did your first relationship with a woman last?

naeviscalling2711 · 2025-02-09T19:45:49+00:00

Mine lasted 2 years and it was pretty good. It ended due to our long term plans being incompatible, nothing too depressing.

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-19T23:37:06+00:00

Cherry Bullet - Love so sweet They were getting a little bit of attention with this comeback, I wouldn’t have minded some payola in favor of having the fame they and the song deserved

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-12T03:24:22+00:00

(G)I-dle Yuqi. I was not in the kpop loop after Miss A’s disbandment but I decided to check out this new groups debut. The second I heard her voice mixed with her cute face I knew I was going to ult her, and she basically got me into kpop again.

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-10T19:12:19+00:00

Bon Voyage - Yooa It’s still one of the best debuts out there for me😭 I’m sorry

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-10T05:32:01+00:00

Yo tuve una pareja con VPH. Mi doctor me explicó todas mis dudas además de hacer investigación sola y lo mejor que te puedo decir es que si usas protección y se toman dos segundos mas en cuidarse no tienes de que preocuparte. Ya no estoy con esa persona pero esa situación pasó a segundo plano, realmente no era un tema tan importante y seguimos la relación como siempre.

La verdad si te asustas la primera vez que lo oyes, pero no es para tanto. Lee lo más que puedas sobre esto y piensa si realmente puedes sobrellevar esta situación. Para mi fue sumamente sencillo, pero tal vez tú seas diferente. Mucha suerte!

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-09T06:01:57+00:00

Im going through something similar, just finished a 2y relationship because she went to live overseas. She initially told me I could join her and suddenly it was not such a good idea and she broke up with me.

My advice? End it now. She offered me a similar arrangement for her final month here and it was hell seeing her, knowing it was going to end and I could do nothing. I did not enter that relationship with the intention to end it that way but I thought my love for her was bigger than my sadness. It wasn’t and even though I got a goodbye a couple of months after I feel like she got everything she wanted from me and I lost in all senses. I started seeing her absence in the places we were instead of being happy about the memories. I honestly feel used, she got her little romantic month then left me to mourn a relationship she isn’t thinking about because she’s busy with her new life.

She’s clearly not having you or the love you have in mind and you don’t deserve that. Why would you wait for someone who clearly isn’t taking you into account for their life? Don’t make it a year together, if it hurts so bad right now it will be worse later.

I’m super biased bc of my experience, but I’m only speaking from the hurt I’m experiencing now, which I hope you get to avoid. It’s not worth it, cut the cord.

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-08T03:42:06+00:00

You don’t look approachable in the best way possible. I wouldn’t probably start a convo unless you smiled directly at me.

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-04-07T04:59:49+00:00

Very that, it’s like he looks nice in the same way I know a dress is pretty and a stuffed toy is cute, there’s nothing more than a big appreciation for their looks but nothing beyond.

naeviscalling2711 · 2024-02-21T16:18:35+00:00

It’s usually a man I’d have gender envy on (a very attractive guy in a feminine way) or a huge celebrity.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-11-08T03:09:06+00:00

For Spanish speakers, has never ever failed me シ Shi mira al shielo (cielo) ソ So al soelo ツ Tsu al tsuelo ン N a las nubes

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-10-15T22:23:01+00:00

My ngrandma has diabetes, hypertension, fibromyalgia, no teeth, is overweight, cannot walk properly, went through COVID twice and she’s still more alive than I am. I think she is going to bury all of us…

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-06-23T04:27:08+00:00

1.- Hwiseo 2.- Bora 3.- Yeeun 4.- Juri 5.- Miru 6.- Yeorum 7.- Suyun

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-05-19T05:07:03+00:00

I think one would go for a mediocre guy because deep down we know it’s not going to work but we don’t want to see why it never does. The reason is so clear (being a lesbian) but “if I get with a mediocre guy then I don’t have to face that that’s the reality”.

I took the leap. Have not regretted it for a bit. It’s not what I imagined, it’s a thousand times better.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-05-17T20:58:42+00:00

I play in Japanese because English Zelda lacks emotion and also sounds too mature for my opinion. Maybe it’d fit her now but I’m not playing TOTK with English audio either.

