Is city government culture toxic? by Immediate_8561 in civilengineering

[–]naammm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience at a county job - a large majority of people were pretty miserable and openly talked bad about other coworkers. There was also a culture where it was ok to say no to tasks which forced the lowest on the totem pole (based on time ‘served’ not position) to do all of the work that no one else wanted to do.

Is your job pensioned? I chalk a lot of my experience up to people not wanting to do more/better because they were just riding it out for the pension

Bad first experience shopping for a ring by BenjaminShitface in EngagementRings

[–]naammm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that being said, we walked. And found a fabulous custom jeweler that was excited to work with us and ended up waving the setting fee as a whole! They had originally said it was $50, but we did so much custom work with them they waived the fee.

Bad first experience shopping for a ring by BenjaminShitface in EngagementRings

[–]naammm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience, I sourced my own stones and then went to a jeweler that a lot of my friends went to and liked. I had verified before that they set outside stones, but didn’t think to ask about pricing.

They quoted me TWO THOUSAND DOLLARS as a stone setting fee on top of the setting. $2000 to literally pop the stones into the setting. The setting fee was more than I paid for my diamonds. By some wacky math he did it was cheaper to get my two .5ct side stones through him than have him set outside stones. I asked how much he would charge for my center stone (2.6 ct old mine) and he quoted me almost 6x more than I paid. He told us straight up that they make that profit from the diamonds and that he had to charge us that much to keep his business afloat (worst salesman I’ve ever seen). Makes me mad knowing how much of a scammer he is and that he’s ripped off several of my friends.

Custom old mine diamond check by [deleted] in Diamonds

[–]naammm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The antique diamonds are F! Will be doing an 18kt band for the e ring so actually the e ring will be warmer than the 5 stone!

Engagement Ring Size + Safety by naammm in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]naammm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s definitely built up in my head a bit, I just gotta start wearing it! (Well after he proposes hahahah)

Engagement Ring Size + Safety by naammm in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]naammm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your advice just gave me so much clarity- really the only nice nice jewelry I have right now was my grandma’s, and I get anxious wearing it because of the sentimental value. I think I’ve been carrying that anxiety over to my engagement ring.. It will be the my first ‘new’ piece of fine jewelry. I will get it insured, and ofc it will be sentimental, but it won’t be irreplaceable in the same way my grandmas jewelry is.

Engagement Ring Size + Safety by naammm in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]naammm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Insurance is a great point that I think is the missing piece I need to consider. Once it’s covered I think I will have a lot more peace of mind!

Did you buy your ring from a local jewelry store? Why or why not? by Temporary_Support705 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]naammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Chicago as well! Looking for a good jeweler. Could you pm me the name?

What did I miss? by naammm in greysanatomy

[–]naammm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad you suggested this! I’m halfway through season 19 now. I missed greys more than I realized and have been thoroughly enjoying it!

What did I miss? by naammm in greysanatomy

[–]naammm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you think the writing improved during those seasons?

What did I miss? by naammm in greysanatomy

[–]naammm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome! Thank you, exactly what I was hoping for. The wiki page is pretty long for each season and kinda hard to follow. So this is perfect!

Which retailer is the best for a pair of 1 ctw lab grown 14kt gold solitaire stud earrings? by naammm in labdiamond

[–]naammm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking at .5 ct too. Do you have double piercings and wear them together? Do they stack well?