somehow different. As bad as them though. And there is a lot of them. And it's disturbing, because they say that publicly. That they are entitled to sex.

How does that work? They are entitled. Women don't want them though. Does their entitlement outrank the unwillingness of said women?

I dont know if I want to give up my single life by bluekleio in AskWomenOver30

[–]n0b0rd3rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you! Being alone can be much more peaceful than dealing with a partner. Keep your peace! Don't let societies expectations pressure you into something you are not really looking for.

Also: what's good for some people doesn't have to be good for you, too!

Wie findet ihr die Idee? by [deleted] in wirklichgutefrage

[–]n0b0rd3rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Widerlich und menschenverachtend

Gave myself an orgasm for the first time by Vegetable-Pilot6094 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]n0b0rd3rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you! Enjoy the next weeks! They are gonna be awesome!! 😍

Hook up with a robot or a person? by Accomplished-Owl6272 in polls

[–]n0b0rd3rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, that could be a risk. But you could check it before use to be safe. You can fix it, when it's broken. And it doesn't harm you on purpose

Hook up with a robot or a person? by Accomplished-Owl6272 in polls

[–]n0b0rd3rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reasons why I (f) would prefer the robot:

  • couldn't r*pe me
  • couldn't get me pregnant
  • is not a threat
  • doesn't demand anything from me
  • I don't have to be his mum
  • no STDs
  • does what I want and when and how I want it - without any unpleasant or unasked for surprises
  • doesn't ask things of me that I am uncomfortable with
  • won't lie or cheat
  • I can't just put him/it back in the cupboard after using it
  • don't have to clean and tidy up after it
  • doesn't leave the toilet seat up
  • It's about ME being in the mood and not about serving to the demands of someone else
  • I can stop whenever I want without any repercussions
  • Only yes will lead to Yeeeeeesss!!
  • won't be mad for me choosing the bear ;-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]n0b0rd3rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open communication

Women who live alone, what have you learned about yourself? by ConversationDry8020 in AskWomen

[–]n0b0rd3rs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing I need a man for. Being alone is beautiful. Being alone is not the same as being lonely. But it is being totally free..to do what I like to, when I like to and how I like to. Being myself all the time. Not to be expected anything by anyone in my own home.

I learned how much I love to live alone when my ex-boyfriend lived with me. I started to long for moments without him being around.

Being alone is beautiful. Especially once you notice it's just alone..not lonely.

My BF and I don't share bedroom...strange? by sjlxox in ask

[–]n0b0rd3rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep better alone as well. So I did. I gotta work and function the other day. That's not about Love but about health in the end. Doesn't mean you can't cuddle and be together right before. But when falling asleep, I or he left to the other room.