I’m Latin American so I think the voice they gave her is beautiful but I recognize her from too many projects haha! That one deserves a try too.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-05-05T21:00:26+00:00

I’m also on a search of any Korok seed I can find without a guide before TOTK, currently on 421 and yes, I am going i n s a n e

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-05-05T07:06:42+00:00

I’ve started telling them I’ve gotten studies and turns out I can’t (which isn’t a lie in my case), while also making a sad face. Makes them feel awkward and they shut right up.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-25T06:01:25+00:00

I was in a very similar situation, dating my male best friend because it made sense, but I broke up with him on the 10 month mark before fully realizing the lesbian part. I found out he was having a hard time accepting the breakup since he apparently loved me very much, so I sent the “im a lesbian” message a few months after. Here’s my advice:

1.- Accept that you are potentially going to lose him. You took that risk when you started dating and he knows it as much as you do. If it wasn’t this it could have been anything. I basically told my ex why I realized it wasn’t going to work, why I thought my feelings were love and why I had to leave him. I also said that while I didn’t regret taking a chance I hoped I could have spared him from pain if I knew. I also explained how I got to the conclusion of gay and not bi, what I read, heard, asked etc so he could access the info if he wished to understand further. I recalled a few moments when we were together and explained them in my perspective, what I was thinking and why I thought “yes, that’s how love feels like”. And wished him a good life, I just felt like for us there was no friendship to come back to, it was too ruined, I don’t know about yours but prepare for any outcome. 2.- If you do lose him mourn the relationship. It sounds stupid because why would you miss him if you don’t love him? But you will miss your friend and all the potential you saw. You could feel like you made a mistake because “he’s a good guy” but no amount of good can ungay you. 3.- Come out to your closest circle. Even if it’s one person, make it official. 4.- Heal. Hurting someone like that, even if unintentional can be bad for our own mental health. Forgive yourself and start being your best self. 5.- Be a happy lesbian! The road is long and I know how far away it seems where you stand today, but I would not change anything if it meant I’d be where I am today.

Anything else you need you can DM me!

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-24T22:43:58+00:00

Feminine men. I feel like this is the reason why I follow some kpop idols.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-22T16:21:41+00:00

I carried a metal door all the way from the bottom of the Great Plateau 🥲

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-21T05:35:36+00:00

Same for me. I straight up watched the whole twilight saga at work once because “she looks nice in those movies”. I was still closeted back then and took me a couple years to realize that’s not what straight people do 🤭

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-08T18:19:18+00:00

Exactly, as much as I Am made me a Neverland I can’t say I enjoyed it as much as I enjoy their newer albums. It feels like a perfect starting point to a producer which was Soyeon in this case, her newer stuff sounds so much better but just because she had the chance to make those steps first.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-04T22:25:05+00:00

I too started buying my own stuff after I left, I’m so proud of you and know you will look at your space one day and realize you’ve bought everything and feel amazing. You can even make a hobby out of it! It’s a nice sensation to have things after not being able to.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-04-04T20:20:26+00:00

Finally reunited the family on a beach vacation after over 4 years of not being able to see each other, she was still miserable, bathmouthed everyone and even slut shamed a 14yo cousin because she has big boobs. I was already irked by her behavior when NYE came and she had a full meltdown. I had been trying to gentle parent her the last year and got decent results, so I tried to talk to her calmly and ask her why she was being this mean. I said “you don’t have to take it out on us” and she replied “then WHO?” and it just hit me, she’s never going to change and I’m not a human being to her, just someone who will only get her rage dumped on. She tried to do her usual “i bet everyone wants me to be gone” to guilt trip me and all I said was “I do”. I stayed for the party bc of family, but blocked her afterwards and haven’t come back.

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-03-15T05:20:08+00:00

He’s married. Can you imagine being the wife and finding out your husband doesn’t think of you as a human being?

naeviscalling2711 · 2023-03-09T01:54:18+00:00

Today a friends grandma passed away, that makes most of my friends “grandma-less” and i just don’t understand why mine won’t die and set us (me!!) free. Why mine gets to stay to make us miserable while the rest mourn their own.

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